Isn t it true that the more you care about something, the more you will lose?

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It is a must, and you need to hold on to it.

There is always something that people care about very much, or people or things or things.

When I was young, I cared about a lot of things, but they were not very important, a beautiful dress, a cute toy, can make us care very much, but when we grow up, what we care about is different, and people often care more about feelings. Whether it's when you're a child or when you're growing up, it's because you have people and things you care about in your heart that you don't feel lonely and your life isn't monotonous, so I think it's a good thing to care. If one doesn't care too much about something, one loses oneself.

There are only two kinds of results that you care about, one is joy, you get what you care about, or the person you care about also cares about you, then you will be very happy; The other is sadness, you can't get what you care about, or the person you care about doesn't care about you, then it will be very unbalanced in your heart, but it doesn't mean that you have no hope.

When you care too much, you are either happy because you care about each other, or you feel sad because you don't care.

Whether you care or not, it's all willing, if a person can control his heart, then he is too rational a person. So it's actually out of our control whether we care or not.

Maybe that's the truth.

But I still can't help but care.

Isn't it? At least I am.

Yes, the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose it, and if you can let it go, you may never lose it.

Not necessarily, depending on how you cherish it.

The more you care about something, the easier it is to lose the sentence is as follows:

1. The more persistent you are, the more you care, the easier it is to lose, because you want it very much, so you can't afford even the slightest change.

2. There are some things that are easier to lose the more you care about them, such as RMB.

3. You have to know that the most worthless thing in the world is not only feelings, but also care, and the more you care, the easier it is to lose, so in the future, remember not to let yourself live humbly for anything.

4. A person who is willing to give you all his free time must love you very much, but the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose, and you must not be like this in the future.

5. I found that the more I cared about something, the easier it was to lose. I guess I might as well go with the flow.

6. It turns out that the more you care, the easier it is to lose, but later I learned not to care.

7, I like the earrings suddenly fell off, I went back to look for it all the way and didn't find it, the more I care about the things, the more I will lose them, and the people I like are too, the more I care, the easier it is to lose, I'm really bad.

8. I am a person who is very afraid of losing, but sometimes the more I care, the easier it is to lose, many times I don't understand why I suddenly lose or change, but if it is a really good relationship, I believe that I will know what kind of person I am, if you don't understand, then in fact, I don't need to be entangled, I don't understand my own people, why should I be sad about it.

9. Many times the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose, and when you treat it with a normal heart, it will get better and better.

10. People should learn to let go, often the more they care, the easier it is to lose.

11. The more you care about a person, the easier it is to lose, and when you treat someone who doesn't care about you with all your sincerity, you will understand that all the efforts are insignificant.

12. The more you care about the play, the worse it is, and the more you care about it, the easier it is to lose.

13. Sometimes the more you care, the easier it is to lose, self-discipline, find your own position, don't give up what you insist on, and don't make trouble for others, everyone has everyone's way of life, stick to your own, don't regret it in your lifetime.

A relationship that has already tasted the sweetness, the more you care, the more you will lose. Because caring will produce the psychology and behavior of domination and control, and not wanting to be controlled is the last thing that everyone is willing to accept, so there will be the psychology of wanting to break free, because freedom is what everyone wants, and the distance that can be stopped will make people comfortable with each other. Therefore, don't ask for more when you get it, the people who love you will naturally pay for you, and the people who don't love you can't keep it.

The more you care about something, the more you lose something.

For example, if you care about face, others may not look up to you.

Just like sand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it drains.

As long as the essence of a thing is added with the word "Yue", it will backfire, as the saying goes, smart is mistaken by smart, too much. They are all warning us of the importance of grasping "degree".

Maybe the meaning of life is to teach you how to do a good job, do it just right, just right. It's not an easy thing to do, so it will be honed, and there will be a "you" who adapts to this society.

In fact, this is a very profound question.

We are all ordinary people, and there is no way to be a perfect existence. A lot of times, we can be prone to "overdoing things". Paying too much attention to one thing is not a good thing, you will put a lot of thought into it, and it is a kind of forced "attention".

Of course, it may also be just obsessive-compulsive disorder.

The world is like that, simple and complex.

The more you care, the more you lose.

1. I want to fall in love, and I hope that either it doesn't start, or it will last a lifetime.

2. Not because I'm obsessed, but because you're worthy.

3. If you can't think about it, you don't want it, and if you can't get it, you don't want it. Why do you have to wronged yourself.

4. You will never know how much you like someone unless you see them like another person.

5. From now on, I will no longer look forward to it, and only cherish what I have.

6. The pain of parting and disappointment can no longer be spoken.

7. I just want to be with you, that's all.

8. True love means never having to say sorry.

9. If you feel sorry for me and give up loving others, I don't want such sympathy.

10. If you still have me in your heart, please forget about others and be kind to me.

11. I once gave you the warmest embrace, but you gave me the most painful joke.

12. Love, just say it out loud, because you will never know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident.

13. In life, there are people who can make you smile even when they are not by your side, which is really good.

14. I miss you, a little deep, a little frequent, and more and more intense day by day.

15. No matter how much you hate your school, you will still miss it when you have been away for a long time.

16. One day, I will forget you. I wasn't looking forward to it, and I didn't feel lost. I just know that there will be a day.

17. Do things that make you happy and make friends who can make you happy; Laugh as often as you breathe, and love as long as life.

18. This is me, no one said you have to like it.

19. Time is like water, always speechless. If you're well, it's a sunny day.

20. No matter how difficult it is, keep moving forward, because only you give up'At that moment, you lost.

21. Everyone has an impossible person in their psyche.

22. The greatest happiness in life is to firmly believe that someone loves us.

23. When no one is distressed, they feel sorry for themselves.

24. Travel is the best way to eliminate ignorance and hatred.

25. A person's life should be crazy once, whether it is for a person, a love, a journey, or a dream.

26. Don't take other people's concerns for granted. No matter how much he loves you, there will be a tired day eventually.

27. The more you care, the more you lose.

28. One of the happiest things in life is to chat with a group of 38 in 38.

29. I believe that people who really care about me will not be snatched away by others. Whether it's friendship, or love.

30. Walk alone, sleep alone, think alone, and indulge alone. One person is busy, one person is tired, one person is irritable, and one person experiences.

31. Sometimes, the more you hide your feelings for someone, the deeper you fall.

In many cases, it is really the opposite of things, and happiness and sorrow.

Because you care too much, you become too careful about your life. You collect his favorite snacks, learn to cook his favorite dishes, wear his favorite styles, and imitate the female celebrities he admires.

Because you care too much, you make each other's lives too crowded. Maybe he can't accompany you when he's busy with work, maybe he sometimes doesn't see your message, although you are relieved, but you still can't help but keep suspicious.

There is nothing wrong with two people who love each other and need a lot of care and care for each other. But love is like a huge scale, you give too much on this side, and he doesn't give enough on the other side, and if you lose your balance, it will eventually collapse.

If you love too hard and too paranoidly, it will put too much pressure on the other person and cause a relationship to fall apart. So, in many cases, it's best to keep a normal mind.

Because caring is chaotic, the more you care, the more you care, which may backfire, just like the sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster it will be lost, and the extreme of things will be reversed.

Many times, people will always feel happy when they are close to happiness, and when happiness really comes, they will suffer from gains and losses, some things, the more you care, the tighter you will grasp, the tighter you grasp it, the easier it will be to lose, the extreme of things will be reversed, and happiness will be sad.

The more you care about a person, the easier it is to lose yourself, the easier it is to suffer from gains and losses, the higher your expectations, and the higher the rewards you desire.

Eason Chan's red rose, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are favored are always fearless. The more you care about a person, the easier it is to lose the other person and lose yourself.

Because the more you care, the more you will take care of it, and if you take care of it too much, it will be easy to lose, and the extremes of things will be reversed.

Because you care too much, you will pay special attention, and if you make a slight change, you will pay special attention, so you will feel that it is easy to lose.

Because if you care too much, you will be very sensitive and make some very extreme actions, so that it is easy to lose.

Yes, just like sand, the closer you grab, the faster it drains, let it be, and caring too much is not a good thing.

Because you care, you will grasp it very tightly, and the tighter you grasp it, the faster you will lose it, so the more you care, the easier it is to lose.

Because there is a lot of hope, the more nervous you are about something, the more careful you are, and the more likely it is to make mistakes.

The more you care about something, the more you want to get it, and you take care of it in your own way, which may not happen to be what others want.

Because no one cares when something is lost.

Everything must have a degree, Ma Zhe and Lao Tzu have mentioned the truth that things must be opposed. The more you care, the easier it is to impose your own subjective will, which often has the opposite result.

Because they care about the relationship very much, they are naturally afraid of losing, so they will try to please each other. This process requires abandoning part of the original habits to cooperate with the other person, suppressing the ego, and thus accumulating anger.

These anger can erupt in certain unfulfilled events, turning into tantrums and quarrels. After the quarrel, there is a fear that the relationship will deteriorate, which will lead to regret and self-blame, and deepen the fear of loss. Fear of losing, and then start pleasing again. Enter a vicious circle.

If the humble partner does not find other sustenance in life at this time and puts all his energy into the relationship, the cycle will turn faster and the arguments will become more frequent until both parties are exhausted and break up.

I think that in a healthy and balanced relationship, it is indispensable to please and cooperate with each other. If you let me go, I let you go, and the exchange of gifts will last forever.

So, caring doesn't lead to loss, and pleasing doesn't lead to loss. The key is the way and degree of pleasing, and how much self-repression there is.

For example, in order to please the boy's favorite style, the girl always feels uncomfortable when she dresses revealingly, learns a game she doesn't like, and holds back her discomfort to face his friends and force a smile. On one occasion when a boy was too sleepy to fall asleep and didn't have time to say goodnight, the girl was furious. The boy accused her of making a fuss and being vexatious, and then ignored her.

Because girls care too much, they cause self-blame and fear of loss, and then they become more kind to boys.

If the girl is self-conscious enough, she will know that her anger is not the self-forgetting to say goodnight, but the expectation and disappointment behind the sacrifice of herself.

From the perspective of boys, loving too hard also makes people feel a lot of pressure. Every time you give, it seems to say, "Look how good I am to you, you can't let me down a little." If the other party is too good, he will become a bad person.

Therefore, I think that in a long-term relationship, it is more important and difficult to get along comfortably than to love passionately.

It's not that the more you care about something, the easier it is to lose, but that you only know the preciousness of what you have after you lose it, so you feel that it is the thing you care about the most, so now no matter what you look like, you have to cherish everything you have now.