In marriage, should you rush into battle as a wife when you encounter something?

<> women always yearn for marriage, and after marriage, they also regard the affairs of the family as their own, not afraid of hard work, and take care of the children, husbands, and the elderly The diet and daily life of the family.

I don't want to fall behind at work, I hope to reduce the burden on my family and help my husband.

However, there is no reason for emotional matters, not that you will gain if you give, nor that you will get the understanding of your family if you give.

Especially when there are two things in a marriage, don't rush into battle, you may be very hard, but no one appreciates it.

In-law's business, don't cross your husband.

After getting married, many people feel that marrying into their in-laws' family is naturally a family, taking care of their mother-in-law's affairs, taking care of their mother-in-law, and even helping their brothers-in-law, eldest sisters, and their children.

When a man has something, women naturally feel that they should help and share it, and they should indeed help each other, but when you behave more than your husband, sometimes you have to pay attention.

After all, many times, some people take these things for granted, rather than grateful.

Especially if you help well, you may be happy, and if you don't help well, you may become a scapegoat, and it is also possible that if you help too much, your husband will be angry if you don't help.

While taking care of everything, he is angry, that is, he is tired to death and not good, and in the end he is not a person inside and outside, so it is not worth it.

So you can help with the affairs of your in-laws, but with your husband, don't be more active than him, no one is grateful if you deal with it well, and if you don't handle it well, you can talk nonsense, and the affairs of your mother-in-law's family are not better than your parents' affairs, and it is more annoying to interfere.

Worry about my husband's business.

Generally speaking, after getting married, everyone is used to taking care of everything in the family, such as the family's food, drink, housing and transportation, and some people have become the husband's "nanny", rather than the wife's partner.

However, men have become accustomed to this model, and at the same time feel that it is not easy, in fact, there is nothing wrong, but they are all from their own point of view.

Maybe many people will say, he doesn't do it, I can only do it, so at the beginning of the marriage, we must have this kind of thinking, share it together, not bear it alone.

In fact, most women are like this at the beginning, but excessive giving, sometimes not only can not be exchanged for the gratitude of your husband and children, but will make them feel that you are managing too much.

Everyone has their own business, and they should all be responsible for themselves, and learn to let go of some things, so that the relationship with each other can be more flexible.

Only by paying more attention to yourself and sharing the affairs of the family can you be more harmonious and cherish each other more.

Should. In married life, both husband and wife are the protagonists, and as a wife, they have the responsibility and obligation to dedicate themselves to marriage, and marriage is for two people, not just men.

I don't think wives should charge into battle, because it will damage the face of their husbands, and I suggest that everyone charge when their husbands can't make a decision!

I think it should be, marriage is a matter of two people, and you can't rely on each other for everything, so sometimes as a wife, you should also charge into battle, so that it can also promote the relationship between two people.

In marriage, it is not only the man who has to bear the burden of the family, but also the wife can charge for the family.

I don't think you can completely lose yourself in the family and devote all your energy to the man and the family, so that after a long time, the man will feel that this is what you should do, and the woman should enrich herself.

The last thing a woman should do in marriage is to pay too much, if you just blindly give, the man will only think that this is what you should do. Marriage, love, and family are maintained by two people's mutual attention, and both aspects need to work hard to run the family.

The first thing is not to charge when the mother-in-law is in difficulty, the most important thing is to focus on the thoughts in the husband's heart, just look at it, the second thing is that the mother-in-law is sick, don't charge, you should focus on the husband and the eldest sister, let them take care of it.