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Anonymous users2024-02-05If the introducer is a neighbor near your home or something, and there is a possibility that you will not look up and see you, then you will call the ** district to ask when you go back that day, and you must at least be prepared to be introduced to the number of people, because the introducer is likely to blame you for not knowing how to do things. However, there are many blind dates, and the numbness you feel is not difficult to understand. If you can ask earlier, there is a result, and you can be regarded as responsible for yourself.
It is recommended that when you ask **, the wording should not be too strong, and the words should be tactful, so as not to make the other party feel too embarrassed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Suitable. But not now, at least one day. Let the other person think about it. This kind of thing is not urgent.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03You have to ask, but you can't ask too abruptly! You can say that I feel good about you, and I wonder how you treat me? Is there any idea of wanting to continue!
Ask clearly, lest you get hurt yourself! But be tactful! The kind that can't hurt each other!
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Anonymous users2024-02-02There should be many people who have had the experience of blind dates. Blind dates almost have a process, two people will make an appointment to meet first, have a meal together and chat, and then determine whether to further develop, but when they meet for the first time, some people may be entangled in a question: after meeting, who should pay for the consumption of activities such as eating or watching movies?
Is it the best AA system for two people?
In fact, before the meeting, it is normal for you to have some entanglements and concerns about paying the bill. Before meeting for the first time, you usually don't know much about the other person's personality and character, and you don't know what the other person's consumption level and consumption habits are. If you rashly say that you pay for the bill, but the result may exceed your economic expectations, and after the first meeting, maybe both of you have no eye for each other, and will not develop further, then it is obvious to you that you pay is basically a loss, and it may be a big loss.
But if you are completely waiting for the other party to pay, it may affect the other party's impression of you, and maybe the other party will think that you are a stingy and advantageous person.
What about the AA system? This way seems to be the fairest, everyone shares the consumption equally, no one takes advantage of whom, even if there is no follow-up development after meeting, but the economic loss is not large, so it seems that this is indeed a better way. However, if you have a good impression of the other person when you meet for the first time, and you expect the two of you to develop further, then your act of insisting on the AA system may cause a bad hint to the other party:
You don't have a crush on each other. Maybe the other party also had a good impression of you, but because of your behavior, they retreated, which outweighed the loss.
Why do you insist on AA such a bad suggestion? Here is a social law, we can build and maintain relationships with others, in fact, we can exchange things with each other in order to sustain the relationship. For example, if a friend has a birthday, you give each other a gift, and when you celebrate your birthday, the other party also gives you something in return, so that there are contacts between you, and your relationship will become closer and closer in the process.
But if you give something to the other person and the other person doesn't say anything afterwards, you will definitely have a sense of disparity, feel that the other person does not value you so much, and then feel disappointed and angry with the other person.
And if you buy a lot of money for the other party, the other party will pay you the same price, at this time you may also be unhappy, thinking that the other party is too serious, and the money is so clear, that is, they don't treat you as a friend. In fact, this behavior of the other party, just like we go to the mall to buy something, the money and goods are clear, and we do not owe each other, but there is no emotional connection, which is the opposite of the social law, which is called the law of the market.
Therefore, if you insist on the AA system on the spot, or calculate the consumption of the day after going home, and then transfer it to the other party without any difference, to a certain extent, it is the law of the market that is used, and the other party will feel that you are so clear, you just don't want to owe the other party, and you don't want to have other connections with the other party.
Therefore, who will pay for this matter still depends on the situation, if you feel that the first time you meet the two.
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