How to mediate the relationship between mom and wife?

Coordinate and let both parties understand that they are the people you love the most, and you will not be happy with any of them! They are also the people who love you the most, and knowing that your heart cares about them, they will naturally think more about you, and they will change slowly. You care about your parents and wife in many ways, and once you are in a good mood, you will naturally not be picky about anything.

Don't show your wife and parents which side you're on in order to please them, that will encourage them to be emboldened. Nor can you express dissatisfaction with either your wife or your parents, as that would hurt their self-esteem and make them even more resentful!

1. Change of cognition: A good "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" is related to three people - mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and son, and it takes the efforts of three parties to manage a harmonious family relationship. Taking the "mother-in-law relationship" as a reference, the key to the quality of the "mother-in-law relationship" is generally better than that of the "mother-in-law relationship".

The mother-in-law treats her son-in-law as her own son (at least half of the son), and the daughter marries less of the loss of her daughter, but feels the intimacy and happiness of having more sons. This is a distinction from the mother-in-law's mentality. The deeper your wife's love for her husband, the more accepting her mother-in-law will be, and if she has not accepted her mother-in-law, it at least shows that your love for her husband is not mature and deep enough.

2. Mother-in-law's mentality: treat your daughter-in-law as your own daughter, don't have the distinction of "other people's girls", get along with her with the mentality of treating your own children, and all problems will be solved. 3. Mrs.'s mentality:

Take care of your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother, and try your best to understand the personality or other shortcomings of the elderly. At the same time, when there is a conflict with your mother-in-law, don't make the "low-level mistake" of "fighting for a husband" with your mother-in-law. No matter how much your husband loves you, you can't replace her mother's weight.

Moreover, you can only be his wife, not his mother, and if that happens, your marriage will be in jeopardy. Fourth, the son's mentality: he is a "diplomat" who mediates the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship".

There are many "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships" caused by "stupid sons". If the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" has natural sensitive factors, then the role of the son in the relationship and the function of coordination and consultation are more and more precious. 5. "Don't remember the overnight feud":

Once there is friction between "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", it is key to deal with it immediately, communicate directly, take real feelings as the starting point, and establish an effective conflict handling mechanism. Some "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships" started well, but later friction was hidden in the heart, forming a "cold war" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the damage to family relations was huge. In a nutshell, the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" is not a beast, but a family relationship between two generations, which can be improved by human efforts.

No matter what happens, there is no right or wrong, and there is no need to investigate right and wrong, all discordant factors are played by human psychology, and they can also be resolved by wisdom. For the sake of a happy home, let us all learn to be wise mothers-in-law, wives and husbands.