Are elderly people who help their children with children really happy? How did they live in their la

Some are happy. Some elderly people think that taking care of children can not only help their children reduce stress, but also make themselves less lonely. Their later years can be said to be relatively happy, because their lives are enriched by the participation of their children.

The elderly who help their children with children are not very happy, their old age is very simple, and they do not enjoy their own life.

Unhappiness because: first, there are great differences between the old and the young in parenting, and it is inevitable that there will be quarrels; Second, the elderly and young people have different life and rest schedules, and they are not suitable for each other; 3. Young people will feel that it is natural for the elderly to help with the baby, and they don't know how to bring the baby. Many elderly people still live their own life in their old age, which is more relaxed and happy.

In life, it is a moral responsibility for children to take care of their parents. And for parents, it is also a moral responsibility to help their children with their children. In this interrelated relationship of responsibility, children should respect the wishes of the elderly as much as possible, while also taking into account the actual situation of the elderly.

If the elderly are in good physical condition, have a stable psychological state, and can accept work with children, then the children can provide a certain degree of living and material support for the elderly, but generally do not need to pay additional fees. However, if the elderly are in poor physical condition or need to pay special attention to rest and diet, etc., and need to bear additional responsibilities and risks, then it is necessary to pay some additional fees to show respect and gratitude to the elderly. From a legal point of view, at present, there is no clear provision in China that children need to pay for the elderly and children.

However, if there is a written agreement between the child and the elderly, or an oral agreement is reached in the presence of witnesses such as relatives, neighbors, lawyers, etc., then such an agreement has certain legal force. At the same time, when signing the agreement, the children need to take into account the actual situation and ability of the elderly, ensure that the elderly can be competent to take care of the work of the children, and avoid false situations in the agreement. If an elderly person can afford to take care of a child, and the child refuses to pay the expenses, it can lead to disputes between the parties and even lead to an escalation of family conflicts.

Knowing one's own situation and that of the enemy. No matter who we communicate with, we must have an in-depth understanding of each other in advance, so that it is simpler and easier to talk, if we don't know who we are communicating with before the trip, then how can we communicate more smoothly and happily, and sincerely.