Immersed in pain and unable to extricate yourself!

Updated on psychology 2024-03-04
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, I don't think you're missing it, people say miss a good person, it means that you used to love each other very much and experienced true feelings for each other, but you didn't really have a good time between you, but just your wishful thinking, so I think it's not a miss, it's that you think he's very good in a very emotional situation, but she never thought about what to do with you, it's just that you're struggling alone, so it's not worth it, want to open some, after a long time, you will meet someone who is more worthy of you to pay so much for her! Good luck with you soon!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really love her! You should prove to be better than the man ... And even more ...

    Very much - love her! Although she is not with you, you have to make a move, get along for 1 year. You should be able to understand her character.

    Temper. Take action with all the things you understand about her, and I wish you a lot of time with the person you really love!

    Other than that. No matter how much pressure you have, you have to hold on. It doesn't matter what others say. What eyes do you look at ... All have to hold on!

    I wish you a happy time with the person you really love!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I am inexperienced, there is no way, I can only comfort you, think about it, you should be fulfilled by her, let her, she will remember you, I hope you can get rid of the pain as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hehe, there's no other way but not to think about it. Time will dilute everything.

    Men want to live with backbone, it is a waste of time to be in love with children, and it will be looked down upon, and when you have a successful career one day, you are afraid that there will be no woman, and everything will be seen at that time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is she perfect, you think more about her shortcomings, and the reason why you can't live well together in the future, it's not for you to lie to yourself, since you have come to this point, there must be reasons for this, you just think about it more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Life is always like this, when you have it, you don't know how to cherish it, only when you are born, you will be heartbroken and regretful, because that is your favorite!

    Be strong, everything is impermanent, and I hope you can cherish what you have in the future. Alas!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, it is time to be satisfied that this society can experience a true love! I don't approve of you continuing to pursue her, once a girl has a decision in this regard, she will not change it easily!

    Wake up, she doesn't love you anymore!

    It's cruel, but it's better than lying to yourself in your memories!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You've just lost her person, and he's lost a true lover's heart, as if you shouldn't be in pain.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe this woman really doesn't deserve love, sometimes giving up is also a way to get rid of it, and being kind to yourself is equally important!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have a psychological disorder, maybe she doesn't deserve your love at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The feeling of love.

    The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally not lonely, at least one person thinks of you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good... Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to find the right one for you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? If he suits you, will you fit him?

    In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, and start grinding? Many people think that it is because their feelings are weak, so they will become slow and hanging. Wrong!

    Love should not only know how to be tolerant but also timely, many things may just lie in the change of mood! When someone falls in love with you and you think they're good. That doesn't mean you're going to choose him.

    But you cannot answer him, because you do not know it. That's right, sometimes I always think that I will find someone I love very much. But later, when I look back, I realize how naïve I was, if I never started, how do I know if I will love that person very much?

    In fact, the feeling of loving and loving is something that you will only discover after you have experienced many things together.

    I hope you can face your own future, believe in yourself, and only find your own happiness is the most important thing. Life will become happier because of loving and being loved, and life will become more colorful because of loving and being loved, I hope your life is wonderful! You can get out of that dark road now, the road ahead is bright, believe in yourself, I'll cheer you on!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you can smile and remember your past.

    You should remember the wonderful memories you made together.

    However, if you can't let go of the past, you should learn to forget.

    Until you can no longer be stabbed by the past.

    You can't forget it, and you don't want to remember it! What to do? Then hide it deep in your heart! Let the good things of the past become memories!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Time will heal your wounds.

    Lock memories into the Love Storehouse.

    Tomorrow will be fine.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Looking at the greenery and listening to the cheerful singing will eliminate a lot of worries.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, the death of my mother, as long as it is a person, will be sad, but you can think about it, birth, old age, sickness and death are all things that must be experienced as a life. No matter how much you love your mother or how much your mother loves you, you will always face parting. But there is one thing, although your mother has left you, there must be many other people around you who love you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Time is the best medicine, and it will get better slowly.

    This thing is crying and sad, sad and sad, human nature.

    But you also have to think that whoever doesn't die in this world will, including yourself, so you have to slowly adjust your mentality.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    People cannot be resurrected after death, but can only mourn and change. Mother in Heaven doesn't want to see you in pain. You have to comfort yourself, get out of this psychological shadow, and face life bravely, because life has to go on, and it is also your mother's wish to live well.

    Moreover, the natural law of birth, old age, sickness and death is irresistible. Be brave and come out!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The death of the mother is sad, and every child is like this. But people can't be resurrected after death, birth, old age, sickness and death are common, and besides, your mother will eventually leave you when she is old, you must cheer up and face the reality. Let time slowly wear away the painful memories.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Give this person a supporting idea, recite Buddhist scriptures and dedicate them to his mother, which can bring very great blessings to his mother, so that his mother will no longer suffer and no longer be reincarnated, and practice in front of Buddhas and Bodhisattvas.

    As long as you recite the Buddha and do good deeds, your mother can feel it...

    You can also go to see a counselor, the teacher can help this friend out...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Ay! I'm in the same situation as you, and I came in to solve it, and what you're talking about seems to be me, and sometimes I have some selective amnesia and forget about it, I think it's better to be a fool, don't live too sober, too sober, very tired, very envious of those foolish people who do wrong things and don't know about them, Besides, people's lives are broadcast live every day, there is no rehearsal, and mistakes can't be repeated, thinking about it this way, there should actually be many people who have done a lot of wrong things, not just you and me, but others let go and don't dwell on these past events, which is also my own comfort to myself I'm in the mood most of the time, and I can occasionally have a nervous break.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't be stupid, it's best to live and ignore the fact that others look down on you. You just have to look up to yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're a little hesitant, go out and travel, if it really doesn't work, it's better to find a psychiatrist to see it, otherwise you'll be very bad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't think too much, everyone makes mistakes, as long as you don't make the same mistakes in the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let time dilute everything, give the greatest space and time to pain, give him the greatest spiritual encouragement, recall some good past events together in an appropriate amount, or change the environment and go to travel to relax!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you're a man, drink to get rid of your sorrows!

    Think about the happy things!

    If I didn't guess, you must be emotionally problematic!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Cheer up and start over.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The ability to perceive happiness needs setbacks to cultivate. But think about it this way, if you lose your horse and know whether you are blessed, you will get better, when you meet others in the future, don't always refuse, you must be good at finding the good of others, so that you know how to cherish, I wish you happiness!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Women don't have judgment, and that's not your fault. If you miss it, just miss it, or it won't make up. Just take it as experience.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some people, in the bottom of my heart. Can be recalled, but cannot be returned. Cherish the present and bury the past in the years.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hurry up and talk about one, and slowly forget about it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's go on a trip and learn to enlighten yourself!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Now that the matter has passed, why can't you let it go, is it useful to yourself if you can't let it go? He should say that he can't think about the money spent by his ex-girlfriend, you can tell him that the money is spent, and you can earn it back through your own efforts, but your health is not good, how do you make money, the body is the capital of the revolution, you must let go of what you should put down, as long as you don't give up on yourself, others will never be able to give up on you, encourage him to stand up again.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think you two should sit down and have a good talk, it's not responsible for you every day, if you really care about him, you should help him get out of the shadows, anything can be wiped out by time, this process may be painful but the future will be good after you help him come out, I think it is necessary for the two of you to have a good chat, spread out everything, otherwise such a depressed life will fail sooner or later, the important thing is to hurt him and hurt yourself!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In the past has always been the way you walked, and you couldn't go back, lessons and strength; Now you have to face it, make the most of it; Then the future is your hope and vision, who can't live without ideals.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Now it's up to you to get your boyfriend back in faith.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You still have love, and you can only feel it when you are separated, and plainness is true. Your girlfriend has given you so much, you should be content, stretch out your hands, and keep your love. In the days to come, you will feel how right this decision was.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Sometimes I think guys are really stupid.

    It is absolutely impossible for a girl to have a person who has loved her deeply, and she wants to give up at all, and it is a girl's specialty to talk back.

    The more you say don't get in touch, the more I hope you take the initiative to contact, saying that the breakup is of course hoping that you will make amends, and he is the person you love so much, you are really stupid.

    From my girl's point of view, your girlfriend can't really want to break up, you should do your best to redeem it, at least do what you need to do, and you won't regret breaking up.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's not necessarily wrong to be separated.

    When you calmly ask yourself, is she worthy of your love, do you really love her?

    Ask yourself again, are you worthy of her love?

    When you know these questions, you know the answers.

    Maybe start to be painful.

    But long pain is better than short pain. Maybe you'll find a better one that way. Instead of dwelling on it for a lifetime.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    1.Reflect on how much you have invested in the relationship between the two of youSincerely offer her to retain and confess.

    3.Marriage is a woman's greatest hope and the most down-to-earth belonging.

    4.Or give her a marriage commitment.

    5.There is nothing, only her contribution and your enjoyment and not cherishing, that is naturally tired and bored.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Maybe you both feel each other's oppression and feel the shackles placed on each other, but because of this, you know how much you care about each other. Can you hear how relieved she really is? Are you really sure that she wants to let go of this affection so much?

    ……Okay, take 10,000 steps back, even if it's, what about you? From today when you are still in pain, still entangled with this feeling, can't you still explain what kind of place this feeling has in your heart?

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Falling out of love will always pass, and as time goes by, the original love and hatred will slowly fade away.

    I think you understand this truth, but at the current juncture, you feel that it is very difficult. In fact, if you really can't let go, then why not follow your own wishes to keep it? Think about why the two of them have come to this day, try to find a breakthrough to solve the problem, and then keep it.

    Although retention may not necessarily lead to results, at least it will not be so tiring to go along with your wishes. I have been chasing and working hard, and if I can get it back, it will be great. If you can't, at least you can make yourself die.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Your mind has lost an emotional sustenance, so you feel lonely and miserable. You should find another heart.

    The sustenance of the spirit, it can be another girlfriend, it can also be a career, of course, it is best to be able to be with a lot.

    Friendly people to contact and spend a happy time in a welcoming environment, such as volunteering or participating in anything.

    O group activity, keep yourself busy with a happy business, and those painful feelings will naturally be reduced.

    After stepping out of this shadow, you will also meet true love!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I've tried it before, too. It's really not cool. **Method.

    1 Hold the flowers and impress her with your sincerity.

    2 Find another one better than her. Forget about her.

    3 Time washes everything.

    4 Imagine that you are a prodigal son, and that you have no interest in love.

    5 Watch a few movies by Chen Baixiang, Stephen Chow, and Wufuxing.

    6 Listen to it a few times until the end of the world and sing it louder again.

    7 Buy a sandbag and come back and beat her wildly, hit the six-pack abs and forget about her.

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