What kind of psychology is not chatting and not deleting?

People's social networking today can be said to be more and more inseparable from some social software, and many people's feelings can also be intuitively seen from the chat records. Today, Dagang is here to give you a popular science, women don't reply to your WeChat, don't chat with you, and don't delete you, what are the reasons? In fact, it's nothing more than these three!

Hello! To your question, I will give you the following for Hail Annihilation:1

Sometimes deletion is not the final solution to the problem, as it can have undesirable consequences. 2.Although some people make friends with each other, they may rarely chat anymore, but sometimes, the relationship between two people is not Li He because just chatting will become the best, these are just a form of life.

3.Therefore, sometimes give each other a little belief, that is, give yourself a loop, after all, the world is so big, and the chance of everyone meeting is very small, not to mention that two people can have the opportunity to chat together.

There are many people in our WeChat Chunwu and QQ who don't chat, but they just save his existence, and they don't think about deleting him. If you want to say that you don't want to chat and delete it, there are also people who really don't want to delete it.,Qiaoku is generally a person who has a specific relationship with himself.,Don't chat.,Just think about his existence.,Occasionally look at his dynamics.。 Former friends of the opposite sex.

With not coming together, but that love and that heart still exists, compared to others, we pay much more attention to our former friends of the opposite sex. Although there is little contact now, and some are not even in contact, he still saves his WeChat and the like, and when he sees his dynamics, he still pays attention to it and understands it. Their WeChat or QQ really can't bear to be deleted from the circle of friends.

For example, my classmates, in fact, many classmates are not in touch after graduation, there are fifty or sixty people in a class, and only four or five people are in touch, and the classmates who used to have a very good relationship with each other have gradually become estranged. I feel that the main reason for this is that each other's circles are changing, once like-minded, once smelly, once dreamy of the same leakage, once cheered each other up, but will gradually change with the passage of time. For example, high school classmates have studied different majors after going to college, and they have new classmates.

With their new circle of friends, even if the original high school classmates are good, they only say a few words at the class reunion during the Chinese New Year, and they don't have a lot of contact after that.

Generally, people who have WeChat contact with me will keep the next book, regardless of the old and young, although there are many who do not chat, but I think retention is a kind of respect, and besides, one more friend and one more way, who dares to say that it is not needed? There are also people who post moments all day long, and some even advertise to promote products, and they are also careful to attack the powerful WeChat function now, block him, and forget it if the ominous brother is not upset! There will also be a place for him in WeChat, let him stay there.

In fact, I don't know what the mentality of those people who delete or don't delete people who have emotional entanglements with themselves is, but in my friend list, there is indeed a girl, she is my second girlfriend, so far we are in each other's friend list, every few months, we will also go to each other's space to see the dynamics, but the side glide god is limited to QQ above the talk, will not look at each other's photos or logs, and this kind of look has nothing to do with public opinion, It's just that ordinary friends are interested in publishing the content of bad luck, and when a pair of lovers who have broken up have no other in their hearts, it doesn't matter whether they delete it or not.

Leaders or capable people. By the leakage of Qing quarreled with the acquaintance and returned to serve the friend, but rarely dispersed to contact him, still kept, can't bear to delete, save, what day can it be used? Our lives are sometimes suddenly stuck, and they can't be solved at all, but for leaders and capable people, a ** can be solved, we really need the help of these people sometimes, and keeping them is to keep an opportunity to solve problems, if you delete people who are not often contacted, these people will definitely stay.

Once, there was an old classmate in elementary school, I don't know where to know my **, and one day suddenly called ** to contact me. **After connecting, I crackled and said a lot: who am I, I am now** and so on.

After talking for a long time, I was still at a loss, although I said verbally: "Oh, it turned out to be you!" I remembered that I had time to drink some Xiao Wu Seep wine together and catch up with the old days!

In fact, after searching in my mind many times, I can't remember which god it is! Of course, this has something to do with the fact that I transferred to another school in the middle of elementary school, and I really can't remember the memories before the 4th grade of elementary school, except for a few neighboring partners, other people! However, since the other party called**, ** asked to add WeChat again, and there was no way to refuse, then add WeChat!

However, after adding it, there is no silver spine chat, why? They have become strangers to each other, they have no feelings, and now they live in different circles, he is in business, I work, and there is no common language to talk about!

It is a colleague in the unit, and after many people go to work, it does not mean that they will only stay in one company for the rest of their lives, but there may be several. After they enter the new company, they will add some new friends for the convenience of communication in their daily work. By the time you leave the company, the friends you added from the previous company may not be in touch.

Think about it, it doesn't take up space anyway, and the ingenuity of multiple friends and friends and multiple roads is clever and filial piety, so it was not deleted.

Newly met friends in the same industry or ordinary friends, WeChat plus these people, Tong Zheng Nai is often out of social etiquette. For example, friends drink with each other, and meet other friends. This empty kind of friends, shouting about the loss of spring is usually a one-sided acquaintance, as far as usual, there is no intersection in work or life at all, and there is nothing to talk about.