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No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, women with high emotional intelligence don't help men in 3 "favors", don't be stupid.

No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, if you lose your dignity, or if the thing itself is wrong, you must not help because you are hurting yourself.

1.No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, the "busy" who loses self-esteem and has no bottom line cannot help.

2.No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, they can't help if they know it's wrong.

3.No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, the "favor" that causes harm to others cannot help.

Even if the relationship between husband and wife is good, don't help a man do things that wronged him and lose his self-esteem, let alone help an unmotivated man borrow money.

The ex-girlfriend is a taboo topic to discuss, and the girlfriend herself didn't mention it, so why do you have to rush to "kill herself"? Some men with very low emotional intelligence will think that their girlfriends love to hear their ex-girlfriends not very good. Compare the two girlfriends, and then open the rainbow fart on the job.

But in fact, men who say their ex-girlfriends after a breakup are very low in the eyes of women with respect. I also loved each other and gave it, but after breaking up, I didn't say a good word. Women are also always worried that if they are separated from him one day, they will become the existence of their ex-girlfriends.

In front of the new girlfriend who answered the line and shouted friends, she was said to be worthless.

There is nothing wrong with men giving women a sense of belonging. But how to use machismo to show the main performance is wrong. A man with low emotional intelligence who feels that his machismo is defending women.

You may even feel that this kind of performance is a blessing for your girlfriend.

But think about it from another perspective, who would want to be assigned a life path. has no right to speak, no decision-making power, shouting to give himself a good pretense and always doing things that hurt him, ignoring his own opinions. It's obviously disrespectful, but it's still showing that others must be grateful.

In the emotion, it may not be so fair, but no one can stand on the main ground and command another person.

It is also a very scary thing to transmit negative energy, thinking about everything in the most negative area, and there is no trace of positive energy in every concept.

I want to pass on this kind of negative energy to the woman you like, keep saying some negative energy words, keep complaining, and a person with high emotional intelligence will make the person you like happy in the relationship, and become more and more proactive. And a person with low emotional intelligence often uses the method of self-belief concern to drag the original sun person into the shadows together.

No one wants to listen to some complaints all the time, and doing this all the time, in addition to making people feel more and more depressed, will also make women want to finish this kind of love. Sometimes, a woman's needs are low, and it is enough to meet someone who understands her. Maybe she doesn't need you to have a very high emotional intelligence and coax him exquisitely.

But when two people are together, isn't this just working together to develop in a better direction? A person with low emotional intelligence generally only stands in his own perspective, thinks singularly, and never considers the other party.

The more a man with low emotional intelligence is, the more he will beat and scold women, and he may ignore the gentleness and thoughtfulness of women.

Always take office in front of the incumbent.

A man with low emotional intelligence can't control his mouth, he likes to take office in front of the current one, whether it's good or bad, and he doesn't know what the man thinks in his heart, this ex is too grumpy, this ex is too spending, this ex is too ugly, he says a lot, women want to know what the man wants to express, is it saying that he is not worthy of him? Are there so many exes that are worth showing off? Isn't it your own fault that you have so many exes?

is not narrow-minded, and likes to be calculating.

What women hate the most is this kind of man, who looks very human, but is very narrow-minded when he does things, likes to be careful, goes out with women, the fare and meal money are calculated clearly, even a dime will not let go, sometimes when he goes out to eat, he still has an iron rooster that does not pull out a dime, and he still thinks that eating his girlfriend's meal, it is not interesting to give money, such a man's emotional intelligence is really not high.

Always like to spread negative energy.

Women like lively, cheerful, optimistic men, not men who blindly complain about life and the world's socks. Such men always like to spread their own negative energy, often mix life and work, bring the negative emotions at work home, bring the negative emotions at home to work, and always lament inexplicably, the people around them snub themselves something, so that the man's emotional intelligence is really low to have nothing to say.

Transmitting negative energy is also quite a terrible sign of relaxation, thinking about everything in the most negative place, and there is not a trace of positive power in all thoughts. I just have to pass on this negative energy to the woman I like, and keep saying some words that are good for negative energy.

Women are a very important part of the couple's sex life after marriage, and a woman must be able to determine the direction and future of a family. Behind a successful man there must be a woman with high emotional intelligence, who will become a bridge for the whole family, take care of many things in the family, and create a warm family natural environment for men. But there are 4 things that women try not to do, because these things hurt men's hearts the most.

The basis of affection is loyalty, and a person who is unfaithful to his feelings has crossed the bottom line of emotion. The most unbearable thing for a man is that his daughter is ambiguous with others, which is also a gap that a man can't cross in his heart, and once he touches this, a man usually can't recover the deep anger in his heart. In love life, only two people are allowed to exist, everything else cannot be tolerated, if there is a third party, this is a great blow to the man, and he will never forget it.

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, if a woman only knows how to compare her husband's flaws with the advantages of other men, this kind of woman is obviously poor EQ and IQ, even if she is dissatisfied in her heart, but she must not make such a comparison, which is completely hurting the man's self-esteem. No matter how good other men are, this is also another person, and no matter how bad your husband is, it is also your own choice, and you can urge him to correct if you have defects, rather than a deep and severe blow to him.

Married life, men inevitably make some small mistakes, after all, people are not sages, but some women grasp the mistakes of men, and take them out again and again, just a quarrel, all the mistakes made before are taken out again, in fact, this can not deal with the dispute at all, but will get louder and louder, let it pass in the past, and continue to hold on, obviously hurting the man's heart again and again, can not take it between husband and wife? There is reason and evidence, even if the dispute is the problem of the moment.

There is such a woman in the marriage, just quarrel, but also take out the divorce to talk about things, in this way to threaten men to give in, this is actually not a good way, so repeatedly and twice to threaten men with divorce, it will hurt the man's heart, the word divorce can not be easily said in and out, once expressed is for the sake of responsibility, no need to move out of the divorce due to some trivial things, this is the most undesirable way to solve the problem.

Often belittles men, doesn't give men face, and deceives men, these things hurt a man's heart the most, and if this woman has high emotional intelligence, she won't do it at all.

belittle him, say divorce when you quarrel, count him down in front of outsiders, and compare yourself with other men, you are not as good as whom.

always compares his best friend's husband with his own husband, and scolds his husband as worthless. Publicize her husband's ruined thoughts about bad sexual function everywhere. posted on the Internet that he was sleepy, scolded his mother-in-law for being sleepy, and publicized the scandals at home.

Kindness, money, sincerity. Many men do not know how to cherish, if the woman is very good to him, all kinds of cold and warm, then she will soon be ruthlessly abandoned.

In any case, if you love a boy or girl, you must keep your bottom line, don't let the boy break through the bottom line, don't leave all your face, and pay for this boy wholeheartedly, it's not worth it.

A woman with high emotional intelligence must understand that even if she loves this man very much, she must not give these things to a man, first of all, she can give her self-esteem to a man, you can't give all your future to a man, and you can't give your yearning for life to a man.

If you help and make the other person a habit, then you will become a "servant" in his life. For example, in daily life, many trivial things for men are asked to help you do. For example, helping him get something, helping him buy something, helping him deliver something, etc., all kinds of guidance to you, it seems that you are asking you to help, but in fact you are treated as free labor.

A woman with high emotional intelligence will not choose to refuse in the face of such a situation. After all, when it comes to helping, too many trivial things will make your help useless, but it will seem very cheap.

If a man is busy, and you happen to be idle all the time, it doesn't matter if you do a favor. It's just that if a man himself is idle and arrogant to you, then such a favor cannot be helped. To put it bluntly, this is getting used to men's stinky problems.

For example, if a man asks you to hand you tea, refill water, or even buy a box of cigarettes and doesn't want to move, you will also buy it for him. All in all, when dealing with men who ask you to help, sometimes you have to learn to say no appropriately. Don't be afraid to tear your face with someone, the other party doesn't care about you anymore, doesn't respect you, and asks you to do everything for him, this kind of man is not very worthy of your care, let alone your love.

Men and women get along and coexist, and for women, no matter how much they love a man, they can't help a man do something that violates the bottom line. Especially against morality and dishonesty in people's affairs. You may feel love, love someone, and don't care about anything.

However, the premise of not caring is that the other party is not tired of playing with you and does not harm you. The other party asked you to help, but it is already damaging you, so you can't do it.

A woman with high emotional intelligence is able to grasp such a sense of proportion. I understand more that helping this kind of thing must be based on the premise of mutual respect and not hurting each other. In particular, it is worth mentioning that some men ask women to help with borrowing, in other words, to help with borrowing, and this kind of financial problem must be cautious.

If not, it is very likely that you will be deceived very badly.

Do not meddle in men's emotional problems, and do not help men solve career problems; Don't help men find jobs, don't interfere too much in each other's lives.

When men are unwilling to do housework, women will blindly accommodate men, men take women to participate in some boring parties, women don't want to participate or will cater to men, men shirk their responsibilities, women will blindly compromise and retreat, men are special nests, and when they encounter things, they will avoid women and will stand up for men.

will not help men solve their previous emotional entanglements. Won't help men with debt troubles.

1.Often quarrels, like to turn over old accounts.

Many couples are together, and the man is not satisfied with the woman, and the woman quarrels with the man, and if it is not resolved, the quarrel will be endless. In this way, it is meaningless to tease the sedan chair at all.

2.Don't give face to men.

We all know that men are very proud outside, and they especially hope that their girlfriends can give themselves a long face to make the envy of those around them. Women should know that they have to give men enough wheel to save face outside.

A woman with real high emotional intelligence will not touch a man's ex, nor will she deny a man, let alone belittle a man's parents.

Insulting a man's parents in front of a man, provoking a relationship between a man and his friends, and often calling on a man.

Often accompany each other, tolerate each other's temper, and be particularly useful to each other, these three tricks can give birth to a man's heart.

will make yourself very good, and whether at home or outside, you will give enough face to men, even if you laugh at the old crack and rise to the Liang woman's mastery of the finance university, she will also give the man's pocket money, and she will be very gentle and well-behaved in her in-law's house, and she will not embarrass her husband.

will consider problems from the perspective of recovering from a man's point of view, will often laugh at Yuzhao and ignore men's emotions, will improve their ability to dress up, and women will use these three tricks to tie men's hearts.

Such women will respect each other very much, understand each other, consider things from each other's point of view, and pay attention to keeping some privacy for each other when getting along with each other, and they will also pay attention to consider each other's emotions when speaking.

Be able to respect his husband, protect his husband, bring him a better quality of life, and help him solve some problems in life.