Mother and wife who is important??? To the mother and the wife who to choose

There is no necessity of comparison between the two, because there should be no contradiction between the two. If you have to choose, of course, it should be the mother who is the most important, the nature of the two is compared, the mother is unique, but the wife is optional, no one can choose their mother, but they can choose their own wife; The reliability of the two, the mother is always reliable, there is an old saying: the tiger poison does not eat the child, and there are also clouds:

Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes, and there is no need to delve into it, there are many examples in real life; As far as feelings are concerned, the feelings given by the mother are selfless, giving life, and at the same time nurturing themselves, no matter at any time and under any circumstances, they will be towards yourself, while the feelings given by the wife are based on the material, if you have no ability, you will not have a wife, and you don't have to simply believe in love; What will always tolerate you is family affection, but love can't tolerate half a grain of sand, people are not saints, who can be without fault? If you do something wrong, your mother will forgive you, but it is possible for your wife to leave because of this, family affection is selfless, and love is selfish ......In fact, there are many truths, in the case of family affection and love are not in conflict, you can do something that hurts family affection for love, and your mother will forgive you, but if you give up family affection for love, hehe, weigh the pros and cons, and you should be able to make a better choice.

I think it's a mother, can you live in this world without a mother? Can you get married and have children? Oh, how did I say, we should grow up and honor them.

Mother and wife, who should come first , this 48-year-old man tells you from experience.

The difference between a mother and a wife.

Mother's love is indeed selfless, yes, but the wife's love requires reciprocity. However, no matter how great a mother is, she can only give her son maternal love. And a wise wife's love for her husband can not only be a mother's love of caressing her son, but also a daughter's coquettish love like a father's attachment, or a wife's gentle love for her husband, and her charming love for her lover, which is the broadest and most extensive love in the world.

The man said that his mother gave him life, his wife gave him life, life is only once, and life you can give it if you don't give it to others. However, people not only want to live, but also to live happily, without a happy life, the most dazzling flower of life will wither. Life is precious, but the woman who gives you a happy life is also precious.

In this way, men often compare their dearest mothers with their dearest wives, but they don't know that it is their comparison that directs the two women who are originally kind and love themselves, and start a war of light or darkness in order to compete for love.

Secretly compare the price paid. Actually, these are two different kinds of love. Every man is afraid that he will be detained as a daughter-in-law and forget his mother's hat, filial piety and filial piety, no Shun, how to talk about filial piety.

In order to make his daughter-in-law filial to her mother like that, a man deliberately supports his wife to show his unique position as a man in the family. But they only forgot that a daughter-in-law's love for her mother-in-law originally stemmed from her love for her husband, and only by drawing love from her husband would they really willingly take her mother-in-law as their own mother. If you ignore their feelings, any tricks to please each other are delusional.

Actually, you have to do it, but mom is generally better for you. If only my wife was so good, it would be nice to you. There's a lot less to do. At least I feel like my mom is good to me. That's important, in fact, it's all important.

It's up to you! I remember reading a report about a foreigner's answer to the question of which mother and wife would be rescued first if they fell into the water. He said that he would choose to save his wife because his wife could accompany him for the rest of his life, while his mother would not.

But the Chinese are filial piety first, so most of them can choose their mothers. Personal understanding cannot be taken seriously.

Don't you have an answer in your heart? If you love your wife, how can you think that your mother is not important, and if you love your mother, how can you feel that your wife is not important! In fact, you can balance the relationship in the middle, the living room godson, the room godwife, don't forget, you are also parents!

According to psychological research, most people will choose their mother, because after all, their mother gave birth to you and raised you!

Without a mother, there would be no you. Without you, there would be no wife! Who do you say matters? To be grateful, we must know how to be grateful. Don't forget the original intention

It's like the problem of falling into the water.