What to do when a gay person is found out by his parents?

Updated on society 2024-03-15
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is expected that such feelings will be discovered by parents.

    Try to hide what you can, and try to hide what you can.

    Your parents love you, and they may accept it for your sake over time.

    In fact, I suggest that if you can be in a normal relationship, you still have to make yourself a normal person.

    This road. It's not easy to walk...

    Can you guarantee that she will always be with you? Don't say she can.

    Don't wait until you've been together for a long time, and she will return to normal after you have completely become a person of the same sex.

    This is to be expected.

    Remember, your way. And it won't be too surprising.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everything is fate, don't give up your feelings, it's really hard to find someone you love in this circle!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go your own way and be yourself.

    You can get a gay man to marry, and a lot of people do.

    Anyway, this road is painful, if you can't stand it, you will retreat.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you love your husband?

    Do you love your parents?

    If all who love love it.

    Do they all love you?

    Ask your parents why they separated you!

    What are they raising children for!

    If it's to make you happy, then your husband can give it to you! They can't object!

    If the reason for their opposition is simply the fear of being looked down upon, that's another story! The premise is that your husband is not playing!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now China still doesn't recognize gay people, without the shackles of marriage, can you and him live a lifetime?

    Your parents raised you, and you want to repay them like that?

    If you really want to choose, my advice is parents.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's best to find a psychiatrist for information, and the two of you can talk about it, after all, it's a lifelong thing!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Keep explaining. Keep up the good work. It's hard for parents to accept such things. Time is of the essence. Good luck.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't put yourself in endless pain.

    Feelings that are destined not to be blessed will only become more and more sad.

    Give it up!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Should. Many people (not just young people) will find it difficult to talk about sex with their families. But sometimes parents are the best people to talk to.

    When it comes to sex, friends probably don't know more than you do, and the internet doesn't necessarily give you all the advice you need. If you are worried about how to tell your parents about your sexuality. For example, if you don't know how to tell your parents that you're gay, here are some suggestions that may help.

    Research shows that for gay children who come out openly, having a strong relationship with their parents is beneficial for their mental health and self-esteem and may protect them from suicidal emotions, substance abuse, and risky sexual behaviors. Confessing to his parents (who didn't say no) relieved the child and helped him solidify his identity as a gay and lesbian. Some parents find that the coming out of their son or daughter actually makes the family closer and stronger than ever before.

    Before talking to your parents, it may be helpful to jot down your thoughts or record your own conversations. This means that you can explore your thoughts ahead of time, and you'll have a very clear idea of what you want to say or what questions you want to ask. You may be frustrated by your parents' speculation about your sexuality.

    Choose a time and place, choose who you want to tell if you want to tell your parents about your sexuality, and make sure you are not interrupted or distracted. Ask your parents when it's a good time to talk and go somewhere you feel comfortable. Maybe there won't be a perfect time, but try to choose a moment where you can relax and focus on what you want to say.

    Also, if parents are having a stressful day at work and the day may not be the best time to get close to them, you can also try to understand their mood because the way they react is more about stress at work than because of you. If you feel it's best to talk to only one parent about your sexuality, ask to talk to it alone.

    They may have questions to ask, so be prepared and try to get them. If they react beyond your expectations, or say something you don't like, you can tell them you want to stop the conversation and talk to them another day. It may take a few days for them to get used to what you're telling them.

    Talk about what happens next. Your sexuality is your own. If you don't want your parents to tell anyone else (such as other family members) yet, then you need to be very aware of this and ask them to respect your wishes.

    Keep the conversation open and prepare for future conversations. You can even arrange to have another conversation with them very quickly. That way, you can go to them with more questions, and they can do the same.

    If everyone opens up to each other, you'll feel a lot better.

    Be kind to yourself. Tell yourself that you are taking a positive step in life. It doesn't matter if the conversation with your parents went well or if there's still something to do, be proud that you did it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Marriage to the opposite sex is certain, this cannot be withoutThere's nothing wrong with being gay, but you can't object to marrying the opposite sex, otherwise you will have no children and grandchildren in the future

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Take your time, the older generation is not advanced in their thinking and can't accept it, so slowly influence them and let them know what is important to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's hard to say, if you can't accept it, it is likely to embarrass the family, and then maybe you will be arrested and you will see a psychiatrist or radiotherapy, and if your parents are open-minded, it will be fine.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Nothing, the heart will go with love and be true to yourself. If your family loves you, they will tolerate everything about you. Homosexuality is not a sin, it is a normal thing, and there are many countries in the world that allow gay marriage.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let's elope, if your parents' attitude is too fierce, otherwise there is no way, is you the only one in your family?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Homosexuality is nothing, if you decide to only take this path in the future, then communicate well with your parents, they will accept it slowly, I personally do not recommend you to come out of the closet, because you bear too much! If you don't think about it, confess it to your parents, explain it first, just sleeping, and have the habit of sleeping with others. I wish you happiness and hope to adopt, thank you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    "Normal" and "heterogeneous" are two very different words that mean opposite things. Judging from your expression, the panic you showed after your family learned about your situation, it is not difficult to see that in your heart, "homosexuality" is "alien", and in today's society (including Western society), "homosexuality" and normal heterosexual love are undoubtedly two completely different behaviors. The reason why "heterogeneous" can become a class shows that no matter how abnormal things are, there will be so many people to do them.

    Can you make your own choice in the face of "homosexuality", is it to stick to your own approach and not take into account the feelings of all those who oppose you? Or do you find ways to change your mindset towards the same sex? Don't forget to remind you that:

    The vast majority of those who oppose you are your loved ones! Finally, I wish you a happy life and all the best.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Try to communicate with your parents and get their consent, besides, you don't like women, if you are forced to marry, it will hurt someone else's life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm not only gay but also in early love, now in the first year of junior high school, my girlfriend sent me flowers on Valentine's Day, my dad was suspicious, he thought the other party was a boy, and scared, and finally knew that it was a girl who didn't seem to suspect much, but my dad checked it up, and knew that it was not good, now come here to see how to deal with it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There will always be a time in our lives when we are full of uneasiness and we have no choice but to face it bravely.

    Isn't this going to be known sooner or later? It's hard enough for the barbarian parents, so it's good that the truth is revealed, and now the parents' ability to bear it is quite strong, it will always pass, and maybe you will be happy one day in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Parents are not open enough to accept their peers, and if you are willing to think about them, you should accept compromise.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Everyone's concepts and ideas are different, some people are originally girls, but they have no choice but to make people from God. Now that you have found true love, you have to communicate more with your parents, although they don't understand, but that's the way it is, you should also understand your parents, after all, they are old ideas, and there should be no such existence in their concepts.

    Your parents love you no matter what, and trust that they will understand you by expressing your thoughts and explaining them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Go to the bookstore and buy some genuine books about homosexuality, show them to your parents, give them literacy, and tell them that homosexuality is not a disease, but a congenital genetic influence. You have to talk openly and honestly, but the premise is that when your parents are calm, don't be hard with them, and learn to be soft. Parents are always parents, and after a long time, they will also accept and help you.

    The process can be lengthy and will take time for them to accept, so don't rush.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I can only give my parents an explanation, give them grandchildren.

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  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Homosexuality is normal, but it is not understood by most people, just like Leslie Cheung and Tsai Kangyong, just make it clear to your family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    First of all, I don't discriminate against homosexuals, let's talk about it objectively, I advise you to remember whether life depends on love, and the trivial things of life will wear out the original love little by little, which is the case between men and women, not to mention between the same sex, and your boyfriend divorce? Does he have children? If so, who will raise it?

    He won't look for you in the future, and your hearts will always be together? The probability of a breakup in a long-distance relationship is outrageously high, and it is good to manage the relationship carefully, support it more, and understand without doubt.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is really no way about this, the thinking of the older generation is too feudal When I was a sophomore, I also found a boyfriend, and then my parents found out that the situation was similar to yours, and I was against it at first, and then I planned to talk about it well and meet you is scolding, so after almost three or four months of cold war, they finally opened their mouths to talk, and finally reached a consensus I can find a man, but I must not find a scumbag.

    If you really love each other for this kind of thing, don't care about your parents' opinions to pursue your heart, if you still have a little doubt, you have to listen to your parents to find a girl to marry.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't understand. You're a woman, and your boyfriend is a man. Then, you got divorced.

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