How do you look at the phenomenon of two people breaking up because of the bride price?

The bride price should not be less, the mad bride price, the can't ask for it, and the bride price can't be married! However, if the man thinks that the tens of thousands of bride price is too high, he will break up in the future! I don't think anything about the bride price breakup, I can get married, and I can't afford to marry.

You can marry if you don't want a bride price, you can marry if you want a bride price, and you can decide whether you marry or not.

In social psychology, it can be seen that if the woman makes concessions and understands the man's difficulties, she will take a bride price of 12,000, which will not only not make the other party look down on her, but will also leave the name of a reasonable and good daughter-in-law. If you make a fuss because of money, then in the end, even if you reluctantly marry, you will not be treated well, which is very different from taking the initiative to ask for a bride price of 12,000.

In fact, I am very resistant to this phenomenon, but the problem of one-child families is rare, because parents have one child, and they all return to your family in the end, so parents don't care, but there are several children in the family is different, there is a concept in China, girls marry out and become different, people's people, so some families care about this very much, but in fact, there are pros and cons to this, pros: needless to say, people definitely don't want their daughters to give you for nothing, but the disadvantages are very serious, I feel that the bride price money is the same as buying a wife back, and there are the most disputes at this time, which is not conducive to the development of feelings.

It is not easy for two people to walk together, but it is because of the bride price issue and the trouble is that the woman is too concerned about face, and the man feels that the woman finally backtracks is unwilling to marry, although both parties have their own concerns, but they are too stubborn and unwilling to give in, especially the woman, since she agreed at the beginning, don't go back, if you regret it, let the other party's relatives look down on it. This is the integrity that belongs to a person, and it has nothing to do with the amount of money.

I feel that if it is because of the bride price, he should not contact you, after all, it is not your fault, and he has not contacted once, maybe he is really not attentive to you. I think more than 40,000 is very little for now, and his parents are too irresponsible.

If you can, the bride price will be repaid to you, anyway, it will be used to give birth to children (you have not paid child support), and I have not squandered it, but it is a lot worse. I only wish I hadn't met you, if I hadn't met you, the bride price you cared about would still be yours, and I myself have earned back this money, and even lived a better life, only to blame myself for being blind at the beginning.

If you really want to marry a man, then according to the man's family, the bride price will be appropriately proposed, and if you don't want to marry, don't marry. If you want to test the man, there are too many options (although I personally don't think that love can be tested). My point of view is to get married first, and the bride price is a pleasure.

The bride price, depending on the situation, can be given more at home, but obviously the family is relatively poor, and it is not interesting to borrow money to pay the bride price, don't you have to pay back the bride price money you borrowed when you get married? What's more, the bride price is just a form of auspiciousness, there is no need to make it so big!

Or the relationship is not in place, he may not like you that much. I now understand your feelings very well and take the initiative to ask him the reason, afraid to hear the results he doesn't want to hear, and afraid that he is not so important in his heart, he has not taken the initiative to contact him since he was divided, it is he who takes the initiative to find him will feel that he has no self-esteem, as if no one wants the feeling, but I don't know what he means, if he loves, how can he forget it in such a short time, and he doesn't make it clear why he is very entangled.

Instead of this, why not take the initiative to take a step back, you are now with your beloved, so be more considerate of his difficulties, and benefit others is equal to your own benefit. Being reasonable will not only leave a good name, but will also lay a good foundation for future harmony, so why not.

As society gets better and better, people's requirements for quality of life are getting higher and higher, resulting in people's material needs increasing year by year.

The first is that marriage is not the same as falling in love, the need for material things is greater, so it may take more money to support it. Because the situation faced before marriage and after marriage is different, before marriage, two people only need to eat happily and play well, without thinking about the house and car, but marriage is not only about the house, car, etc., but also about raising children, so after the demand increases, you will want to have more, and you want to be more relaxed in the future.

If there is more, the man's side can't afford 2, and there will be a normal breakup.

The second type: the mother's family loves face, and the man's family has no strength, if the mother's family is the kind of person who loves face very much, it will produce the psychology of comparing with other people's families, how much other people's families want, and the man's family has no extra money to buy the RV in the man's house, and the man can't take out so much money, and he will naturally break up in the end.

The third blind dismantling: the mother's family thinks about their son, wants to ask for more bride price, thinks about their son, for fear that their son will need more bride price money in the future, and he can't take out so much money for fear that his son can't get his daughter-in-law, but it is not easy for anyone to make money, and the man's family knows that this money is naturally reluctant to give others as a dowry, and this society has more and more strict material requirements.

I think that breaking up on the issue of bride price is a good thing, which shows that there are still many conflicts between a series of concepts between the two parties, before marriage is the bride price, after marriage is trivial caused by the earth-shaking situation, and finally it becomes divorce, and the concept instilled by the family from childhood to adulthood is very difficult to change. Looking at it this way, how good it is to stop the loss for both parties in this way.

I don't think it's worth breaking up because of the bride price. Feelings are the most important, and character should be valued. People can't be swayed by money, but many people break up because the bride price can't be negotiated, and they are helpless.

The woman asks for a lot of bride price, and the man has the right to decide to break up, which is also a kind of money marriage.

Yes, there was also a time when I had my first love, which was to break up because the bride price issue was not discussed, and my second love was very smooth when I talked about the bride price, so we are still very happy now, and we live happily together

First, as a man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship.

If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in the relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease that they will hand over their daughter to you.

Second, the woman insisted that the bride price should not have a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, when parents see that they truly love each other, but can't bear to celebrate with their elders, they will gradually relent.

Third, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you do not have the support and consent of both parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Fourth, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Fifth, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

As a daughter, on the one hand, we should communicate with our parents gently, explain our relationship with the man, and on the other hand, we should also negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept it.

Marriage is a happy marriage, and each of us pursues a happy marriage. However, in the process of talking about marriage, couples may be affected and restricted by various factors, which will affect the marriage. For example, some couples will break up unhappily because of the bride price.

The reason for this situation is that if the bride price issue is not resolved, it will not be possible to get married, because the bride price problem will affect the relationship between the two parties, which will inevitably lead to unhappy breakups, and some couples will be forced to break up because they cannot afford the bride price.

1. If the issue of bride price cannot be resolved, couples cannot get married.

For a marriage, the issue of bride price is a very real problem. If this aspect is not properly resolved, the parties will certainly not be able to get married. Therefore, if there is a disagreement on the bride price and the two parties cannot reach an agreement, the couple will definitely not be able to get married.

2. If the relationship between the couple is affected because of the bride price, the two parties will inevitably break up.

For couples, the most important factor in maintaining a relationship with each other is the relationship between each other. Only when the feelings of both parties are harmonious can they continue to enhance their feelings and finally enter the palace of marriage. If there is a problem between the two parties in the process of discussing marriage because of the bride price, the relationship between each other will be affected, and the final result will inevitably be that both parties break up, which is a kind of harm to either party.

3. Some couples will be forced to break up because they can't afford the bride price.

When a couple talks about marriage, the woman will ask the man to take a certain amount of bride price. For some people, they will not be able to get so much bride price because of their limited financial conditions. At this time, if the woman insists, there is no room for maneuver in this problem, and the result is that the two people may be forced to break up because of this.

Such a situation may be detrimental to the couple, but it can be in reality. Therefore, couples who truly love each other should maintain good communication and coordination on the issue of bride price, and fully consider the actual situation of each other, so that they can harvest perfect love, and both parties can get married and live a happy life from now on.