Does love at first sight last?

Just like each of us is looking for the type that suits us in our minds In our daily life, we are exposed to various types of the opposite sex After a long period of contact, everyone has a type that we think is suitable for us Life will pay special attention to this type of favorite In life, after a long time of contact, this type will have its own conclusion, so in life I am always looking for this kind of person who I think is the most suitable for me If I meet the type that I have been looking for for a long time in my life, the type that I think is most suitable for me appears in my life I think that if you believe in love at first sight, you should express your good feelings to express your good feelings should be discharged first When you look at him and her with your very good eyes, you can express your good feelings for him and her Personally, I think love at first sight is not good, don't scold me....

<> can't say that it will not last long, but the probability that the relationship will not last long is determined too quickly is higher than that of the relationship determined slowly.

To say a very cruel thing:

In a relationship that is established too quickly, you are not actually in a relationship with someone, but with your own fantasies. ”

When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at a certain right time and place, you meet the person who is covered in light.

In your eyes, his gestures are full of education, and his cheeks and clusters exude a unique charm.

It just so happens that you are in his eyes.

Both of you think that you have met true love, so you add friends, chat, flirt, and fall in love, all of which are expected by you, and the speed of light is going smoothly and smoothly.

Until the night you established your relationship, you felt lucky and happy, but there was always a sense of uncertainty in your heart.

You suddenly realize that "everything that happened is too unreal, this relationship is too abnormal", in fact, it is the psychological gap in the relationship between the sexes.

You once fantasized that he was a polite boy, but after dating, you found out that "he actually has a bad habit of shaking his legs and occasionally swearing";

You once fantasized that she was a gentle and delicate girl, but after dating, you found out that "she can go without washing her hair for a week, and occasionally have princess disease";

You once fantasized about having a vigorous relationship, but after dating, you realized that "it's just like this, and dating your ex is not the same".

Are you entering a period of emotional burnout ahead of time?

No. It's because you've been in a relationship with "fantasy before", defining each other as a 100-point perfect partner, and with the blessing of the so-called halo effect of love at first sight, you will automatically block each other's shortcomings, as well as imagine some advantages that the other person simply doesn't exist.

Why is it said that the relationship of "flash marriage and flash love" is nine times sad?

It's because you imagine each other too perfect in your fantasies, and you trust each other with the certainty that "you are my true love and we should be together", but what about after establishing a relationship? This is undoubtedly the process of shattering your illusions with your own hands.

Two people who gradually come together through the run-in period, after establishing a relationship, is actually a process of increasing points on the passing line;

But the feelings of direct flash love and the establishment of a relationship at the speed of light are actually a process of continuously subtracting points in 100 points.

So generally don't be too quick to determine the relationship, just take your time and get to know each other slowly.

Favorite, like, love, is a trilogy of falling in love together. In general, boyfriends and girlfriends will follow this standard. Starting from the two of them looking at each other, as time goes by, they will get to know each other and become familiar with each other, and each other will understand whether the other party is the person they are looking for.

There is also a love story of "love at first sight, accompanied for life". It's less, but it does.

When a person has been empty for a long time, it is actually easy to fall in love at first sight, and at an ordinary time and place, he meets a person with light all over his body.

The lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi", his smile and every move exude a unique charm, you try everything to get closer, and soon establish a relationship, at this time, the emotional road begins to diverge to both ends.

At one end of the spectrum, the freshness is not there, and the hormones come and go quickly. At one end is the emotion of "indescribable", and finally it turns into the attachment between family members.

Is it too quick to determine that the relationship is not long-lasting? Can the relationship that has experienced the long-distance love run be long-lasting? None of this is absolute.

But it cannot be denied that there is a period of love in a relationship, and after the period of love, there is no "unreserved love and love after being attracted by the other party's temperament and appearance".

I have had the experience of flash love, which is the so-called love at first sight, that is, when I see what I like, as long as I am tall and handsome, that is, I like to attract me, then I will have a soft spot for it.

One. I don't approve of this kind of flash love behavior, because too quickly determine the feelings of the relationship, it will not last long, we only see the surface, we feel very satisfied, but in essence, the two of us do have a lot of such and such inappropriateness, such as whether the three views are the same, personality, temperament is appropriate.

What is there about him that attracts me? Just at a glance, I think she looks good, tall and handsome, and the sun attracts you. makes you fall in love with her at first sight, and even be very obsessed with him.

Three. But when we really get along together, we know that we can't become real lovers just by looking at the surface, because we want to get along together, we will know the views of two people who encounter some problems when they get along. Including when two people communicate, are there any obstacles or opinions?

What are the differences in temperament and personality? Because while you want to know him, you should also want to know his inner thoughts and his views on life and himself. Only people with the same three views can walk together, only people with personality, temperament, tolerance to each other, and people who can change each other, then you can understand each other, care for each other, and even accept each other.

There is still a long way to go. We can't just look at the happiness in front of us, we want to be happy all the time before we are truly happy, just think the same as me!