What are the external temperaments? What are the inner temperaments? How to cultivate?

Temperament is a thing that is seen by the benevolent, and the wise are wise.

The external and inner temperaments you are talking about can be understood separately in my opinion:

Exterior temperament > appearance (to make a good first impression).

Inner temperament > connotation (the feeling of being really attractive after a deep relationship).

As can be seen from the above brief description, impressions and feelings are both uncertain, which means that we cannot judge the quality of our temperament by someone's standards. This leads to a point.

Assertive. Everyone's temperament is different, don't use a fixed routine to practice and perform, that's contrived, because that doesn't belong to you. Affirm your uniqueness and believe that you can be the first.

When you're confident, it's natural.

Keep your head up and your chest high. According to common sense, when the human body raises its head and chest, it will naturally tighten its abdomen and lift its buttocks. In this way, the person's physique will be much more beautiful, and it will also give people a very spiritual feeling.

Well, after the mentality and posture are adjusted, let's discuss the formation and relationship between the external and internal temperament.

In my opinion, the outer and inner temperament can be summed up in the external wisdom.

The so-called show is in the middle of wisdom.

Outside the show, my understanding has two meanings: first, it is a beautiful appearance, that is, a neat and beautiful dress; Second, it is to fully show or express your own strengths (it can be anything you think you like). The combination of the two is to dress yourself up with beautiful outfits that suit you to make you more distinctive, more vivid, and more beautiful.

It's easy to say, but it's still complicated to do. Because you need to constantly explore and accumulate what is most suitable for you. During this process, there will be a lot of multiple-choice questions that you need to answer by yourself, so you need to do the following.

Huizhong, my understanding also has two meanings: first, smart, this should be easy to understand, that is, smart, wise, creative, and so on; 2. Virtuousness, I think this should be easier to understand, but this is very important, because it will affect the starting point of your series of judgments. The relationship between the two is mutually reinforcing.

As for how to cultivate, I think that in addition to talent and some immutable factors, it is necessary to learn through various paths.

After explaining separately, let's talk about the relationship between Xiuwai and Huizhong. Outside the show can give people beautiful visual effects and enjoyment. Everyone has a love for beauty, which can give people the desire to get acquainted with you, with this desire, there will be a process of contact with you, then in this process your wisdom will give people a deeper feeling of beauty, and accordingly will feel that you are more beautiful, expanding your advantages, and your shortcomings will be narrowed accordingly.

Therefore, the two are equally important and must be pursued in both ways. Correspondingly, your special external and internal temperament is formed.

Haha, having said so much, to sum it up, we must first fully adjust our mentality, and then fully understand ourselves, and then we can do what you like without hurting others.

The above only represents my personal understanding, if there is any inappropriateness of JS or XD decision, please forgive me.

Keep your head up and your chest high.

Read more books and improve the connotation.

Temperament type characteristics.

The temperament theory first originated from the ancient Greek physician Hippoclitus's theory of body fluids, who believed that there are four kinds of fluids in the human body: mucus, yellow bile, black bile, and blood, and that the ratio of these four body fluids is different, forming four different types of people. The types of temperament are divided into choleric, bloody, mucous, and depressive.

1) Characteristics of the type of choleric temperament.

Straightforward and enthusiastic, energetic, consistent and strong; But he is irritable, short-tempered, emotional, and impulsive. Representative figures include Zhang Fei, Li Kui, Lu Zhishen and other figures.

2) Characteristics of polyhematotic temperament type.

Lively, responsive, sociable, eloquent, adaptable; But the stability is poor, the lack of patience, see the change. It has a pronounced tendency to be extroverted, with thick branches and large leaves. Representative figures include Jia Baoyu and Wang Xifeng.

3) Characteristics of mucous temperament type.

Quiet, steady and steadfast, low responsiveness, moderate communication, strong self-control (tenacious character), few words, suitable for careful and programmed learning, showing introversion and poor plasticity; Some are rigid and lifeless. The representative figures are generally scientists, such as Chen Jingrun, Newton, Darwin, Einstein, and Edison.

4) Characteristics of depressive temperament type.

Withdrawn behavior, poor social skills, sentimentality, slow response, poor adaptability, easy fatigue, and obvious introversion of personality. Representative figures include Lin Daiyu.

There is no good or bad temperament. In real life, temperament gives people a sense of beauty that is not affected by age, clothing and.

Fashion is limited. Therefore, when a person's unique temperament is attractive to both the same sex and the opposite sex, it becomes a personality charm.

Temperament seems intangible, but it is tangible. It is manifested through a person's attitude towards life, personality traits, words and deeds, etc. Temperament is externalized between a person's gestures.

The gait of walking and the demeanor of dealing with people are all temperamental. When friends make friends for the first time, they look at each other and immediately have a good impression. In addition to words, this kind of goodwill comes from style and demeanor.

Enthusiastic but not frivolous, generous but not arrogant, it shows a kind of elegant temperament.

Temperament is the external embodiment of a person's inner quality, and it is the natural emanation of connotation and upbringing accumulated over a long period of time. Ways to develop temperament:

1. Conversation etiquette.

Conversation etiquette is also divided into different occasions. You can be a little more lively at school, and the occasions at work should have different etiquette according to the needs of the position. However, the volume must be controlled so as not to disturb others, which is the most basic, whether you are angry or not.

In addition, to speak well, Cai Kangyong has a lot of books that teach you to speak, if you find it too difficult, try to slow down your speech, change your accent and speak Mandarin well, don't interject or talk nonsense, and try to smile when you speak.

2. Read more.

You don't need to read too advanced books, but you must read good books, and if you can't read the text, you can also go to art exhibitions, photography exhibitions, art exhibitions, etc. But be sure to gradually increase the amount of text you read, and it is recommended to start with short poems and short stories.

3. Broaden the circle of friends and communicate with people of different ages.

Communicate with the elderly, endure no matter how verbose the other party is, learn the essence of the other party's words, and learn to be polite and control your temper at the same time; Communicate with children, feel the innocence and childlike fun, learn to tease children, protect children's hearts and cope with different new problems; Communicate with people from different industries and learn different thinking.

Temperament and personality are important topics in psychological research. Psychology believes that the difference between temperament and temperament is called the difference in temperament and personality, which is an important aspect of individual differences in human intelligence. Character is the wholeness and stability of a person expressed in attitudes and actions;

Temperament is the dynamic animal of character, such as the slowness of action and the speed of change of action. Temperament is formed under the influence of the environment and education, and it can change under different influences. In this sense, nature is removable.

The training of temperament mostly starts from the physical, language, and internal aspects.

At present, there are very few tutorials and teaching materials on this side. Most of them are physical training. If you want to use the textbook, you can train at home by yourself.

Temperament is the manifestation of a person's external charm, how to improve temperament? We can often see those celebrities on the Internet with their own aura, and they have all kinds of temperament, some are cold, some are domineering, and some show a small freshness, which makes many people envious of this, and the difference between passers-by and celebrities can also be distinguished at a glance from the temperament, so how to improve our temperament in our lives? Let's take a look today!

As the saying goes: "People rely on clothes, horses rely on saddles", for everyone, good clothes and good clothes are different for the development of everyone's temperament, so to improve their temperament, the first step is to choose clothes that suit their temperament and match clothes suitable for their age. And to do this, first of all, you must find your own life positioning, you can start from personal habits and your own feelings, if you are an office worker in life, you can find clothes that are biased towards business maturity, if you are a student, you can choose the style of casual sports, and so ......on

In addition, excellent accessories are also an important part of the improvement of a person's temperament, sometimes a watch, a necklace can inadvertently exude their own charm and style, so we must pay attention to the role of accessories, after wearing clothes, you can choose the right accessories, you can find some bloggers' recommendations on the Internet to wear and learn, so that your temperament to the next level.

The above is about the external factors of temperament improvement, and the most important thing is to start from ourselves, a good mental outlook can greatly show people's spiritual temperament, so we can make ourselves have a good mental outlook through some physical exercises, so that it is easier to rejuvenate our temperament.

The cultivation of temperament is not something that can be cultivated overnight, we need to insist, to work hard for it, different postures, mental outlook, clothing can change a person's temperament, to pursue the best temperament to try more, bold matching.

First of all, you must find a hairstyle and makeup that suits you, you must put your mind on dressing, and pay attention to some details, you should put on a light makeup, you can also make some small changes, and you should be very gentle when you do things yourself, and you will improve your temperament after a long time, and it is also very good.

In my opinion, to improve your temperament, you should first start by improving your quality and cultural knowledge, then improve your speech and behavior, and your ability to deal with people, and then wear some decent clothes and have a very capable hairstyle.

If you want to improve your temperament, you must pay attention to your usual words and deeds, and you must enrich yourself through continuous learning to improve your temperament from the inside out.

Some people don't have a temperament no matter how they dress themselves, and some people don't dress themselves so much, but they just have a temperament, and she is born with a temperament.

I think the first thing is to learn how to dress, learn to find clothes that suit you, learn to find makeup that suits you, and then become confident and temperamental.

Be sure to pay attention to the management of manners, posture management is the best way to improve temperament, you must pay attention to your every move, so that you can improve your temperament well.