Because you don t dare to love, is it a sin to marry someone who loves you and doesn t?

It can be said to be a sin, for the person who loves you, perhaps, you don't feel it, but in fact, maybe his heart is also very sad.

In fact, if you don't have someone you love, you can try to fall in love with someone you don't like, maybe you are actually a destined pair.

But if you really can't love him, don't go to his heart anymore.

Otherwise, you'll keep getting wrong.

If you feel indebted, you should be nice to your husband!!

Anyway, it's not like other people behind his back!!

No, it's just your choice.,Since you have chosen, you should cherish your current life.,Don't think about it so much.。。 It will only make you hesitate and be sad.

Not necessarily, as long as that man loves you and gives you happiness, the relationship will be cultivated slowly in the future.

It's not a sin, the most important thing is your mentality, in fact, even if you don't love him now, but the relationship can be cultivated, you must try to accept his love, try to love him well, so that you will be happy.

In marriage, there is a kind of marriage in which you don't love each other, but the other party is very good to you. This kind of marital state seems to be in a certain era and under a specific environment, and people have to do it, and this kind of marriage often ends not very well.

Analyze from the following three aspects:

First, it is a tragedy of life, not only the person concerned, but also the people around him. The marriage relationship between Liu Liu Shufen and Teacher Xu in the movie "No Questions Asked West and East" is only limited to one form.

Liu Shufen and Mr. Xu did have a sweet relationship before, but after Mr. Xu went to college, after his knowledge and insight were extensive, he had a new understanding of love.

Liu Shuzhen worked in the factory, worked hard for him to go to college and paid a lot silently, Mr. Xu felt that this was already a kindness, not a feeling, but when the breakup was forced by Liu Shuzhen to death, Mr. Xu could only treat this marriage in a state of indifference, ruthlessness, and self-abuse like a passerby.

Although in this marriage, Liu Shuzhen has been careful and constantly giving, in marriage, when one party has no love, it cannot be moved and redeemed no matter what.

In the end, Liu Shufen jumped into the well with despair and resentment, ending this painful marriage, and of course affecting the life of student Wang Minjia.

Second, it is a family tragedy. The marriage of Su's mother and Su's father in the TV series "It's All Good" has affected the entire family.

At that time, due to the poor family conditions of Su's mother's mother's family, she married Su's father in order to take care of her mother's family, because Su's mother had no love for Su's father, and Su's father lived in a cautious and suppressed state all his life.

Of course, Su's mother also felt that she was very wronged, so she transferred her anger to her daughter.

Although the ending of this drama is very good, you can feel the psychological shadow caused by the sense of loss in the heart of the daughter who lives in this family.

3. It will cause a huge change in the personality of both sides. We say that everyone must first have self, love themselves in order to love others.

But in such a marriage and family, the personalities of both parties will be distorted. The one who gives love does not get a response for his own giving, and hatred will arise in the long run. The one who does not love will also regret that his life has been in vain, and it is also a sadness to not follow his heart to love.

Marriage is to have love and sincerity, and this kind of love and sincerity are mutual, equal giving.

Therefore, I must find the person I love and love me, and be with me for a lifetime.

I think marrying a guy who doesn't love him will have the following feelings:

Feeling aggrieved. Because I love each other very much, I will choose to pin the happiness of the rest of my life on each other. I will give all my feelings for each other, and even risk my life for each other to have a child, and I feel that I have done everything I have for each other.

But the other party did not give him a reciprocal return, not even a trace of touch, and instantly felt that his sincerity was let down, so he felt aggrieved.

Feeling lonely. No matter how sad you feel because you are ignored by the other person, the other person will not come to comfort you, or just perfunctory, then you will feel helpless and lonely, as if the whole world cannot be relied on, and you will become small and vulnerable.

Feeling sad. Looking at the love of other people in the hall is very happy, the husband and wife are in love, the family is harmonious, and I finally live in an environment without temperature, and I will feel very sad in the face of a cold person.

Feel angry. Because all the negative emotions mentioned above are constantly accumulating, it will make you feel unfair to yourself, so the anger will rise higher and higher.

That's my take on this issue.

Hello, of course I won't choose a person I don't like to get married, even if it's very suitable for me, I don't like to be unhappy in marriage, but since Fengming is very suitable, I also have to consider it from many aspects before choosing, sometimes feelings can be cultivated slowly, and each of us hopes that we can tie the knot with our favorite person and spend a good life together. But in real life, it is very difficult to find an ideal partner, and many times we meet people who are in good condition in all aspects, but we don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.

Personally, I think that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without a banquet is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find.

1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.

In marriage, the most important factor is the envy of each other. Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.

And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.

2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and it is impossible for him to marry such a person.

3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.

Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and you can accept it, and slowly like him, so that you can live a happy life in this marriage.