What if the other half is reluctant to have children?

Compromise, I have always had no right to speak at home, and sometimes I can only endure it, and when I really face this problem, I may explode.

Find the other party first to ask the reason, and then ** whether you want it or not, if you really don't want children, you can only choose to divorce, don't want children not to say that they can't say it here, and my parents can't say it.

If the other half resolutely does not want children, he will divorce, he likes children, if he doesn't even have a child of his own in this life, it is not in vain.

When respecting the thoughts or opinions of the other half, you should also consider the thoughts of your own parents, and persuade the other half not to think about our future, but also to think about the current parents.

Communicate first, there must always be a reason, you can't listen to the other party in everything, some things can be compromised and some things can't be compromised.

Ask clearly why you don't want children, children are the crystallization of two people's lives, not a matter where one party has the final say, at least consider the thoughts of both parents.

It's just a matter of time now, maybe she feels that we don't have much money now, and by the afternoon two years we have enough money to plan to have children, so that we can also ensure a better life for children.

Set a time for us to have a child in a few years, what do we want now, how to raise our own children, even if we have children now, we will suffer with us.

She said that if she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it, but she is the third generation of our family, and she still expects her to pass on the lineage, and if she can't do it, she will divorce.

Find the other half and ask the reason, what is the purpose of marriage, not just two people to live, but also need to leave our offspring.

I don't want to have children in recent years after getting married, I think you still have to tell the truth to your partner, the most important thing is to tell the truth, I think your partner will definitely understand you, whether it is psychological, physical, financial, or career, this is all about the two of you to face together.

You can explain to your partner why you don't want to have children, such as financial pressure, or your own fear, and the other half can generally understand.

In fact, you just need to tell your other half directly about your concerns and thoughts, and I think your other half should weigh the pros and cons.

Take the initiative to tell the other party about this matter, hoping to develop a career between two people without having children in the next few years, and the other party must be able to understand himself.

I think we can discuss it carefully, after all, many young people nowadays don't want to have children, because the pressure is too great.

I think the two of you should communicate well, and then listen to each other's opinions, be sure to discuss, and you should not be too aggressive, you must listen to your husband's advice.

You can talk to your other half about some of your plans for the future, and then consider having children after completing these plans, I believe it is understandable for the other half to think about having children.

You can directly tell your partner that you don't have any plans in this regard, and you hope to be able to complete your career first, and you must be sincere.

You can tell your partner directly about such an idea, and get the consent of the other half, so that the two people agree.

If you don't want to have children in recent years after getting married, you can tell your other half directly, tell your other half your plans, why you don't want children, and what your plans are, I believe he can understand.

It's one thing to like a child in a relationship, but it's another thing to have a child yourself. But a family also has to have children at the right age.

I think the best thing to do is to break up and find someone who likes the child, so that the problem will be solved.

You can communicate well with two people, tell each other that you like children very much, and don't tell each other that you are particularly compulsory.

If you have a good relationship, you can consider adopting a baby or IVF!

This question is really hard to say, because the other half can't have children, and there are actually a lot of divorced people.

Many of us break up peacefully, because like this is not without feelings, but without the crystallization of love, which will cause there to be no sustenance in the heart, and after a long time, it is very likely to break up.

But there are also some couples who choose to raise a child, and even then it is okay. Because if the child is small, he grows up, he is yours, although there is no blood relationship, but you have a kinship, because he was raised by you from childhood.

So it's up to you how you look at it. Actually, I have a relative, they couldn't have children at first, so they held a child, and then after two years, they relaxed. Suddenly, one day the woman was pregnant, and it was indeed the man's.

Wouldn't that be better?

There are a hundred reasons to want to do something, and there are a hundred reasons not to want to do something. It's the same with having a child, if you want to have a child, you will say that your parents want to hold your grandchildren when they are old, and if you don't give birth to a child, your body will not be in the best state, or if you want to have a good baby, you have to give birth early, because the quality of young people's bodies is the best, and so on.

But if you don't want to give birth, you will feel: the job is not stable, the income is not enough to support the expenses of the child, the husband and wife are both working and have no one to take care of them, the house is too small to have a child, there is not enough space for the child to move, etc., but in the final analysis, it is just a matter of wanting or not wanting, and everything else is an excuse.

However, starting from the actual situation, if the material conditions are available, it is better to give birth earlier. First, it is true that children born young are healthier, and secondly, taking children requires not only wisdom, but also physical strength, whether men and women are over 35 years old, their physical condition will really go downhill, and they will sometimes be unable to take care of children. As for those reasons for not wanting children, you can also consider it emotionally, unless you really want to dink, otherwise when you are old and regenerate, no matter how much regret you have at that time, it can't offset the physical and mental burden.

There are many reasons for this.

The first reason may be that he thinks you can't afford to have a child right now. Raising a child is not the same as raising a cat and a dog, you not only have to manage his eating, drinking, and Lazar, but you also have to manage his education, and now the cost of raising a child is high.

After the child is born, you have to buy diapers for him, buy milk powder, buy all kinds of baby appliances, the ** of infant appliances is very high, usually you have to take him outside to bathe, swimming, this is all money, when he is two or three years old, you have to send him to the early education class, or send him to kindergarten, some families have high hopes for children, so when he is two or three years old, he began to learn some specialties, isn't it all money?

If your family situation is barely okay, or if the two of you have just gotten married and your career has just improved, then the other half definitely does not want children, and he wants to have children when his career is stable and the family's income is higher, so that he can give his children a better life.

The second reason is that she is a little afraid in her heart, which is mainly for women, probably because she has never been a mother, so she is a little afraid to be a mother, which is like a premarital phobia, but it doesn't matter, this is easy to overcome, and when the child really comes, she will be very happy.

There are many reasons why the other half doesn't want children. First of all, the first reason is that we have just gotten married, and we feel that we are still a child, and we have not played enough and are not ready to be parents.

If you don't have a good financial foundation, you can't afford to raise a child at all. And nowadays, children's things are very expensive, just take milk powder as an example, a can of better milk powder costs at least three or four hundred, which is not the best. There are also diapers, which are much more expensive than sanitary napkins used by women.

So now, many young people choose not to have children for the time being because economic conditions do not allow it.

Another important reason is because the other half is now in the entrepreneurial stage, or the rising period of work. Having children now is very detrimental to your career development, so you can only have children after a while, and these are the reasons for not having children for the time being.

1. I am not mentally ready to be a parent. Maybe you've only been married for a long time, and your other half hasn't played enough and feels like you've not enjoyed the two-person world with you. If you have a child, you will not have time to take care of yourself, and you will have to dedicate all your time to the child.

2 For girls. Having a baby means getting fat, getting a thicker waist and other body problems. The process of conceiving a child and giving birth to a child is very painful, and it feels like it has been too long, and girls have psychological fears.

Usually a boy wants to have a child, because it is not he who suffers.

3. Have an impact on the business. Maybe your significant other is on the rise in their career. For girls, if they give birth to a child, they have to take leave, and after taking leave, they may return to the workplace and will not be taken so seriously.

It is even possible to have a child, so you can only quit your job and take care of the child at home. It can be very painful for a career-minded person, who wants to fight for her career and doesn't want to be stuck at home.

For boys. After giving birth to a child, the burden on the family will be more serious, and it will be more tiring to pay for the family.

The question of whether to have children has received more and more general attention after the liberalization of the two-child policy, and it is very possible that you do not want children for the time being because of your own physical reasons, career reasons, economy, lack of manpower, etc.

Especially after the first child, if you want to have a second child, it is extremely repulsive for women, who have just been liberated from the difficulty of having a child, and want to devote themselves to the process of pregnancy and childbirth again.

On the other hand, your other half may be in the rising and critical period of your career, if you have a child at this time, you can delay the development of your career and reduce the opportunity for promotion, so you may not want children for the time being.

If the family's economic conditions are average, you have to work, and you don't have the money to hire a nanny, no one takes care of the children, and there are not enough people, you will not have children for the time being.

Therefore, having a child is not something that you can give birth to if you want to, you still have to discuss it with two people, the body allows, and the conditions allow regeneration, otherwise it will be more difficult later. However, it is also better to have children when you are young, and you have better energy.

Here's a psychological test: choose a necklace and test why the other half doesn't want children for a while?

Let's see the results!

a. The two of you should be husband and wife. In fact, the two of you are quite husband and wife in terms of appearance, which should be the fate of husband and wife. If you want the fate of husband and wife, it is not enough to look similar, you must have the determination to overcome difficulties together.

The fate of husband and wife is saved up by yourself, and the two of you are also working hard, and your fate as husband and wife should exist.

b. Through the above tests, it can be seen that the spring season is your lucky season, you have a gentle personality, sunshine, and the atmosphere is not impetuous, and you can always bring a sense of security to the people around you. Of course, you may not know that in the eyes of others, you are like the sun, as warm and clean as spring, with you, they are very happy, there will be people who fall in love with you at first sight, this season, is the season of love.

d. He knows how much you love him, he sees that you just want to be good to him, love him, and even a little motherly treat him as a baby, and he is very happy with him, of course, he will rely on him very much, tell him everything, treat him as a dependent, and have a sense of security like a father. I don't know who said, but honor him as a father and love him as a son. However, it is precisely because you love him a little too much, spoil him, really treat you as his own family, unscrupulously expose his shortcomings in front of you, and even live up to your deep affection.

Because for him, your relationship is absolutely safe, and he believes that it is impossible for him to leave because of his disappointment, so the careless will hurt you.