My dreams were shattered by my parents, what should I do

Updated on society 2024-03-06
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh, how to say it, what your parents said is not necessarily wrong, just because of what you said, they are also businessmen, maybe they are also in business and have a long time to do this business is not good (the same, the company is intrigued, in fact, there are more transactions in the society). Their thinking is a common problem among our Chinese parents, and very few enlightened parents let their children act according to their own opinions and thinking! But on the other hand, you are still a little small, and your dreams will change with your abilities, your environment, and the friends you make, so now you don't have to be too pessimistic, too concerned about the opinions of your parents, when you graduate, you learned the communication skills when you went to college, and after the interpersonal relationship is recognized by your parents, it will be easy to do anything, and now after all, you are still a child in their eyes.

    I think you don't have a lot of ideas. Understand. If you are really a person with dreams and inhibitions, when you really have to make a decision.

    — One by one, one by one, the words of a person who also has a dream.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Doing business is actually a science, if you really want to do business, you should constantly replenish your energy and enhance your ability. So that when they see that you have to grow, they will feel comfortable letting you do what you want to do ...

    Every parent wants their child to live comfortably. Parents know their children best. So there is some truth in their words. In the business field, it will have an impact on the body and mind, how can parents harm their children

    I also have dreams, but when the setbacks I encountered were said by my parents, I found out that ginger is still old and spicy, and everyone's hardships over the years are not experienced in vain, if there is a shortcut to success, the shortcut to life is their experience that your parents and the elderly tell you.

    If you insist on yourself, then you show them your own strength.

    If you give up, then you live happily.

    Life is actually living in the present, and it is important to live happily every day now, and the future is actually too illusory. The future also depends on a little luck, so as long as the present does not change. The future is changing, isn't it too pitiful to put beautiful things in an ethereal world?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Attitude problem, if you can think like this, you won't become a wild duck when you go to Pheasant University.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone wants to realize their dreams, and any parent wants to be good for their children. However, parents are not perfect after all. Something you might do makes you feel ruined your dreams.

    I think you have to adjust your mentality first, it's good to have dreams, and every parent wants us to get better and better. No parent wants to destroy a child and wants to harm a child. Secondly:

    To analyze whether your dreams are unreasonable, so your parents don't want you to stick to your dreams, if your dreams are reasonable, you have to explain to your parents, after all, some parents are influenced by cultural ideas and have a generation gap with their children, so you must communicate patiently with your parents. At last. If your dreams are really ruined by your parents, you must face the gains and losses correctly and adjust your dreams in a timely manner.

    Although you feel bad about your parents, don't hate your parents, it's not easy for parents to raise children, parents are the only ones. Communicate well with your parents, and if they realize that they have ruined your dreams, they will say that they do not understand you, and it is the best thing to stop you. If your parents don't think it's ruining Brother Liang, your dreams will also treat ...... normallyIn short, I hope you will do it and cherish it, and keep working hard....Come on<>

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello this friend!

    Are you a boy or a girl? How old are you this year? What grade are you in right now?

    If you're in middle school or high school right now, you need to calm down and do your academic work first. If your academic performance is good, you will be able to get good results in the college entrance examination in the future. If your grades are high, you can choose to fill in some computer majors from well-known universities.

    When you graduate from college and finish graduate school, your dream of becoming a programmer is achievable.

    If you are a few years away from the college entrance examination, you don't need to argue with your parents about whether you want to be a programmer in the future. If you really want to be a programmer, you need to have a solid foundation in computer theory, and you can't do it without going to college, without going to graduate school. Therefore, the counselor advises you to study hard first, if you can't get into the ideal university, your dream will be difficult to achieve.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good if your dreams come true by yourself, why do you have to get the consent of your parents, reading is a major in blood computers anyway. Parents who go out to find a job can't interfere. Don't always be in front of them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You put your hopes in your parents, and you are a slave to your parents.

    You put it on yourself, and you can be your own master.

    The path is your own choice, and no one can force you.

    Successes are always similar, and there are always a million reasons for not succeeding.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is possible to leave the parents. Strive for the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Life is too short, how can there be time for regrets, if it is not the end, please choose to work hard; May the world be less complaining.

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