Why do I make others feel out of reach?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-06
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's just that I haven't met anyone who appreciates you! Someone who really pays attention to you will discover what is inside you and will eventually know that you are not a girl out of reach.

    I believe that there is no flaw in your appearance, but maybe it is your behavior that makes others misunderstand you, Qinggao is not necessarily bad, don't care about other people's words.

    If you are vulgar, they will say that you attract butterflies; If you are high, they will say that you are pretentious. Anyway, Qinggao is just your own idea, and no one tells you to learn to be vulgar! Being your truest self is the most real!

    I am who I am, why change for the sake of irrelevant people!

    It's time for you to express yourself, go ahead! Let your classmates know that you are actually just like ordinary girls, you have troubles, love to be spoiled, and you want to have a boyfriend......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It may not be your fault, it may be that you have not met the boy who loves you deeply, or maybe there is, but it is just silently waiting by your side, waiting for the moment when you find him. Insist on yourself, because when you let go of your body and mind and devote yourself to love, Qinggao will naturally leave you.

    I have to say that when I was in school, I liked girls like you very much, because I fell in love with the temperament like you, but the gap in social status made me feel inferior, hesitant, and didn't have the courage to take that step.

    However, I would also like to thank girls like you, after saying goodbye to my student life, I worked hard to finally fight for my own sky, and a few years later, I met her, and she lived happily ......

    I believe you will be happy too!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be arrogant and unreasonable, just be high, be sincere, when others contact you, you will find, ah, it turns out that this person is not as unapproachable as it seems, in fact, you are a pretty good person. As for no one pursuing you, it is because others have no vision, and the other is that others are afraid that they will not be able to take advantage of falling in love with you, so they ....... Is there anybody, what is that?

    What does that prove? I'm dizzy, so depressed? But girls want someone to chase them.

    But if you think about it this way, I don't think it's high**, and it's cliché.

    Be mindful of communicating with others. Some people also say that I am not easy to get close to, and I don't have many friends, but if there is one, they are all friends who can make friends and help each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe your high-mindedness makes people think that you look down on others, that you are a self-righteous person or something, or something, that is something wrong with the form of expression.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Women should be elegant when they should be elegant,,, communicate more with their classmates and colleagues when they are easy-going, don't keep a very high appearance anytime and anywhere, smile more... Be sure to laugh more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't want to put down your body to reach out to others, no wonder you can't find friends, the loser of family education.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What it's like to fall in love with someone who is out of reach.

    One situation is that you will feel a little inferior, feel that the other party will shine like a star hanging in the sky, but you are far away from yourself, and you will not have any intersection with the other party, and you will never be together. Comfort yourself with words like liking someone doesn't have to be together.

    This type of person generally just wants to be able to look at each other from a distance, and wish each other all the best in their hearts. However, when the other party suddenly talks to you every day, it is easy to be speechless because of excitement. And generally don't think much about it because of such a small episode.

    I think it's actually very good, if the gap between two people is too big, even if they come together because of love, the ending will generally not be very good, because it is a very hard thing to always look up to someone, and it is easy to feel tired.

    The other case is more inspirational. When you find that you like such an unreachable person, in order to be able to catch up with the pace of the other party, in order to become a good enough person who will not be said to be incompatible when standing next to the other party, I will continue to work hard and learn.

    Personally, I think this situation is particularly inspiring, because I fall in love with someone and change myself to become better, hoping to be on par with the other person. There is an indescribable romance in this feeling.

    Of course, it is best to be together, even if you don't end up with the person you like, it is still very rewarding, because what you have learned is a lot of wealth for yourself, and it enriches yourself.

    In the face of liking, some people choose to be content with the status quo, and some people choose to work hard for love. <>

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's probably the mood of Luhan fans in recent days! A deep sense of powerlessness watching you love others.

    There are a lot of columns in life, for the sake of the people they like, they are constantly getting better and better. I remember the movie "The Little Thing of First Love" that we watched before, Xiaoshui, a junior high school student with an ordinary appearance, fell in love with the senior of Yushu Linfeng, because he liked it, so he hoped that he could become excellent and make himself worthy of each other. <>

    Many times, the first feeling we feel when we fall in love with someone is inferiority, feeling that the other person is full of advantages, as if we are very bad and not qualified to stand by their side. It seems that he has his own aura of a male god even in the crowded crowd, and when he appears, others seem to be nothing more than that, and you also look extremely small. None of us are Xiaoshui, there may be no way to become so good, and there will be a chance to be with the person we like after many years.

    Many times, we like someone who is out of reach, just like the relationship between an idol and a fan, you do a lot of things for him, you cry with him, laugh with him, he is the focus of your life, because liking such a person makes your whole world brighter because of it. The love in my heart is like a marathon, but this love seems to have no end. Yesterday, since Lu Han announced his relationship, the circle of friends has been about his dynamics.

    As a passer-by fan, I have some difficulty accepting, not to mention his true love fans.

    Many times, we unknowingly invest a lot of emotion, but no one forces you to do it, just like you like him, give everything for him, and in the end he doesn't choose you. At this time, there is nothing you can do, I understand the big truth, but I just can't do it. Don't embarrass yourself, at least you've had fun when you like him!

    Remember those moments that gave you strength when you were down, and then let yourself go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Probably because I actually know in my heart that we can't be together, but I still imagine you getting closer and closer, closer, and closer. There is probably a galaxy between us that can't be crossed, but you and I are clearly not the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl. It's just because I like you and you don't necessarily like me, or you like me a little bit and I like you too much.

    A year and a half ago, I liked a senior very much. We are not in the same school, separated by more than a thousand kilometers. I like someone who is out of reach, it's not just that the distance of space is a little far, but I can't see his heart.

    It's out of reach, I want to get closer, but I tell myself it's impossible. <>

    At that time, he told himself that it would be good for the two of us to be good friends, and he just regarded me as a primary school girl. Actually, I wonder if he liked me a little bit at the time. I've never met, I just know what he looks like, but I'm hopelessly in love with him.

    So I clumsily cared about his three meals a day every day, what are I doing today, paying attention to various dynamics in his social software, observing what he did, and guessing his joys, sorrows and sorrows with my own wishful thinking. When he is happy, he is happy, and when he is unhappy, he chats and tries to comfort him. Knowing that he had a cold and was so far away, he would buy medicine for him online.

    When I see other couples doing things at school, I think of what it would be like to be with him. Even imagined countless times that he had come to him in the past. When he wanted to be tired and couldn't run, he thought of it and continued to force himself to run.

    I must have taken a lot of steps towards him, but he didn't move.

    But in the end, he was still in love. When I told him to bless them, I couldn't stop crying. Maybe we don't have fate. Because it was out of reach, I had to bless in the end. I still hope that he will be safe and happy in his life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The youth of girlhood is budding, and I like to chase stars like many girls, seeing you on the screen and your own age, but you are so shiny and dazzling.

    I'm obsessed with illusory people, I collect everything about you, and the scandals about your life will also be heartbroken, accompanied by silent thoughts, how many times have I been brought into my dreamland. So infatuated but out of reach, I try to imitate the lucky one who accompanies you in the plot, your heart hurts and my heart tears the pain, and you are happy I will also be immersed in that whirlpool of happiness and do not want to wake up.

    Suddenly, one day, you held her with a happy face, announcing that you had found your favorite, and she also said that she was fortunate not to give up, and finally waited for you. What a happy declaration of love, but I can only bless you with red circles in front of the screen, and bless you to grow old together! But you must be happy, the happy person around you must love you well for me.

    I should also clean up my mood, my heart has followed you silently for so many years, and I should let go of it, and my heart should also accommodate others and grasp the happiness that truly belongs to me.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not much like you have a very beautiful ring but no money to buy it, and I want to do it in my heart but I can't get it, and I am very unwilling.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, my dad was just a carpenter, and his family owned a mansion

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