I still want to care about him when I break up without saying goodbye? ?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-18
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Silly girl Love can't be forced Your mood, I can understand After all, such a breakup is terrible, but even if it is terrible It's also a fact, breaking up is already his personal choice Since this is the case, let it go Love must be felt by both people in order to walk together sweetly, he is so determined not to contact you, obviously, he just doesn't want to be with you anymore He has no heart, why are you so infatuated? He's so ruthless, don't put any emotion on him Having said that, the person who chooses to break up without saying goodbye means that he has certain problems in dealing with emotions and getting along with people With this kind of person, there will be no good results for a long time It's better to end this time! How big the world is, how many people there are, in the future, you will meet a lot of people, don't be discouraged!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is only one way to communicate before quarreling and separating. I was sad and lost 7 kilograms in a month, and then I calmly thought about my shortcomings, and I thought that I really loved him and had to get it back. I'm willing to change myself to get what he wants.

    The point is to express it to the other person. At that time, my boyfriend couldn't listen to it at all. My colleague asked me to try it with a candy stick.

    Look at the reaction. In the next step. Maybe my boyfriend is soft-hearted when he sees the previous **.

    In fact, if you are sincere, you can win back the other person. I told my boyfriend that I was going to work as hard as the person in the story to overcome all my problems, that I was willing to improve my problems, and that he was willing to let me finish talking. As long as you start communication, you will have a chance in the future.

    Maybe see this. Remembering the past. Redemption is a real need for communication.

    In fact, the quarrel should be given to the other party under the stairs.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Breaking up without saying goodbye is just an act that he can't be emotionally responsible, since his attitude is so obvious, don't go to him again, it will only bother the other party and make you sad yourself, be kind to yourself!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This way is good, maybe it is the last tacit understanding at the end of the couple's relationship, and it is more gentle than the kind of fierce quarrel.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This is a particularly irresponsible act. If my boyfriend disappears without saying a word when they break up, I'll definitely try my best to find him and beat him up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is a bit irresponsible for the relationship, even if you choose to separate, it is also appropriate to inform each other, and it can be regarded as drawing an end to this relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, I don't agree with this way of breaking up, after all, if a relationship wants to end it, it still has to have a beginning and an end, and it is better to make it clear to the parties.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This way is the one I hate the most way to break up, even if it's better than saying goodbye without saying goodbye, at least let me know what the reason for the breakup is?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think this way is very incomprehensible, if you want to break up, just say it directly, after all, you have been together for so long, there is no need to not even give a chance to say goodbye.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think this way of breaking up is too undesirable, since you want to break up, you have to make it clear, and not saying goodbye can only leave you with regrets.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's a hard way to accept and understand. I can't accept not saying goodbye without a reason. But maybe the other party also has a hard time, and there is no way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's a really bad way to break up. If there is any unavoidable reason, or they are not in harmony with each other's personalities, or they just don't love each other, etc., no matter what the reason, you should make it clear to the other party, and make a formal breakup action, whether it is a face-to-face conversation or through a mobile phone call, sending a message, etc., it is much better than disappearing without saying anything. I believe that breaking up without saying goodbye is an act of avoiding and disrespecting the other person and the relationship between each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think the person who does this is very bad, and he doesn't even dare to say that he doesn't love it, such a person is irresponsible for his feelings, he is a coward, and such a person does not deserve love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He doesn't want to break up, he just can't respond to your doubts about him. That's why he thinks that you have become suspicious and narrow-minded, and deduces that it is caused by being at home all year round, and gives you homework to reflect on (your own fault) because "you are not like this". It's a clever way to shift the question from whether it's true that he was stolen to how your character is.

    Generally speaking, the help-seeker and helper, naturally, should be the help-seeker to appear low-profile, because others are helping themselves, but he is a little different.

    Next, I want to respond to your distrust. For an adult, who has borrowed a total of 17,000 yuan for various reasons in the past five months, even his parents will be suspicious, let alone you? (Only spent a total of 8 months with him).

    Then, I would like to share some of my feelings about your question, and please bear with me if there is anything that is inappropriate.

    You have 3 sentences that caught my attention: "I don't believe him anymore, I'd rather work hard to save him ......."”

    Now that you can see that I don't trust you anymore,......You can scold as much as you like! ”

    Does he say that it means that he doesn't want to break up? ”

    I don't trust him anymore, why do I have to save him? If you see that you don't trust him, he has the right to scold you? Also, do you care if he wants to break up, or even afraid of breaking up with him? You have repeatedly emphasized that you don't trust him, so what is your contribution for?

    He thinks it is "deserved" for him to give you money (because you say that he can't take it out and he continues to ask for it, and more importantly, he doesn't feel guilty for always borrowing money from you), and you have a "guilt" for your doubts and unwillingness to continue to pay, and continue to pay and struggle.

    So I suggest that you seriously ask yourself in your heart, are you really going on? (Because he doesn't think there's a problem with him as an adult who keeps borrowing money, but thinks that your problem is that you always "find fault" and have a stingy personality) Will the expectations that support you continue to pay?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He's a **, or he has a mental illness, it's quite terrifying, if you get entangled, something will happen, cherish life, stay away from this person, little girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Two people don't have to get involved in the question of money, once it is involved, it will be complicated.

    Long pain is better than short pain.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You've been tricked into obviously using your money to support other women, so let him fuck off.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You'd better not pay attention to this kind of man after a breakup.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I didn't want to get back together, I just wanted a small treasury!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Divide it early, it's obviously taking advantage of you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A man is generally the most reluctant to let the woman he loves see his embarrassed appearance, especially in terms of money, he can actually ask you for money, dare to ask you both for money? Time can change a lot of things, two years, there are too many variables, you can't go back in the past, if you get together again, you should get to know each other again instead of always mentioning your previous story, that's all in the past! Comparing the former you to the current you, I think he is not refusing to break up, but something else!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He just doesn't want to break up, he likes the money in your hand, he makes you think for yourself just to put the responsibility for the quarrel on you, he has no feelings for you, he just likes the money in your hand, so he would rather drag it out like this than break up with you. Don't be stupid anymore and leave him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Although love can't be measured by money, but his approach is unbearable for ordinary girls, accept the reality, aren't you tired?

    Live the life you want.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Wake up! Cheated him out of your money twice as much, and kicked him out of the way again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hehe, the first sentence I think you are really pitiful, pitiful, boundless, I have been deceived more than 10,000 times before and after, and I have said that women are stupid, and I have never admitted it This time I know Eh, I am a boy, what you said at the end What you said when you two quarreled Are you wrong? What do you think?? If you can lend him some more money???

    Quarrels between normal objects Men have to be right or wrong They have to coax women After all, they love each other It's a couple What qualifications does he have to talk to you like that Are you giving him money You've already given him a lot of money He hasn't seen you yet Do you feel like I love you Is this a couple Seeing the object I have to think about it if I haven't seen him for a long time I heard that you're going to see him He is not happy yet?? Does he like you Does he have you in his heart Have you thought about it It is impossible for him to want to break up because you have been used to giving him a problem He is now with you for money and not for you as a person Not for your body You are so stupid Why did you borrow him as soon as he asked for money Stolen? What a ridiculous reason What does the police do Why don't you think about it carefully Why do you ask for money When you just say you don't have money and don't borrow Look at his feelings and attitude towards you Now I don't want to see you I still like you What the hell is he hiding from you Look at the reaction of a few people upstairs to you If you don't understand, jump out of your feelings about him Think about it!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Without trust, there is no need to be together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Landlord: Forget about such a man, just talk about how the two of you quarrel, how does he usually treat you, don't meet such a man

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In my opinion, if he is like this, why should you allow yourself to suffer?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is no need to continue, the broken mirror cannot be reunited.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Although persuasion is not persuasion, but you are in this situation...

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It doesn't matter if he wants to break up or not, the important thing is that you break up with him quickly. This kind of man is looked down upon.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    All I can say is that you're too sad, flash!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    He's a complete trick, why don't you just tell you if he's really in Guangxi. Departed, out of sight is pure.

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