Kneel and beg, be sincere and friendly, and be polite to others

Let me tell you a true story. Xiao Ming was an excellent Young Pioneer, and one day he happily went to school, and was very worried when he saw an old woman hobbling on the side of the road. Xiao Ming stepped forward and picked up the old woman and took him to the sidewalk, at this time the green light turned on, the vehicles on both sides stopped, and Xiao Ming sent the old woman to the other side of the road.

The old grandmother smiled happily, and he said thank you to Xiao Ming repeatedly! Xiao Ming showed a warm smile, saluted a Young Pioneer salute and said: "No thanks, respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation."

This story tells us that we need to help the disadvantaged in life, treat others with sincerity and friendship, and be polite in order to make society better.

Etiquette is a kind of cordial greeting; Honesty is a kind of trust between classmates; Solidarity is to help each other; Friendship; It's a friendship that can only be done by two people.

Did you know? Love in love, love in reason, in fact, the love of parents is easy to ignore, but the love between friends can be passed on to each other, when your stationery box falls on the ground, who will help you pick it up; When you are helpless, who helps you, although these are only small concerns, they contain a lot of friendship.

The so-called "etiquette" is very common in our lives, a cordial greeting is a courtesy, and even a reminder represents a courtesy.

Integrity", for example: you borrowed a book from a classmate, agreed to return it the next week, and you did. That's integrity. Thanks a lot!

China is an ancient civilization with a history of 5,000 years, and the Chinese nation has always been a civilized and polite country with gentleness, generosity, courage and courtesy. The gestures, voices and smiles of the Chinese children all reflect a person's temperament and quality. Xun Ziyun:

If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand, if you are rude, you won't be born, if you are rude, you won't succeed, and if the country is rude, you'll be restless. Civilized etiquette is the foundation of our learning and life, and the arm of our healthy growth.

Get along with others and put kindness first. And this "goodness" should come from the sincerity of the heart, sincerity in the middle and form outside, not clever words and red tape in the form of nothing. The Book of Rites says:

Those who are courteous are inferior and respectful" (Note: "The Book of Rites: Qu Lishang"). It is not enough to be respectful and enthusiastic on the surface, but hypocritical on the inside, or just respectful on the inside, without expression.

Only by being consistent on the outside and inside can we fundamentally eliminate the estrangement and friction between people, and then respect and love each other and get along with each other in a friendly way.

To respect others, we must treat them equally, regardless of the rank of the noble and the low, and treat them equally. If you only pay respects to the people in the upper echelons, take people by their wealth, and make friends with people with their interests, they are actually doing the work of villains. "The Analects of Zihan" contains:

Confucius saw people in mourning clothes, top hats, and gowns and blind people. When we met, even if these people were young, Confucius would definitely stand up. When you walk in front of others, you must walk quickly to show respect.

The ancients' method of respecting people is also worth learning from. First of all, we must respect the wishes of others, be considerate of the needs and taboos of others, and not force others to make things difficult. Don't ask others to do what they can't do, and don't force others to accept things they don't like.

The ancients said: "Don't blame others for what they can't do, don't force others for what they can't, and don't suffer what others don't do well" (Note: "Wen Zhongzi Wei Xiang").

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you (Note: The Analects of Yan Yuan)" is what it means. In dealing with people, humor and good-natured jokes tend to be light-hearted, but they should never be teased for fun.

It is very disrespectful to make fun of other people's names or give them the nickname of **. During the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Yan Zhitui was angry at this kind of disrespect and said: "Fools in this world play with each other."

or the one who is named a dolphin calf, who is aware of the bystanders, and wants to cover his ears, and who deserves it."

Etiquette is the minimum moral norm that human beings require people to abide by in order to maintain the normal life of society, which is gradually formed in the long-term common life and mutual interaction between people, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions. For a person, etiquette is the external manifestation of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communication ability, and for a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization procedures, moral customs, and living habits. Attaching importance to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice.

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. In terms of content, there are grooming, manners, expressions, clothing, conversation, and dealing with people; From the object point of view, there are personal etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table etiquette, gift etiquette, civilized communication, etc. The norms of behavior in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the performance of etiquette in speech and action is called politeness.

To strengthen moral practice, attention should be paid to etiquette, so that people can conduct interpersonal interactions on the principle of "respect, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity", and bid farewell to uncivilized words and deeds.

Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich and diverse, but it has its own regularity, and its basic etiquette principles: first, the principle of respecting people; The second is the principle of self-discipline, that is, in the process of communication, we should be self-denial, prudent, proactive, consciously voluntary, polite to others, consistent with the outside and the inside, self-comparison, self-reflection, self-demand, self-inspection, self-restraint, not arrogant, duplicitous; the third is the principle of moderation, moderation and decency, and mastery of proportion; Fourth, the principle of sincerity, sincerity, treating people with sincerity, not acting on the spot, and inconsistent words and deeds.

Dear teachers and students:

Being friendly to others and getting along with others is not only a better way to meet new friends, but also a good character that we should do in the world.

In school, in fact, our classmates can study in a classroom, and it is not so easy to get together here, it can be said that it is also very fateful, and the students should get along with each other, but there will still be some bad things happening, some students will have conflicts, some students will fight, these behaviors are actually very unfriendly, and they also destroy the friendship between classmates, in fact, we should not do these things, these are also not conducive to our learning in school, In fact, it is not a very difficult thing to get along with others friendly, as long as we think more about each other and consider each other's opinions, in fact, many contradictions will not happen, and there will be no fights. The students should get along with each other, and they should be united.

Being friendly to others, in fact, is not only better for others, but also helpful to us, can shorten the distance with others, let us become friends, let us do more things for each other, for ourselves will actually have a lot of help and better deal with things, in school we are students, and classmates get along with the same way, if each other are friendly to deal with, then it can also make us more united, when we encounter problems, there are classmates to help us solve, In fact, this is also a good way for us to make friends, so that we can have more gains, get along with people, sometimes there will be some contradictions, but if we are willing to think about each other and be more friendly, then there will not really be much problem, students, being kind to others, is a good character that we should cultivate, and we should get along with people with a quality and upbringing.

Whether it is in school, or in society, or in our daily life, we must be friendly to others, and not always have conflicts with others, more consideration for others, less selfishness, then our road will also go more smoothly, and we can also make more friends through reform. Let's all do a good job of friendliness together, so that we can live and learn better. Thank you!