My niece and nephew have confessed to me, what should I do? 110

First of all, it should be clear that you are very good, very handsome, and have a good temperament. has become a male god in the hearts of many boys.

Do you look like a woman like a sissy? Otherwise, why would both of them confess to you? I don't think it's normal.,If you're really like a woman.,You really have to change yourself.,Otherwise, how can you find a partner?

If you want to establish the correct three views for them, you should persuade others, for example: you should study (work) hard at this age, you should like girls, in China, sex, love is not accepted, ......Usually if you don't meet, you won't meet, as the saying goes: love grows over time.

Maybe they were on a whim?

You have to talk to him, maybe this confession doesn't mean that, you have to make it clear to him, let him know what he means by saying this, what he thinks in his heart.

Yes? Cousins and nephews have confessed? Dizzy.

Resolutely reject ......And educate it!

After all, you are relatives and you are elders, and you have the responsibility to guide and educate them to establish correct values and outlook on life

Men should have masculinity, don't let yourself delay a good life by a momentary illusion!

If you look at the problem analysis, it is better to refuse it quickly, and don't drag the mud and water, which will only make others feel that there is a chance.

You must be charismatic!

If you want to establish the correct three views for them, you should persuade others, for example: you should study (work) hard at this age, you should like girls, in China, sex, love is not accepted, ......

Usually if you don't meet, you won't meet, as the saying goes: love grows over time. Maybe they were on a whim?

This situation depends on whether you have the will, if not, decisively refuse.

Reject them, see them less often, and don't show too much concern for them.

It's not gay to make it clear directly, if you like it too, then you have to have the courage to face it, love knows no gender.

You should reject him, and then talk to him well and establish the correct three views for him.

Maybe it's your local custom? Since you are already related by blood, then really don't go and have any more contact, it's ugly to say this.

Be decisive and reject them.

Then you have to reject them harshly.

Tell their parents directly and it won't be solved.

You're certainly not within three generations! And it's not a direct line either.

This kind of thing is unreasonable for an outsider, let alone your parents and family. Let's hope this is the end of it, and don't go any further.

You are close relatives, to confess to you, to decisively refuse, you like him and it is impossible to be together, such a relationship is destined to be blessed, so don't waste your time and feelings, stay away from him, if you meet someone you like, it should be a new relationship time, which can make you forget him.

Strictly speaking, you have gone beyond the prohibition of three generations of marriage between close relatives, he and your mother are the third generation. If you really like each other, if no one in your family objects, it's nothing.

This also belongs to close relatives.,If it's not more than five volts, it's close relatives.,So if you just want to fall in love, it's good for two people to know.,If you're going to get married, it's good to think about it.,It's more things that affect the next generation.。

Uncle wants to confess to you, this is obviously messing up the generation, you can just say that this is resolutely not allowed.

I advise you to dispel such thoughts and thoughts, because according to the marriage law of our country, who are you? Relatives within three generations cannot be married. So it is said that it is ten million. Give up this marriage, the state will not allow it.

In this case, three generations of close relatives are not allowed to marry, so you should refuse it outright.

As long as it is not within the scope of close relatives as stipulated by law, be bold to love!

It's something else, it's bad, it's not good to say. Although, not an immediate family, it is not homologous. But the family looked chaotic.

This shouldn't be okay, you belong to close relatives, and even adults won't agree to it.

Marriage between close relatives is easy to bring bad results to offspring, and it is not very recommended to be together, but if the blood relationship is not very close, then it does not matter.

Open places can ignore seniority, but then you don't seem to be out of the range of close relatives.

Isn't this exactly what you want, and I'm really helping you look forward to it

My cousin confessed to you, of course he was going to refuse, no matter what reason you had, you would have no result, even if you liked him very much, but you still had to refuse, decisively refuse.

Let's not talk about the outcome between you, let's talk about how your parents think about this matter, and what to do when you get married in the future, this is not to say that you don't have that kind of qualification to fall in love, but to find someone who is not a relative when you fall in love, right!

So you still have to reject him, there is a lot of fruitless love in this world, what you have to do is to find the most suitable person for yourself, not who confesses to you and you have to fall in love with him, there is no way to make concessions when it comes to falling in love.

Please remember that your cousin will always be a cousin, and you can't have any relationship between lovers, so I hope you can make it clear to your cousin and don't let this relationship continue anymore.

Love without results is not blessed, whether you know this sad ending or not, I don't want you to continue.

It's too late to let go, and when your love is deep, it will be impossible to separate, so it won't hurt you to separate as soon as possible.

There is no reason in this world that anyone is destined to be with whom, so you will definitely meet the person you really like, so you should let go of this relationship at this time.

I know it's easy to meet someone you like during adolescence, but when you're older, you'll find out that you've chosen the wrong person.

First of all, it is clear that this cousin is a relative of your mother's in-laws, and then you can rationally recognize whether you like this so-called cousin, and finally you can distinguish between relatives, because the marriage of close relatives will have many sequelae in the future, whether you can accept it. So when your cousin confesses to you, you must ask yourself these three questions. It's not too late to ask clearly, figure it out, and then refuse or accept.

I remember that I watched a ** movie called "Uncle Dongcen Xi" in high school, Cen Wei is the heroine likes her uncle, and she bears it silently, not daring to let her family know. Indeed it is. It's like when I was young, I went to a friend's house to play, and if I had a good friend who wanted to stay at his house, my father would say that men and women couldn't kiss each other.

I didn't understand it before, but then I was precocious because I liked to read books in junior high school, and I saw many such stories from books.

If this matter (my cousin confessed to me) is deeply in my heart, I will choose to refuse, let's not talk about whether I like my cousin or not, from the perspective of family affection, I belong to the rabbit who does not eat the grass next to the nest, not to mention the cousin, it is even more impossible. The second reason for this is that I am afraid of the after-effects. I have been instilled by my parents since I was a child that if a woman can't have children, she is not a complete woman, and *** will be born in the middle of her own children will make me even more unacceptable, I like children very much, so I will definitely have children, but if I have to raise a defective child for my own reasons, it is even more unacceptable.

The third reason is that I don't like you, even if you confess to me, the final result will be nothing.

So, cousin, don't waste your efforts. There are so many flowers in the world, and there are too many opportunities for you to choose, so let me go. And if I am with you, with the relationship between our two families, I will be like a transparent person, and any little wind and grass will be a behemoth for the two families, and the earth will shake.

Of course, it's a refusal, cousin, and a direct refusal, leaving no room for anything.

That's your cousin, it's your relative, you're related by blood, and if the two of you are together, it's a union of close relatives, which is not recognized by everyone. And everyone knows, and the most important reason, is that the probability of giving birth to offspring with various diseases is much higher, such as albinism, pediatric dementia, and easy fetal malformations and imperfections. This is why the marriage of close relatives that was popular in ancient times is basically non-existent in modern times, and everyone does not want their children to be unsound.

Your parents, his parents won't approve of you being together, so you don't have any other ideas, you just think about how you can make your cousin forget about you, but it won't hurt him very much, I know you must be in a difficult place to be here. First of all, you have to make it clear that it is impossible for you to be with him, you just treat him as your own brother, and you have no other ideas. Secondly, you try to avoid meeting him, but don't be particularly deliberate, and when you see him, you have to pretend that this incident did not happen, he is still your brother, and you still get along with him as a sister.

He forgets that you still need time, this world is not who can't live without anyone, and when he goes out to contact more people, he will naturally meet other girls who are excited.

In short, you can't promise him, it's for your own sake and for his good.

You must refuse, you can't agree to your cousin's confession, you and he are related, relatives can't get married, you definitely don't want to be with your cousin so you are very distressed, in fact, you don't have to feel distressed, you just say that you are not suitable, relatives can't have an excessive relationship, if he really doesn't listen, tell your parents about this matter, let your parents deal with this matter.

It is normal for the children of relatives to get along with each other day and night, after all, children will reach the age of the beginning of love, and at this age, when they do not meet other people they like, they will shift their attention to the relatives and children around them, just like your cousin is the same to you, at this time you should remind your cousin that this is a bit out of bounds, take 10,000 steps back and say, even if you are together, the family can't stop you, but in the end, if you are pregnant with a child, This child must have a variety of congenital defects, and you will definitely not have the money to treat the child, and the family will be disgraced because of this.

You must explain this matter clearly to your cousin, you must refuse, and if your cousin does not listen to persuasion, you can talk to your parents about this matter and let the parents of both sides solve it.

If you say this kind of thing at the age of 20 or older, then you have to be careful, he may still have some feelings for you.

I have to say, I don't support you accepting him. No matter how old you are, because biologically there is no possibility of good results between close relatives, and there is no possibility of development for you morally, if you fall in love, what will you do in the future? Can you be together?

Can we be together in the open? You will be blamed by those around you. I suggest that you better refuse.

Of course, if you feel that you can't let go of your heart, you also have a little affection for your cousin, if you are under the age of twenty, it doesn't hurt for you to try, over the age of twenty,—— everyone is an adult, put your energy on fighting for life, okay, like this kind of relationship with no result and no future, it will lose time and mood if you talk about it, and the impact is not good, and it will not be good for two people to see each other when they get married in the future.

To be honest, homosexuality is so rampant nowadays, let alone your kind of love, in fact, sometimes I think it's normal for other people's love. After all, if it didn't happen to me, I just felt that there was no big deal. But if you really choose to be together, the pressure is very high.

In addition to the pressure between one's own relatives, there is also a worldly vision. And you will definitely not be able to have children in the future, because it is not very sound to give birth. Even if you adopt a child, when he finds out about you, he will only hate you.

This kind of love can only exist in ancient times, and it really shouldn't exist in modern times.