How to feel about a roommate who is always self centered?

This kind of relationship is actually not difficult to deal with, self-centered people are particularly competitive, and they are not willing to fall behind easily in anything, even if it is a trivial matter, they have to worry about it, and they have to fight to win or lose. So when he is competitive, take a step back and admit that he is right, and it would be good if such a problem would not happen again next time, and I believe that there will be no major conflicts between a dormitory, nothing more than some small things.

A self-centered person only focuses on himself, he never thinks about others, and always feels that the world should revolve around him. To put it bluntly, this kind of person is selfish and will not get along with others. And the interaction between people is mutual, there is no good for no reason, and there is no bad for no reason.

People follow the principle of courtesy and exchange between people. As the saying goes, "You respect me a foot, and I pay you back" is a manifestation of courtesy.

Generally, this kind of person will be very flamboyant in a certain aspect, and in serious cases, he will be very presumptuous. After a friendly reminder, let it develop, or that sentence, if it doesn't affect you, you don't care about him, don't be a person who can't put a little sand in his eyes. Besides, there is no one who must not get along, especially when they were students, everyone is still at a relatively simple age, there is nothing to breed such as deceit, it is not a big deal, and it is the best response to those who are not used to it.

Feeling good about oneself will be reflected in various aspects, such as stinky beauty, feeling that I am better than others, etc., and sometimes I will use this to ridicule people who are not as good as myself, which is really annoying. But it is not possible for you to change him, and when he is in this situation, change the subject or ignore him silently. It's also quite boring for a person to chirp crookedly, and he won't talk about it after a while.

Take a step back, if you can't avoid it, let him do it, praise him for doing a good job, and he'll be embarrassed to say it if he doesn't do it well.

For a self-centered roommate, all we have to do is get used to it, and since we know that he is self-centered, we don't expect him to consider the feelings of others. When you can tolerate it, you can tolerate it, and if you can't tolerate it, you can communicate with him directly and tactfully. Let him understand that this is not his home, and that he can't do anything according to his own temperament.

It's a bit hard to get along with people who are very egoistic. It can only be said that she does not know how to get along with people. It is a very good state for a person to live in his own world and do learning.

However, if you want to get along with your teachers, classmates, and colleagues, you have to put your role out. This is the most basic way to get along with people. One has to bring one's character out of the door anytime and anywhere.

Of course, there are family roles at home, and social roles outside. People who are always very self-conscious will not be able to deal with problems, will not get along with others, and will not have their own good friends.

I don't have much to deal with people like that, I'm too self-centered and don't think about others at all. It's not good for you, they'll get into trouble with you. For such a person, you should clearly tell him that he cannot be self-centered, otherwise you will not want to be friends with him.

If you hate it, stay away, don't contact too much, don't talk if it's okay, don't joke, because after a long time, you will find that he will slowly take advantage of you.

For example, there is such a person in our dormitory, one of our roommates is going to have a birthday, we all discussed going to a hot pot restaurant to eat, only she was unwilling, saying that she would have diarrhea, so she would not go, and did not consider our feelings at all, and then we changed to eat stir-fried vegetables in order to accommodate her, she was still unwilling, she wanted to eat barbecue, but there are many people in our dormitory who do not eat barbecue, so there is no way to solve the problem of eating, and then our roommate is very domineering and said that she will go to eat hot pot, happy to go, and then she is not happy, Or go with us, in my words this kind of person just can't get used to it, he has always been self-centered, never used to others, how can you let others have been accommodating him is unrealistic, so for such a person just don't care, if it involves their own interests, you have to fight, don't consider his feelings, and let yourself be wronged, it's not worth it, I hope you can understand that you are used to her, the more powerful she is, the more she bullies you, only if you no longer spoil her, consider his feelings, you won't have this feeling.

So you must stay away, or ignore him domineeringly.

I don't know if it's because most families are only children now, and there are many people around me who don't think much about the feelings of others.

As for my roommates, most of the time it's okay and not so self-centered. But sometimes, it's really infuriating. I've always thought that getting together is a kind of fate, and I think that everyone should live together in harmony.

We were lucky this year, not long after we came in, the dormitory was air-conditioned. Last summer, when it was very hot, the principal opened the air-conditioned classrooms and let the students on the higher floors go to sleep. We are really happy this year, the dormitory has air conditioning, and we have a new bed frame or something.

Hate or hate, hate doesn't solve the problem, so what you have to do is how to make your roommate understand his self-centeredness. Let him deeply understand how annoying and unpleasant his behavior is. Communication, joking ridicule, anyway, boys should be more generous, not like girls with such a small belly, as long as boys don't poke at the sore spots, there should be no major contradictions.

If you hate his behavior, say it out loud. If you don't say it, you will feel uncomfortable, although you may not change it if you say it, but don't make yourself uncomfortable.

The dormitory is a small home. There are different members of the family. And each of our sisters is not related by blood.

This is doomed, many people are not able to care for others from the heart. The same is true for ourselves. So it's normal for that kind of self-centered roommate to appear.

However, he is self-centered, and we hate his behavior, so we can not be centered on him. Isn't it okay for us to go our own ways and ignore the behavior of others? Why punish yourself for other people's nasty shortcomings.

When I was in college, I had such a roommate in my dorm. Everything was centered on him, and she felt that everyone in our dorm should listen to her. But I'm also a proud person, so why should I listen to her?

So, I've always ignored some of her behaviors. As long as you don't mess with me, we can still be good roommates, but if her self-centered behavior affects me. I will not hesitate to fight back.

She has never cared about other people's feelings, she is always self-centered, and I don't need to make myself unhappy for her.