Mom and Dad, I m sorry for you. I m sorry, Dad

Child, it's good that you can clearly understand this You are a boy You have to support a family in the future The ancient adage is good The one who is close to Zhu is red and the one who is close to ink is black You have to know clearly who is black and who is white around you So that you will know how you should do it Many things have passed Just let it pass Don't be sad and sad Do more good deeds Filial piety comes first Be filial to your family and study hard Now going to school is not the only way out But the best way out when you go to school Only by learning your skills can you earn money and give your parents the best material security Of course, you must also communicate with your parents often Come on.

Things have already happened, and it is useless to blame yourself!

You can recognize your mistakes, you have grown up, and your parents will be more gratified!

Study hard, summer jobs are not your biggest task. Reading well is the biggest source of your return to your parents.

There are several kinds of people who must stay away, one is wine and meat friends, and there are those who are not right in these industries, and those who come to you, as well as those who behave badly, and those who use each other, a large part of the friends are these people In fact, these people don't have to put their energy on it at all, these people come and go at all, not real friends, or parents are the best, no matter how good they are to you on the surface, or the people who have the deepest feelings with you at some times, In fact, the critical moment is never as good as your parents.

Knowing your mistakes can improve the great way The prodigal son will not change the money when he turns back, and your parents will forgive you.

Child, you just need to realize the mistake of this matter, study hard, the 500 yuan is not a big problem, your parents will not blame you, as long as you study hard, they will forgive you!

If you know your mistakes, you can change them, and you can do good.

I'm sorry, Dad

Pizhou, Jiangsu Province Pizhou City, Jiangsu Province, Canal Middle School, Grade 7 (5) Liang Bo.

In Li Ming's memory, he almost never saw his father. When he was nine years old, he learned from his mother that his father had gambled. Since then, Li Ming has never talked about his father again.

Once, there was a discussion meeting in the class, the theme was dad, and Li Ming hated his father even more, making him unable to hold his head up in front of other classmates.

One night. Li Ming's father lost the gamble, and after a few drinks on the street, he went home to get the money and gambled again.

Li Ming's father drank too much, staggered into the door, and said unconsciously drunk: "Son, quickly bring me 5,000 yuan." At this time, Li Ming's mother ran over and said

You dead ghost, gambling all day and never returning home, like something, get out of here! Li Ming hugged his father out and locked the door. Li Ming's father scolded in front of the door, and then stumbled away.

Because he had no money to gamble, Li Ming's father went to steal. He was later arrested for theft and sentenced to six months of hard labor. After many teachings, Li Ming's father made up his mind to change his past mistakes and become a new person.

After being released, he did not dare to go home, so he went to work in other places.

August 18th is Li Ming's birthday, and in the evening, Li Ming's father came home with a big cake and said: "Today is Ming Ming's birthday, I bought him a cake and sent it, and I earned the money from my part-time job." This time Li Ming's mother didn't speak, Li Ming ran over and grabbed the cake, slammed it on the ground, and shouted:

Get out of here! I don't have a dad like you! "Li Ming's.

Dad didn't say anything and left the house sad.

After Li Ming's father left, Li Ming's grades became worse and worse, and he also contracted many bad habits, and was finally sent to a juvenile control center for robbery.

On this day, Li Ming's father came to see him, and Li Ming found that his father's hair was gray, and said, "Why don't you get rid of gambling earlier, if it weren't for you, would I be able to enter the control center?" Li Ming's father stretched out his left hand, leaving only one hand under the stool book, but five fingers were missing.

He said bitterly: "Actually, I have already changed, so I swear with the five fingers of my left hand, but you ......."”

Looking at his left hand, which had lost five fingers, Li Ming knelt on the ground with a thud and shouted heartbreakingly: "Dad, I'm sorry!" ”

Contributed: 2005-8-4 20:51:45

If you recognize it, it means that you are mature. You realize it, and it's easy to do.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world! No matter what they do to you, you must understand that their starting point is based on loving you, hoping that you will be better and more productive. They may be due to family background, knowledge, ability, personality and other reasons, when asking you, the methods are unscientific, unreasonable, and wrong, which makes it difficult for people to accept, understand, and do things, so that there are disputes and quarrels between them, so that there are contradictions and estrangements.

These situations are very common. But be confident that they will always love you. Parents love their children even for old hens, let alone their own parents!

Be confident that they will forgive you completely if you understand. Have to believe that as long as you handle it well, they will be close to you and will be proud of you.

You may have a lot of grievances, and these grievances may really be grievances, and you have to understand them from the above analysis; It may be that you are immature and do not do well, it is your fault, and it is not really wronged, you have to analyze it well, correct your own shortcomings, and strive to do better, and it will be much easier to communicate; Even if you can't live up to your parents' expectations, learn to tolerate them and not take the initiative to argue, as you said they are quite old, why not make them unhappy again?

As for saying bad things about your parents, suspicion of your boyfriend, etc., you realize that this is not good, just try to change, and it will get better slowly, don't worry too much.

If you are around your parents, change is actually very easy, as long as you talk less, listen more, talk more sweetly, and take more actions that they are willing to see, it will soon be completely changed, what they say is not on the side, you can listen to the left and the right side, and when they are in a good mood, analyze and discuss it together, and once there is a dispute, immediately change the topic and suppress the conflict. Give it a try.

If you are not by your parents' side, it is easy to do it if you often call ** and care about it, and report about your current situation, and you don't even need to say sorry. There is a chance to visit home, buy some clothes, food. As a girl, it is very easy to coax her parents well, and she doesn't have to worry.

May you be happy, go your own way, live your own life, and your parents will be very gratified.

I can't communicate and interact with my parents normally, and the responsibility is not all on me. It has to do with the natural character.,If you're born big and optimistic enough, you won't have such troubles.,Some things are not something that an individual can control.。 The estrangement between parents and children is related to the social atmosphere, work pressure, and lack of time to communicate with their children.

As far as what I can do personally, one is that I don't have close friends who grew up together, because even if the other party doesn't listen, just talk one-way after you have troubles, and your body and mind will be much calmer. The second is that you say it yourself, for example, I am doing my hobbies (but it is better to exercise for a long time on the Internet), or work or (group) sports, and the above will make you feel much calmer. The third is irritable and irritable words are also related to sleep, too tired during the day will lead to staying up late and sleeping irregularly, which will make you impatient.

People can't directly eliminate their negative emotions, they can only transform it or bypass it with other behaviors. The above is just how to adjust yourself, if you want to improve the eternal way to improve the relationship with others, there are giving money and things and patting sycophants (praise and flattery), the effect of the shoot depends on the skill and your own status, and the parents are not serious, as long as you don't scold you can naturally improve, and then the specific way to see the answer of others.

Learn to be tolerant, learn to reflect, learn to look at merit and remember grace, parents are old, the days together will become less and less as time goes by, usually care more about them, parents don't need you to bring them much wealth, in the eyes of parents, no matter what age they are, they will always be their children, I wish you all better!

1.In fact, you can apologize to them in person (preferably Mother's Day or Father's Day or birthday)2Or send them a letter (preferably on a day when you're not home)3Look at your parents' marriage certificate or ID card, remember their birthday, and buy them a cake to celebrate their birthday.

I wish you a harmonious family and a healthy family!

Guilty! I'm the same! After scolding my mother, I felt inexplicably guilty! Mom gave birth to me and was scolded by me! I'm so stupid! , I apologized to my mother! My mom is happy! Hehe.

I don't know if you're in a rebellious period right now, but if so, it's normal for you to have some reactions like this.

But I think as you get older, your temper and your attitude towards others will change.

When your loved ones are not by your side one day, you will cherish the moments with them more and more.

If you feel sorry for your parents, from now on, be kind to them, there are no parents who don't love their children.

Parents will not hold grudges, you regret it now or have time to remedy it, as long as you treat your parents well from now on and restrain your temper, your parents will understand you! Then it's okay to communicate with your parents and talk to them about your thoughts.

They are always your parents, as long as you really change, they will definitely forgive you, remember one sentence, don't wait until your son wants to support you and your relatives are gone.

You are a sign of rebellion, and all parents in the world are good to their children. After all, they're getting older, and you have to try to do what they want. When your parents are happy, you will be happy too. Learn to be a child who is filial to his parents.

Brother, your words are very touching!

It's good that you can feel sorry for your parents.

I suggest that you tell your parents these words and believe that if you love them, they will understand.

I used to be like this, but looking at my parents with more and more gray hair, I slowly understood the hardships of my parents!

Then let your parents worry less, occasionally sweep the floor, wash the dishes, and give a rose on Father's Day, Women's Day and other holidays.

Sometimes when you want to get angry, try to control your emotions, and after the peak of excitement, maybe the emotions will pass. In fact, thinking about it, it is not easy to meet such a close person in this life. No matter how hard you try, you won't encounter ...... again in your next life

Think more about your parents, meet them often, chat with them, and listen to their nagging. Tell me about you! Buy things for your parents or something, you can do it yourself!

In fact, parents just want to see their children often

Go back and apologize, your parents will forgive you, and find a psychiatrist who will help you look at your mental problems. Personally, I don't think the problem is that you lose your temper at them, but that you go out and say bad things that they haven't done. Besides, who in this world said that they could be worthy of their parents. Try to warm them up.

It's as simple as that.

Go back and have a heart-to-heart conversation with them, and show your apologies directly, saying that you won't make such a mistake again.

Learn to do housework to make up for it, generally parents love their children, and if you do this, they will feel that they are sorry for you.

Remember, they gave you your life, just stop hurting them.

Try to make up for your parents, stay by their side more, and talk to your parents. Let parents have a warm feeling.

Since you know your own problems, it's always good, you have this regretful idea to correct it in time, maybe you need to communicate with each other in a peaceful way, understand each other, try to control your feelings, if you still can't control yourself after a period of time, it is recommended to find a doctor to see, take medication ** and psychological counseling. Parents are the people who love you the most in this world, don't let them be sad.

Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, and good is great.

Don't be embarrassed, Chinese people are not very good at expressing feelings. You can not say it, but you can express it with actions, spend more time with them, lose your temper less, and help them do what you can, even if it's a dinner; Give them something they need, even if it's a pair of socks or a set of thermal underwear. Don't wait until your son wants to raise and your relatives are not there!

Actions speak louder than words.

Take action to love your parents, care for them, respect them, understand them, it's as simple as that.

Tell me that you don't, that people who don't love their parents, who don't care for them don't deserve sympathy.

Being able to realize means that you know what you are doing wrong. What the hell is wrong with your parents? When a person realizes his mistakes, he knows how to change them.

You're probably not asking what to do. What the problem is, you still haven't explained it yourself. Can you explain?

In fact, no matter how many emotional things others say, it's useless, you have to handle it yourself, I can only tell you from my own personal experience, four years ago, I also talked about a boyfriend who was far away, and went to his city alone for him and his family turned against him and didn't dare to fight with his family**, and then after being with my ex-boyfriend for a long time, they really had no choice but to accept it, watching me go away, my family will also cry silently, raised from childhood to adulthood, at this moment I knew that the opposition of my family was for my own good, Only family members will really think for themselves, sometimes they will miss them very much if they are not good, they used to be ignorant, I think people are emotional animals, they all want to love vigorously, love if it is suitable to show that your luck is good, not suitable for yourself to get an experience, you will know the importance of family members better, don't be afraid, I used to be the same as you, only the family is unconditional behind you, as long as you look back, they are there, give them a **, cry if you want to, go back if you don't have a good time, Learn to cherish life and the people around you who truly love you.