Emotional problems, seek stability and give some advice!

Anyway, what happened to you and your unladylike encounter made me feel a kind of gritted teeth! It can only be said that you choose the wrong person to start, of course, no one can be an unpredictable prophet, but at least I tell you that girls must not casually entrust themselves to life! Men and women are the same, whoever loses their chips first will be passive first!

You should also ask yourself if you have a common language in addition to love during your relationship with him, and whether you have any plans for your future and common life goals! If you blindly love just because of love, such love itself is unhealthy and unsafe! Of course, at this point you'll think I'm talking about hindsight!

However, the reason why I say this to you is to tell you: everything has a cause and an effect, and the past is also a treasure for you, and it will teach you to understand; Everything is divided into two to see, you have lost someone who does not love you, and his loss will be a person who loves him, and his loss is greater than yours! Since you know that you are used to having him, then from now on you will learn to do without him, throw away all your things about him, and delete all the photos and QQ mobile phone numbers!

For such a person who hurts you so badly, you have to be cruel to yourself before you can be even more cruel to him! Tell yourself, it's over, even if you can, you can't still be the original you, he is no longer the original him, cut off all his illusions about him! If you can, change your environment and change your habits a little!

Take a long-term view, life is an experience is a process, all bad luck is, an episode of your own life, you have your own main theme! Fall, get back up, pat the dust off your body, the best is ahead! If you walk around and walk out of that dim corner, you will feel that the world is very bright and big, and your life will still be very exciting!

Finally, I will send you a sentence "In this world, everything is given and gained, and if you want to get by, you must let go!"

First of all, you have made a mistake, the emotional foundation between you is very weak, just like building a tall building on an unstable foundation, which may collapse at any time; Then, you are still making mistakes, you shouldn't deceive, if you are the man, the woman who wants to be good to her for the rest of your life, and you tell a big lie to yourself, I'm afraid your heart will be broken!

Since he has made so many mistakes and broken his heart, he must not be able to forgive you, forgetting is the best relief, but forgetting does not mean that he will always be a stranger, you have to change yourself, let him see his changes, it is possible to make him change his mind (the chance is very small) Try to put yourself into life and work, have a successful career, live a harmonious and healthy life, and be eligible for true love! o(∩_o~

The best way to forget a person is to find another one.

Online dating is unrealistic, the odds are too subtle, don't bet on your own happiness. Do you believe the man's words?

Enrich yourself, fill in the sad place with something else, go shopping, play, chat with friends (don't be friends online), and other real-life activities After talking about the people you met on the Internet, how many you can believe in the game?

Such a boy is just for fun and is not sincere, although he hurts you deeply, but this also gives you a very good lesson for yourself, you must be careful in the future, you can't trust boys easily.

In fact, you know in your heart that he doesn't care much about you. You also know what an unreliable person he is.

You're just not reconciled, it's been 6 years after all, as you said.

But have you ever thought about it, if you don't make a decisive decision now, it will take 7 years, 8 years, or even a lifetime.

Is this really what you want? Is it really something you can afford?

Girl, in fact, as long as you really understand what you want, it is worth it and right to give up at any time.

I have a former sister-in-law, and my cousin and I have been talking for 11 years, starting with reading. But because of my cousin's personal reasons, she chose to let it go. And now she has regained a new happy life.

So, I would like to say that 6 years is not a pity, if you know wrong. It's a pity to waste the youth that has been dragged on.

Long-distance relationships are in a lot of trouble right now, and he has a lot of pressure in life and work after work, and you don't have any pressure for the time being, in short, it's more relaxed, so you have plenty of time to think about the problems of the two of you, and all the attention is on him.

But you can't ask him equally, there is pressure not to work after work, and separating from you is also a loss for him. Besides, you've been together for 6 years.

You must have done everything that should be done, are you really so relieved that you are not by his side for a long time, you must know that a man has fixed physiological needs, and this need will cause him to be full of desire for the opposite sex around him and you are not around. Many long-distance relationships end like this.

As for this little contradiction between you, I don't think it's a problem, it's impossible to separate the two places, and you can take care of both ends, and sometimes you have to think about it.

His mood at the time, whether he was having a hard time at work, or whether he was in a bad mood that day, or how he was getting along with his colleagues, etc., these details are very important, and if you were tired and you were messing around, what would you do?

Long-distance relationships can be difficult, even if they work separately, so don't put pressure on your already promising love again.

Landlord. There is no need to ask such a clear question.

This man's obvious position is that he doesn't care about you, and you still go up. Isn't that tantamount to hurting yourself?

And the man who beats and scolds the woman thinks for yourself.

Not cherishing and disrespecting you. What are you still doing with him? Be a slave.

Think for yourself.

You know that men have a seven-year itch, and they will change their minds after seven years of marriage, let alone not getting married, it should be said that you are too indulgent to make him think that you can't live without him. I can only say that you are very pitiful, but you don't deserve sympathy, now there are more boys than girls, why are you still worried about not being able to get married? Why hang yourself on a tree all the time, feelings are things that arise after getting along for a long time, so you can try to change your relationship.

Don't make a mistake for yourself!

Do you love him or are you together because you're used to his presence? Through what you wrote, I will talk about my feelings for your reference: 1. I have been in love for 6 years, and as the saying goes, the result of being in love for too long is either marriage or breakup, which is a normal thing, don't worry about the people around you; 2. He already has a sense of annoyance, because generally speaking, men have said many times in their hearts before they want to break up, if you are worried and insecure now, I advise you to deal with it coldly for a while, if he loves you, he will turn back to you, and then you talk to him about the problems faced by each other, if he does not look back and has been in a cold state, then you should also plan your future as soon as possible.

3. You have always been the best contact, distance produces beauty and will also produce estrangement, if you want to be together, you must first consider work to be together, the premise of love is marriage, and it is almost impossible to live separately for a long time. Have you been in love for 6 years and haven't you considered getting married?

It's clear that he doesn't care about you, and in his heart you're no longer important. Actually, I think you should feel this yourself, but it's still too late, break up, simply, it's not good for you to hold it like this.

Every woman is a sculptor, every man is a stone to be carved, 6 years, if you can't carve and can't accept it, you will abandon it decisively, only by abandoning it, you will have a chance to find the right stone for you. But existence is reasonable, and the 6-year relationship is not broken, and the landlord should think about it.

It felt like I was running away from my questions! It feels like ignoring me! I'm entangled, everyone obviously has her reaction that makes you very tangled, which means that you care about her very much. In this case, work hard for your feelings.

A woman who has someone who loves her and goes to pester her ex-boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend has a girlfriend, his girlfriend knows that she is pestering him, gets angry, and asks his ex-girlfriend for clarification, and his ex-girlfriend says You should trust each other and put the blame on her.

What do you say?

First, it is not her responsibility for this woman to have someone who loves her, and she has no reason to give up her feelings for others to love her. These are two different things.

Second, belief is always based on understanding and knowing. The boyfriend did not explain this to his girlfriend at all, he should take the initiative to explain it to his girlfriend, this is his girlfriend's natural right to know.

Third, of course, there is no need for that girlfriend to be angry at all, others pestering their boyfriend and their boyfriend are two different things.

As long as the boyfriend explains, it can be completely solved.

Because this doesn't involve the ex-girlfriend at all, it's just a passerby. The real problem is that this girlfriend is suspicious of his boyfriend.

So, in the final analysis, it's two questions.

First, the girlfriend doubts her love because of the appearance of her ex-girlfriend.

Two, the boyfriend deepened her suspicions.

This should be considered a more complicated relationship, and it is indeed a little tangled, but his ex-girlfriend is right, mutual trust is very important.

But it can't be condoned.

In this case, you can only ask your boyfriend what the hell to do?

If he still says he wants to have a good time with you.

You're going to travel for a while.

Excuse me, from what position are you asking the question?

As an ex-girlfriend, don't pester your ex-boyfriend if you break up with him, he already has his own happiness;

As your ex-boyfriend's girlfriend, you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you care about him and that you want to learn to trust each other so that there will be no problem...

It's messed up, why is it so messy??

Can you not be so entangled, can you not make trouble for others, the problem that could have been solved well was messed up by this messy woman, what does it matter? Have you taken into account the feelings of others? Why so irrational?

If you entangle like this, it won't end well, so why bother?