If I don t have a suitable personality and want to break up with my boyfriend, a big man will cry, m

I have to break up, he cried, made trouble and hanged himself, I felt that he was a little unhealthy in his heart, so he must break up ruthlessly.

You can't be soft-hearted when you break up, since you don't agree with his personality, that is, you have already been disappointed in him, and you don't like his personality, so why do you have to be soft-hearted and not break up.

It's not okay to be soft-hearted, there are two if you are soft-hearted, you will only let him know that crying can solve any problem, and you don't want to change, and in the end it is you who is soft-hearted.

It is advisable to break up. The most important thing for two people to be together is that their personalities should be compatible, and if they are not suitable, they are not suitable, and there is nothing to be forced on.

What's the use of such a naïve man coming, when he is a son, hurry up and take a taxi to find a true lover.

I've been with my boyfriend for a long time, and there will always be quarrels over some trivial things, I personally think.

This is a good direction of development, which means that you have gone through the sweet period in the early stage of love, and have really entered the run-in period, friction and contradictions, which is a normal phenomenon, two different individuals must be run-in when they are fused together, the key is how to deal with these contradictions, get through the run-in period, and enter the palace of marriage! Do the following.

1.Look at yourself, find out the root of the contradiction, if it is provoked by yourself, trivial things, ignore it, take the initiative to show favor to your boyfriend, I think no man can resist a girl's overture!

2.If there is a problem with your boyfriend, then communicate with him well, it is the kind of calm and put on a strong relationship, I think your boyfriend will definitely communicate with you and reconcile if he cares about you!

3.In addition, usually the two sides communicate more and put out some things and problems, so that they will not quarrel over small things!

Finally, I wish you all a smooth run-in period!

If it is a copy, the man is at fault. Then let him understand. Why wrong. Pay attention to yourself

The attitude should be zhi

Be respectful. But if he has some inclinations that don't respect you, you can also choose to talk about it in a few days.

If you find out that you are indeed at fault. Please apologize to your boyfriend in time. But if he has to inch in. Don't apologize to him too much.

The above is my opinion and is for reference only.

The two have been together for a long time, and everyone's shortcomings have been exposed, and there will always be differences of opinion

From time to time, there will be quarrels. The so-called small noise is pleasant, and the big noise hurts. If you have a conflict with your boyfriend, you must deal with it calmly.

First, at all times, you must restrain your emotions and try not to quarrel. If there is a disagreement, you can sit down and communicate with the two people, and you can't solve the problem by arguing.

Second, you must have a deep relationship with your boyfriend for so long, and you don't want to cause a rift in your relationship because of a quarrel. So sometimes it's not embarrassing to take the initiative to admit your mistakes.

Third, change your thinking, sometimes it is very simple to resolve conflicts and disputes. Even if you have an argument, calm down for a day. And then a small hug, a small kiss, may resolve these problems.

You have to make full use of your girl's strengths, and use your gentleness and thoughtfulness to solve problems often get twice the result with half the effort.

You and your boyfriend have had some conflicts recently, which is also very normal, because two people are also divided into two stages during the relationship, one is the honeymoon period, and then it is the run-in period, because in the early stage of love, two people are together, sweet and sweet, Qingqing I and I, sweet love will cover up all the contradictions between the two sides in the past, I can't see the shortcomings of the other party, all I see is the advantages, all is sweet, and long-term contact, two people are always together, it is inevitable that some small frictions will occur, If it is some trivial things, two people can talk carefully, open their own views, two people can communicate with each other, find out where the problem is, there is a wrong party, you must have the courage to bear the mistake, you must admit the mistake, the other party is understood and understood, because your contradiction is not a big principled contradiction, if it is a big contradiction, the principle of two people are very disgusted in their hearts, it is also a good thing, you can break off the relationship, start your new life again.

According to what you said, you and your boyfriend have been getting along for a long time, but recently there have been conflicts and quarrels over trivial matters, which means that your relationship has been very unstable recently, probably due to some pressure from work life or getting married, which makes your mentality very unpeaceful. And being the closest person to each other makes each other's emotions manifest thoroughly in front of you. So there will be quarrels and conflicts recently because of some small things.

In this case, my suggestion is that first of all, it is necessary to communicate so that both parties can calm down, and then analyze the root cause of the conflict and what caused it, and who is responsible for it. This will ease your conflicts, and then allow you to find consensus again.

The best way is to communicate more, and more accommodation will be fine.

The first thing to do is to have one party leave the scene as soon as possible. You leave and give each other space to calm down.

Secondly, you should calmly think about what is right in the other party's words, and review and review what is wrong with yourself. Don't always blame the other person's faults and ignore your own.

In the end, no matter who is right or wrong, everyone should be generous and find an excuse to greet each other first and break the dull deadlock first. After the two sides calm down, find a time and let's talk about it again.

Whether it is a couple or a husband and wife, since they are the closest people, if they want to live together well, is it a shame to do so? Face is not a good thing.

If it happens with a boyfriend.

Contradictions, this is very normal, everyone will have a little friction during the love period, but it depends on how you grasp it, if a small contradiction becomes a big thing, it will be troublesome. Try to calm down first, if it's not a matter of principle, calm down a little bit, and I think you'll get back together. If it doesn't work, just make a gesture and take the initiative to talk to the other person to apologize.

After having a conflict with your boyfriend, calm down, think about it, and then sit back and wait for your boyfriend's apology, it's not a question of who is right and who is wrong, but a matter of principle......1. You are always right, 2. If you can't prove that you are right, please see the first article.

It depends on the situation, if it's your own problem, just find a way to give yourself a step down, apologize and it's not a big deal, just say it. I think that no matter whose fault it is, it is the boy's fault, which is not advisable, and it will be a big contradiction over time, after all, there is a certain limit to the ability to bear it. If it is the other person's fault, you can give him a step, and then communicate to make him realize his problem, and then punish him.

In the end, I think we should talk about those little things, understand each other, and understand each other better, so as to avoid such conflicts in the future!

It is relatively normal for couples to be noisy and quarrelsome, but it is abnormal that both parties do not deal with the conflict between you after the quarrel. 1. If you are not convinced, you have to fight with her; 2. Try how much the other party loves herself, just see if the other party really cares about herself, I don't contact her to see if she doesn't contact me; 3. Small bearing, do not back down on trivial matters; 4. As soon as there is a conflict, I will be negative and feel that the whole world is not good; 5. Too self-centered and lack the mind to take care of other people's feelings. Then, let's talk about your current situation, if you are often willful, usually he accommodates you in every way, then you still love him very much, I suggest you take the initiative to contact him this time, in the way you usually have inherent to solve the problem, such as:

Send him a message, I haven't eaten my favorite lobster for a long time, I really want to eat it, why don't we go eat it together tonight? Tentatively give him a step, he loves you and must be full of joy to accept. Moreover, if it's because your boyfriend is immature, like I used to, I don't really recommend that you continue to go on with him, falling in love with an immature man will exhaust you to death, and your heart will be tired!

A person who is too small a man needs to take care of him in everything, and you will only use your youth to teach her husband, and you will not get anything. In the end, love and marriage are different, the person who is really responsible for really loving you, he will not be willful and will not hurt each other at will, I get along with my wife now, there is a conflict and will never stay overnight, I will coax her back that night, I have been in love for more than 2 years of marriage, I get up early in the morning to squeeze toothpaste for her, she gets up early to squeeze for me, housework is shared, there is a conflict I will find a way to solve it as soon as I calm down, instead of waiting for each other, because women are very emotional, In addition, I am worried that it will be difficult for both parties to make up for the poor management of the relationship in the future, including for the sake of the family and for the daughter, and will not be willful.

Definitely drop, as long as a man has a certain economy and conditions, it is impossible to drop without picking up a girl. As the saying goes, wildflowers are still more fragrant than domestic flowers.

The men I know better are like that, they tell their girlfriends, but they don't tell their wives.

Do all cats eat fish? Some cats are born domesticated and eat cat food for the rest of their lives, and there is no fish for them to eat, dare to ask how does LZ eat?

Of course, if I think it's in place, and it's absolutely safe, I'll give it a try.

I think asThe performance of a woman's uncultured performance is generally manifested in:

in her words and deeds。For example, speaking ill of others behind people's backs, or not considering what others think and only caring for themselves, hating the poor and loving the rich, etc., are actually very uneducated.

I especially hate that kind of princess girl,She obviously doesn't have the life of a princess, but she is infected with princess disease, thinking that she is right about everything, and she doesn't care about other people's feelings, and she must be followed by others, and if others disagree with her at all, she will be furious。In fact, this kind of girl is very annoying, and it feels very uneducated. Who is not a treasure in the hands of their parents, why should they leave it to you?

And such girls generally encounter great setbacks at work.

Like a girl who throws garbage and swears casually, she gives people the feeling of being uneducated. Among modern women, women are not required to be gentle as water, but they still need to be self-reliant and self-reliant. Those women who look down on others by relying on the power of others not only reveal that they are not educated, but also expose their own intelligence, which is very shameful.

A truly educated girl will listen carefully when facing others, ask for advice with an open mind, always consider the ideas of others, think about others, and exude a self-confident and self-reliant temperament from the inside out, which makes people very convincing at a glance

In fact, girls in society now have more or less minor problems, but if they find their own problems, they must know how to correct them. Only when you become more educated and temperamental, will you be liked by more people and make your future more open.

Whether a person is educated or not has quality can be seen from the person's behaviorI like to observe others, and I especially like to observe the way others eat and talk to determine what the person's personality is. So I will talk about the difference between educated and uneducated women from these two aspects.

1. Ignore the feelings of others when eating

An uneducated person will be more disconsiderate of other people's feelings, and if the dish is not to her taste, she will criticize loudly and say, "What is this doing?" It's so unpalatable", and so on, she will chirp loudly when eating, and some people will chirp when eating, but she knows how to control herself not to make such a loud sound, and she will not say that she will eat the vegetables for the elders or juniors at the dinner table, and she will not say "Eat enough, everyone eat slowly" and other words.

2. Speak bluntly, not good at listening, and love to interject

A woman who is good at listening will make people feel good, and some uneducated women like to speak too bluntly, which is not good. You have to know what to say on what occasion, and not think of something that pops out of your mouth without thinking about it. Also, interrupting others when talking is also a sign of unculture, and speaking loudly in public is the same.

Although everyone should put themselves first and be happy, the premise is that the people around them feel comfortableInstead of feeling embarrassed and restless with you. Cultured people will always feel very relaxed and happy to get along, we all have to be a cultured person, to understand politeness, connotation and education.

An uneducated woman may pick and choose when eating, saying that it is not delicious and that it is not appetizing, and if it is delicious, she only cares about herself, and she clamps it hard, and does not ask other people. Maybe she'll be spouting and messing around the table. If she is full of food, she also silently plays with her mobile phone on the side, or walks away by herself.