What to do when a man is abandoned What to do when he is abandoned by a man

Meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love;

Because you understand the feeling of being loved, you can find the person who loves you the most;

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime. The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not the person you love the most or love you the most, it's just the person who appears at the right time.

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, you want him to be with the person you really love, and you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in life, If you really love someone, you must love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad: love his strengths, but also love his shortcomings, and never want him to be what you want to be because you love him, and if you can't change it, you won't love him. You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained; Separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love cannot turn into resentment.

But. There are promises that may never be fulfilled

Miserable and miserable, drinking alone and drinking!

To live better than before.

Multi-touch points with other friends of the opposite sex have an effect on your healing.

There is no one in this world who is sorry for anyone, only who does not understand to cherish whom.

I believe that you will live better without him, work hard.

It's time to reflect on why you were abandoned!!

I'm going to drink alone.

I'm looking for another one.

The first trick: don't try to redeem it.

The more humble a person is, the less he will receive the pity of others, and this is especially evident in emotional relationships.

When the other party loses interest in us, our biggest taboo is to put down our body and pray for the other person to change their minds, which will not only not make the other person fall in love with us again, but will push the other person further.

Because when the other person decides to give up on you, you become a familiar stranger to him.

If you entangle at this time, or take revenge, it will make the other party more sure that leaving you is the right choice.

The best thing to do is not to dwell, not to stay, not to grieve.

Keep yourself busy and do what makes you happy.

Many people say that when they are abandoned, they are very depressed and helpless, and even if they keep themselves busy, they will feel empty when they are idle.

We don't have to be like this, because a failed relationship is destined to become the past, what we have to do is not to let the past self redeem the former lover, but to let the future self to attract him to change his mind.

You must know that what the other party gives up is the former you, not the current you, let alone the future you.

If you can become better during this period, then there is no doubt that the other party will definitely change their minds.

The second trick: improve your own value.

If you talk about feelings as utilitarian, it is actually a relationship of mutual use and mutual taking.

The most fundamental reason for any couple to break up is because there is no value for each other.

So from this perspective, we will find that the best way to save a relationship is to let the other person see their value again.

There is no trick or change of hands is a secret, as long as our value increases, the other party will naturally change their minds.

The third trick: calm down and share a better self.

When we are abandoned, all we have to do is calm down and not be impatient.

Despair does not make us look more attractive, on the contrary, it gradually destroys our self-confidence and dignity.

If we want to get people to re-interest us, the most important thing we need to do is to put our best foot forward.

What else can I do, isn't it just a change of heart. Men are like that. If the man is reliable, the sow will go up the tree.

Meet a woman who is better than that woman, greedy!

Kindness!! House flowers are not as fresh as wildflowers, and I want to change my appetite.