I m 13 years old, and my parents didn t care much about me after they gave birth to a younger sister

When your daughter grows up and gets married, your parents don't ask you to do things anymore, because you have a home of your own, so your parents can only ask your unmarried sister to do it

Since you were a child, your parents will definitely be able to understand your mind and will not blame you anymore, because you are already married, unlike when you were a child, your sister must not have done as much as you when you were a child, and your parents must always let you work, there is no need to take these to heart, when no one wants to move anything, it is normal for your parents to help your parents do more work when they are older.

Your argument that "if you get married, you don't listen to your parents" is wrong. When parents need help, children have a responsibility to do so. Think about how you would feel if one day your children didn't help you when you needed help!

The water spilled by the married daughter.

Parents can't control you, your father let your sister work, you feel embarrassed, your parents are too difficult, as the saying goes: the married daughter spills out of the water, since you are married, you are already an outsider, you must feel uncomfortable when you do not want to do what you don't want to do, so it is better not to let you do it, and the relatives of the province will become enemies!

I feel that your parents are a little partial, and the two daughters are meat in the palms and backs of their hands, and they should be treated equally.

By the way, your father is afraid of you, and your father thinks that since he can't call you, he will order to call his sister, I think it's normal.

It seems that you have sensed the problem, but you have to remember that you must listen to your parents, you are not doing it right.

It's that you're thinking too much, why do you think Dad can't control you? Even if you're married, can't your dad ask you to do some work? Dad didn't want to force you, so he let my sister do it.

Truth be told, your parents were too tolerant of you! Your parents' words generally have a commanding tone, and if you are disobedient, in fact, your parents are very helpless, because your parents spoil you very much! But I don't have such good patience with your sister, and the command tone is effective for your sister!

Your embarrassment shows that your heart has sympathy for your sister, but you are helpless!

So what's there to be embarrassed about? That's normal.

Because you're already someone else's family, it's normal to call you anymore.

After reading your story, I really feel sorry for you, I didn't expect there to be such parents in the world. Listen to me, death can't solve the problem, I know you're very uncomfortable, this kind of life makes you worse than dead, but have you ever thought that since they don't care about you and don't care about your feelings, is it useful for you to die? Do you think they'll feel like they're at fault?

Maybe your sister will regret what she did when she grows up, in fact, I personally think it's still your parents' problem, your sister is still young, and she can't tell whether her behavior is right or wrong, but if parents can correct it in time, I believe it won't be like this. It's useless if you're dead, maybe they'll just talk, and suddenly feel quiet at home. What you have to do is to leave this house, go out on your own, and when you are independent and developed to show off in front of them, you must live better than them.

Maybe you're still young and can't do anything about it, but soon you'll be able to go out and work on your own or something.

You're brave! Let them destroy the garbage themselves, and you don't have to please anyone.

You have to remember to study hard, find a good job to support yourself in the future, leave this family, and have your own family (there will be people in this family who understand you, people who really love you, and people who cherish you and understand you. The kind of people who can be coquettish and cheating, people in the countryside like to say that the small ones in the family seem to be a little better than the big ones, and they are extremely proud, and they think that is a kind of cleverness. In fact, many historical celebrities are the eldest in the family, including life.

In fact, it is precisely the ignorance of these rural people who have long made this mistake. You recognize this abnormality, which means that your knowledge is broadening, and so is your horizons, so stick to yourself, and you will be very productive in the future!

That kind of environment is not suitable for you, and it is not worthy of you. One day, they (including your parents) will fall on you when they see your appearance, and then you ignore them, but you are happy or not! Take a long-term view!

Believe in yourself. And I also believe in you, you are so forbearant and intelligent.

You are still so young, don't think about it, your parents may have higher requirements for you, because your sister is younger, she is not sensible, you are a sister, you should be sensible, maybe this is your parents' strict love for you.

Calm down, why should you die at a young age! Maybe it's love to beat and scold, sister just let it go, exercise your ability to resist pressure, it's also good for you, you not only have to live, but also live beautifully to show your parents, mom and sister, come on!

I'm a beggar of the same age as you, I know what you think in your heart, others think, if you don't want to live, you will die, I won't persuade people, I just want to say, if you really want to die, please give me your clothes, I don't mean anything else, I'm penniless, please, I just want to use the money from those clothes to feed my son for a few more days, thank you.

Don't think about it, often children who grow up in an environment like yours will always be strong and excellent from ordinary people, this is God testing you. What you do now is to study hard, get into a good university in the future, and find yourself a better way out than all of them! Exchange your own efforts for your own happiness!

When you really feel happiness, you will know that in childhood you are different from ordinary children, you will be strong, you will work hard, you will be more mature than them, and you will also take on the responsibility of society! Don't run away from this little thing! Go for it!

Just remember my words, I'm sure you'll be happy!

learn to be independent; Grow up and everything will be fine; These are painful for you right now; But when you grow up, you know that these are your treasures; When you grow up, you will know how to live well; Cherish the people around you; Don't think about it; You are still young, and your life will be wonderful; Believe in yourself; These will pass! Your parents treat you like this on the surface, but they still love you very much in their hearts; You'll find out in a moment!

It's pretty miserable. I doubt they did it on purpose. But you, you have to live, and you have to live beautifully.

Sometimes my parents are very biased, I used to live with relatives, and I was treated unequally, but not as badly as you. It's a grievance to see what you write being treated like this by your family, but you can't just think about death. Not to mention whether your parents will be sad, aren't you uncomfortable?

Have the courage to commit suicide but don't have the courage to live? You have to live well and show them something. Let your parents who look down on you be impressed by you, and let your sister regret bullying you.

If you die, they will surely feel that your existence is not worth it. Be good and live well, I bless you here, God loves you too, and you will be happy.

Generally, parents basically spoil the little one, no way, human nature, you are still young, think about who is raising you, be a sister, let the sister deserve, as for dying or something, just think about it, I used to hate it, I also wanted to kill my parents ==

It will be fine after a while

Quite simply, tell them that they will regret it in the future.

This is Chinese parents, they will always integrate their love for their children into the daily beating and scolding, rest assured, they must love you, those words are just because you are angry that you have done something wrong, maybe you feel that it is because you have a sister, in fact, it is not, because they loved you before, and now they give half of the love to your sister, you feel less than 50% of the love, in fact, the love of parents for you and your sister is the same, they also have limited energy, your sister is relatively small, you have to take care of it more, but you have to know, They will always take care of you for 6 years longer than your sister, you can't deny it, don't they still send you to school and cook for you after getting angry? , Don't be too sensitive, some parents plus cultural education is not high, their words are vulgar, in fact, it is because they are angry, in order to relieve their anger, of course, pick the most ugly words,

12 years old is the age of rebellion, I think you should be a very naughty child, so mom can't bear to say this about you. But I don't think it's right for my mother to say this, it's too heavy.

It's all their own children, and their mothers hurt the same.

I think you should learn to be a little more obedient, share a little more for your mother, do some housework, and your mother will praise you, don't believe you try!

Life is really fair, you get it when you're young, you may lose it when you're old, you lose it when you're young, you can get it when you're old!

Every child's childhood is likely to encounter, the kind of mother who stabs the child with words, the kind of mother who goes crazy all day long. When I met such a mother. You may be so sad that you want to die, you may complain, why is he so unfair to you?

But people are like this sometimes, inexplicably, you don't know what you did wrong, but you will be so humiliated!

But life is only victorious if you persevere! When you have a child one day, maybe you will understand her a little bit. Maybe you don't understand that after all, everyone is different!

So no matter what kind of person your mother is, you have to live the life you want to be!

Every child is a mother's treasure, you are not naughty, it is estimated that the mother will not talk about you, as for what she said, just say it casually, don't be serious, it is her angry words when she is angry, and communicate with her mother if she is not satisfied.

It may be that life is far from satisfactory, people have added, the standard of living has not increased, and if you have more troubles, you will naturally be emotionally unstable, and you will say anything malicious when your emotions come, it's not that your mother doesn't love you. When your life improves, you will naturally be in a good mood and will give you love.

Don't think about it, your mother may simply like her sister, not to mention that her sister is so many years younger than you, and she slowly feels that you should let her sister go.

Hello, don't worry, there is always a way to resolve it. Happy to help you.

Hello friends, you want to deviate, as a mother, I won't curse you. As the saying goes, tiger poison doesn't eat children, let alone your mother. You have to help your mother when you are in trouble. Go and reconcile with your mother.

Okay, come and live in my house, and treat you like a treasure.

It's all angry talk, who doesn't love their own children.

Rebellious period, after this time it will be fine, try to communicate with her.

This is all very normal.

Girls in general are in this age group.

It is in the rebellious period.

I feel that my parents are more irritated about everything they say.

It may be because they haven't been emotionally stable lately, so they will be angry with you, in fact, adults are really stressed sometimes, so you should also understand it well.

Your sister is small, and she will definitely receive more care at home, and the requirements for each period are different, your sister now wants him to grow up safely and happily, and you have to focus on your studies now.

I don't think you're necessarily right with this feeling, because your parents love you, but they hate you a little bit, and they may be angry with you, but it's all for your good.

I think if your parents are very good to you every day, it means that they are really very good to you.

Parents are eccentric, what's so strange, I'll have my own life when I'm older.

You may think you're really old, how old are you this year?

If you can't change the environment, you can change your personality.

In order not to be scolded, from today onwards, I will not tell my parents about grievances.

A lot of things will pass slowly, and from now on, you will never lose your temper again, and you will never let yourself be angry again.

Then, make the family happy because of you, and happiness is what you have to do.

Then go outside to make friends and get along with them.

Be kind to others and make yourself enthusiastic and cheerful, you must be a little girl with big nerves and no concern for many things.

When you envy your sister, your sister also envies you.

You have grievances, but there is some truth in what your mother said, you haven't grown up yet, in fact, what you said is nothing, sister (brother and sister) relationship, it will be good when you are older, and it will be better when you grow up. You'd better not worry about these things, and if you don't put them at ease, you'll be happy when you see them. If you have some minor grievances, you can talk to your mother about your thoughts when she is free.

First of all, they are your parents after all, and you have to respect and love them.

Second,There must be more good people in the world than bad people [your relatives].

Third, you have to study hard and pay for your parents silently, and one day, they will understand your intentions.

Would you like to hear my method? I usually have an awkward relationship with my parents, or when I am dissatisfied with my parents. He will write down everything he wants to say to them in the form of a diary in his diary.

And then criticize them as much as he wants, saying how pitiful he is. It felt like I was speaking to a diary. Then spread out the diary in a prominent place for parents to see.

If so, you have to work harder to make yourself stronger, but don't resent your parents.