In marriage, how will a man behave in treating you as an outsider?

I think that the performance of a man treating you as an outsider in marriage is that he has some family matters, and some previous experiences are unwilling to tell you, and he is very polite to you in life.

The first is usually a little quarrelsome, and as soon as you speak, you are told to get out, this is my house, go back to your house. The second type does not give you the salary and does not use it for the family's expenses. The third is not to take you to visit relatives during the holidays, or not to let you serve at the table when you eat at your own home.

The first manifestation is that they rarely mention your parents, and they haven't even beaten **, the second manifestation is that they say something behind their backs, never in front of you, and the third is that their family goes out to travel or eat, and never takes you with them, which proves that he doesn't treat you as a family at all, so you don't have to pay anything for him.

Not handing over the economic power to you is obviously a distrust of you. If there is anything that is not discussed with you, the decision is made by yourself, without considering your feelings at all. Treat you like a nanny and never help you with the housework.

If a man treats you as an outsider, the most common manifestation is that he doesn't care about your body and just wants you to help him work and earn money; When you quarrel with your mother-in-law, even if you are clearly right, he will side with your mother-in-law.

will not discuss the trivial matters in life with you, manage the money by himself, nor talk about money with you, and will not think about you when there is a conflict, and his family will always be more important than you.

Some women regret their marriage and wonder if it is still important for the marriage to last. Because he thinks that in this family, there is no place for everything, as if he has not integrated into this family at all, she can't intervene in family affairs, and the difference between married life and what she imagined is too far. If it is a husband and wife, then the man who looks at you really treats you as someone else, and does not regard you as a family at all.

At this time, there is no need for women to blindly give, because they are not worthy of your investment and do not treat you as family.

When the two of you are together, your husband doesn't pay any attention to your family, as if your family has nothing to do with him, which means that he is a very irresponsible man. Even if something happens to your family, you can't take responsibility for your family and can't take the risks you should take. But when you have an argument with his parents, no matter who is right or wrong, he thinks that it is you who is wrong, and this person is on the side of his parents, and will help his parents to say that you are not and accuse you together.

If a man buys that, it means that the man does not see you as a family, and he thinks that he is actually on the same front line as his family, and has nothing to do with you. No matter how good you are to her, no matter how strong your feelings are for each other, it is meaningless, and at the critical moment, he can recall it is your family.

If a man does not want to hand over his financial power after he gets married, it is not easy to tell you about his salary. And in the case of you spending money, if you can spend a little money, if you have more peonies, then you don't want to, in that case, it reflects that the man himself does not regard you as a family. A boy who really treats you as a family, before he gets married, he will take the initiative to hand over the financial power, and tell the truth about his existing financial situation, as well as his rolling income, etc.

His purpose in doing this is to not hide anything from you, he thinks that you are a family with this person, and this is something you should know, and there is nothing to hide from you. The only one who can do this is one who treats you as a family. Especially there are many boys, who are very willing to pay for their daughter-in-law, he feels that he makes money, it is for his daughter-in-law to spend, and he doesn't want his woman to suffer a little grievance in the case of living with his sister, he would rather not use it himself, but he can also give his daughter-in-law flowers, and he is a really good man, and he also deserves the name of treating you as a family.

When making decisions and being polite in life, he is also polite to accompany you in front of you, and he is very clear about everything that changes stupidity, so that he treats you as an outsider.

This is not to take you home, not to see his friends, and not to let you know about his work.

The man who is very indifferent to you, never shares his daily life with you, always cheats on you, hides you and hurts you, doesn't treat you as his own.

In marriage, what usually makes a woman more sad is that she feels like a superfluous being. can't be spoiled in men, can't be recognized in mothers-in-law, and even the most beloved children, because of the instigation of these people, they have to avoid it since then. The saddest women, like this, are relatives and friends when they go to their parents' house, and outsiders when they return to their mother-in-law's house, the world is big, but they don't have a home of their own.

It stands to reason that when you get married, you are a family, and it will treat you as a loved one and treat you with sincerity. It will also make you clear about your true situation of repentance, life is something you have to plan, a man who treats you as his own person will not tell you the truth about it, and you bear family responsibilities, instead of having a sensitive book of concealment to yourself, not letting you know the real situation. We all know that in married life, the man hides from you, and the problem of his assets is to treat you as an outsider.

I don't treat each other as a family, so I naturally don't need to discuss anything with you, but I really don't understand why we have to live together every day if that's the case. Why don't you just let the other party go, and let yourself go.

A man who loves you will smile at fifty steps and smile at a hundred steps, no matter what your family is like, what your good friends are, he is willing to get along with them for you, because we are your past and a part of you. Whether a man loves you or not depends on whether he has you in his heart, and he doesn't take into account your feelings, hoping that you can choose someone who understands you from the beginning, and you don't have to let yourself fall into an emotional predicament.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem, mainly in the mentality of men, men handle it well, maybe they can get along well, if they are not handled well, it will make the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law worse and worse. Naturally, one of the most chilling phenomena is not that your mother-in-law makes things difficult for you, but that the man does not regard you as his own person at all, and if there is a contradiction, he will focus on what his parents say about your mistakes. In fact, it is because he does not treat you as his own person, but treats you as an outsider, and if there is any problem, he must be to his own parents, not to this outsider.

1. Don't let you know about his property.

Property is a personal hidden file pickpocketing issue, when you talk about love, you can not let the other party know your income and property, but after marriage is husband and wife, legally speaking, all the property obtained after marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, whether it is the husband or the wife have the right to know the other party's income.

2. Emphasize to you that the house is his.

For most women, after getting married, they live with a man, either in the house bought by the man's family with the man's name written on it, or in the in-laws' house with the man.

If a man doesn't treat your affairs as his business and cares about you after marrying you, it proves that in his eyes, you are still an outsider. Mausoleum.

My mother, our family, your parents, these words are actually each other's bad words, and I will feel uncomfortable when I hear it, but Zen Jinneng still feels that he and his parents are a family in his heart, and you are not a part of that family.

In marriage, if a man treats you as an outsider, he will behave in these ways.

If men regard themselves as outsiders, they will definitely not take themselves seriously, and they do not particularly care about themselves, and there are some things they will not tell themselves, but they are buried deep in their hearts.

When they have something, they don't discuss it with you, they always make their own decisions, and they always tell their mothers some secrets, and they won't let you know that such a man treats you as an outsider.

The man who always treats you as an outsider in his marriage will treat you like the one described below. 1. I won't give you the money I earned, and I won't tell you if I don't come back to eat. Second, you should do what you do, and you don't feel distressed at all. 3. Speak silently, as if you owe him money.

Such a man may be very indifferent to you and will not share the things in life with you.

Men who always treat you as an outsider will treat you very coldly, and they will not discuss anything with you, they will only make their own decisions. And they don't particularly care about and understand your feelings, they will always ignore you.

Men who always treat you as an outsider in marriage are usually very cold to you, they just don't want to have too much contact with you, and many things will not be discussed with you.

Such a man may be very different from you, and he will also be aa with you materially.

1. Unwilling to hand over your payroll card to you. 2 I always like to discuss things with my mother-in-law, and often whisper to my mother-in-law behind your back. 3 When your mother-in-law speaks ill of you, she will not come forward to defend you.

First, I don't tell you about family members.

Second, talk to his own parents about the problem behind your back.

Third, conceal their true wages and do not pay their wages on time and truthfully.

After marriage, a man has these attitudes, which means that you are just an "outsider" in his heart.