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In our real life, there are always people who look good, and there are people who look "just like that" appearance may be an indispensable topic in our lives now, and even say that appearance is also a business card, if a good-looking person walks with ordinary people, there will always be a single page on the side of the road to stuff a single page into the hand of the good-looking person, and a polite thank you, then if you are general, people will ignore you when you walk on the road, and even think in your heart, 'We are selling cosmetics, Grow up like this, estimate yourself and give up on yourself, this man shallIt should be painful, and not only does the thought of this turn red. Ahem, back to the point. Looks are a good thing, I hope everyone has them.
But that's not what everyone can have if they want to, and if they really want to have it, no one may be worried.
Male god, as soon as I hear it, he is good-looking and excellent, and that person's mate selection criteria are also obvious, and he must not be worse than himself. But what if you don't even have the most basic appearance that matches others? Can you only rely on continuous hard work and crazy feelings to move the male god?
Generally such a situation does not mean that there is none, but! Very little, sisters, you are not just infatuated with the male god.
I have a friend we don't know very well, but she is a very friendly person, getting along with her will make everyone feel very comfortable, she never blushes with anyone, even if it is her family, she will not blush, not only has a good temper and grades have always been someone else's child, she is a top student in school, and she works in a very good foreign company, she is such a girl who is close to perfection, she is not very good-looking, but her temperament often makes people ignore her appearance. So your male god is attracted to an excellent girl who may not be as good as youThe male god is not perfect either, before he met my friend, he was conceited and arrogant and treated people coldly. But such a person who is superior in other people's worlds and even in his own world sometimes feels that he is not worthy of this girl.
He thinks she is enthusiastic about life, never complains about being independent and has ideas, never making do but living casually and happily.
There are many more stories to tell, and life is very happy. Girls, you must know that if you want to have an excellent person who likes you and loves you, first of all, you must be self-loving and independent, maybe you are not very beautiful, but you are just temperamental, cute and attractive, you must believe that you are worthy of love, but before that, you must know how to love.
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Create opportunities, appear in front of the male god, and appear many times, he will begin to pay attention to you, and also understand the male god's preferences and interests, so that there can be a common topic.
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Although you don't look good, you can also make yourself look fresh and refined through proper makeup and dressing, and you must show that you are a unique personality everywhere.
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You can practice a lot of eloquence, mom in work or life to show yourself, let your boys pay attention to themselves, only if you have a special aspect of talent, others will be attracted to your ability.
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Do something very special and warm, you can buy snacks for everyone at work, and his share should be different.
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In fact, women are very easy to be touched, so for those boys who are not good-looking, you should keep close contact with this girl, be able to be by their side when they are most vulnerable, often care about their life trivialities in life, and show women your charm in other aspects, which can make it easier for this girl to fall in love with you.
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I think you have to fully exude your own charm, first of all, you have to be more self-motivated, be a humorous person, preferably be able to earn a lot of money, and have a stable job.
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Then you need to do what you like, know what the girl you like likes, you can prepare some small gifts for him, and at the same time be able to help him when he needs help and be considerate of him.
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Do what he likes, and only when there is a common rebellion and the same topic can he get close to him. Qiao accompanied and then Min Peng just cared about him a little more, such as giving him encouragement, comforting him when he was sad, and boys generally would not refuse considerate and gentle girls. Of course, you also have to learn to dress up a little, learn how to dress, and change your image.
If you really can't do it, you can exercise your temperament, read more books, and have poetry and books in your belly.
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As long as you have a good temperament and good overall quality, you can catch up with the male god
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Do you want to pursue others with the greatest charm of your own heart, no matter what? It is most important that you have the most quiet and good ideas in your heart, so that you can make others feel your love.
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It's common for a boy to call him a goddess, but if a boy keeps calling you a goddess, it means that the other party has lived in his heart. When you meet such a guy, if you also have a crush on him, then try dating.
The goddess is the perfect woman in the minds of boys, or as beautiful as an angel, or as pure and lovely as the anime characters they like, who will have an inferiority complex in front of the goddess, and feel that they can't climb her, and some people will also feel that they can't give her happiness, so they don't dare to think about her confession, but they will silently protect her from afar.
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When you fall in love, you must learn to play straight with your boyfriend, that is, you have something to say, express your emotions directly, and ask questions directly. Brother Filial Piety.
In fact, most men are straight-line thinking, and if you learn to play a straight-ball relationship, your boyfriend will be easier to understand you and your relationship, and it will be more comfortable, smooth and long-lasting. By tactfully expressing thoughts and needs, it is the king of straight-ball love, which can not only express inner thoughts and needs, but also get the way of behavior expected of the other person. When the other party has been able to meet expectations, there is only a bonus system, and more and more love.
In real life, as long as you put yourself in the center of the initiative, as long as your heart is ruthless and clear, then no matter how sweet your mouth is, no matter how many times you take the initiative to find a topic, no matter how passive you seem on the surface, in fact, you will benefit from yourself.
Don't take the initiative to share your daily life in life.
Men in love, why do they always have an emotional advantage, because they are career-oriented, habitually engage in career first, and then fall in love, so no matter at any time, they will not sacrifice their careers for love, and in the relationship, there is always a kind of initiative.
1. Speak up.
In fact, it is very correct to say something straightforwardly, don't think that it is cheap to take the initiative to come, you are just stating what you think in your heart, you are doing this to let yourself get what you want, just for your own comfort. And having something to say bluntly is also to improve the communication efficiency of two people, and it can also make the other party more clear and clear about their minds. So I have to do it
2. Informal.
After some small festivals, there are no gifts and other small problems, we have to put the small and grasp the big, grasping the big refers to the person's character, whether he is good to himself in general, whether there are any unbearable shortcomings and other problems, in fact, put the attention on the big things, the whole person will also be in love The mind is much more relaxed, and will not be too emotional.
3. Try to be self-centered.
Loving yourself is a lifelong romance, first"Me"to arrive"us"。A person still has to tidy himself up first, pay attention to improving himself, and others will love you. And don't take love too seriously, in fact, there are more important things than love, we have to know how to prioritize.
4. Refuse to fall in love.
Maybe this is more difficult for many people. It may be necessary to slowly jump out of the circle of turning yourself into a love brain and learn to recognize.
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Then you should make yourself a skill, and you should learn to have a sense of humor.
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I think you yourself have to be a very talented person, so that you can use your personal charm to chase girls who are more beautiful than you.