How do I survive living in a family that is all selfish

Then there is no way.

Then you can only endure it first.

Don't care about small things, don't give in to big things.

Your current predicament is like falling into a black hole, the surroundings are dim, you want to exert yourself but there is no place to support it, you want to scream, but you are swallowed up by the darkness. What you need is a window of light.

In fact, you are still full of memories of life, at least in your heart, there is still love. The thought of losing your body is nothing more than constant blows and frustrations, as well as family disharmony, so that you can't get rid of this pain for the time being. If you choose death, you are not losing to others, but to yourself.

If you choose to die, it is not only your own life that you will go, but your mother's second half of her life will also be buried by you.

You are a filial person, you are also a motivated person, you want to change your life through your own efforts, and you also want to make your wronged mother live a better life. Your filial piety and self-motivation are very valuable, but as a man, these alone are not enough. If you want to gain a foothold in this society, you must have the ability to gain a foothold.

You are not good at summarizing, although you fail again and again, but you blindly move forward, without looking back, it is the stone that is shackling you forward. You don't dig into your own strengths, you just keep trying blindly, and you hit nails everywhere, you don't see the right direction to improve yourself and make yourself stronger, but you are wondering why such a humble job is not up to the task. Friends, you should be smarter, find your own direction in life, work towards a little bit, strive to improve yourself, and create your own life with perseverance.

Work hard, friend, find your own direction, and you have to "be born again". Maybe it will take a year or two. You have to make those who have abandoned you regret it, and those who have left you will become your motivation.

Until it is reborn, if there is divine help. You go on day by day, calm down, sleep better, forget about some unsatisfactory things, and learn some new skills. Maybe you will find the code for rebirth and design your own future happiness.

Finally, I will send you a poem.

It's not that there is too much distress.

It's that we are not open-minded enough.

It's not that happiness is too little.

It's that we don't know how to live yet.

When you are sad, you write a poem.

When you're happy, sing a song.

No matter what falls from the sky.

Life is always beautiful.

First of all, my response was one of sympathy and helplessness.

I never thought that as the closest family, I would do this to my own children, this is a failure of parents, this is to tarnish the sacred word of parents. Is it wrong for a child to want to eat more? Is it too much for a child to ask for 5 cents?

It's so ridiculous that it's outrageous. But after all, they gave you life and gave you the essence of living in this society, even if he is wrong, he can only hate them from the heart, and don't do anything stupid, 10 million.

The loss of work is shared by anyone, not just you, because we are all struggling with our own lives in such a cruel and numb reality. Evade? It's the same wherever you flee, just don't run away, and face it with the most shocking heart, so that you can open up a world.

The reason for everything is that the ruthless social reality and the helplessness of the world have caused you to be what you are today, so your heart is extremely gloomy, so you would rather think of the liberation that will die. However, this is the phenomenon of cowards, your own sorrow. If you are a person or a man, then you have to fight and accept.

What the pain, what the helplessness, temporary, all temporary.

Remember, it's not easy to live, there are many beautiful things, and you won't just have the sad ones.

I bless you deeply and tell you four words: "Live well." ”

In that case, the best way is to come out and mess around.

Part-time job and then manage your finances.

It's also good in the countryside.

It's not easy, though.

But people always have to work hard to survive, to eat, to live, and if you lift to death, it's best.

That is, give yourself a chance, work hard to a state where you are not afraid of death, you don't care, then life will not be terrible.

I am short in stature, have low self-esteem, and am introverted. I studied fashion design at a technical school for a year. I looked for a job for a year last year and have children at home.

My wife is also annoyed, whether I live or die outside. Most of my classmates who came out of society at the same time as me received high salaries, and one of my former apprentices was also very good and looked down on me completely. Gradually, I could only eat a few buns a day and live in more than 100 houses.

I looked for any job, but no one wanted it. It was probably the same time as you are now. But I think the world is so big.

Anything is possible as long as you are alive. Later, because of the high cost performance, I finally entered the current company. The income is not high, but life is relatively peaceful.

That's what I'm hoping for.

Don't lose faith, you are not the only one who suffers the most in people's lives.

It's just that everyone's pain is different! Less than the last day of old death.

No one can define whether it is right or wrong for a person to live.

My situation is basically the same as yours, I am from Sichuan, and I only have the first Chinese.

The difference is that I came from a society and didn't just want to do anything in one step, but found a manufacturing factory and started from the basics. (How much crowding out will there be in such a work environment?) ）

When I had a little savings, I started to upgrade my knowledge, which of course took a lot of detours. But as of today, I am at least on an equal footing with university students, and my diploma remains the same, only with more knowledge. As an aside, I would like to advise those who take self-exams and pass exams that the increase in knowledge can satisfy your soul, and the acquisition of a diploma under the current Chinese education system will only erase your ability.

However, I also have to admit that college students who have really studied hard are still beyond our reach, which has a lot to do with their birth environment, family, etc., and the imbalance in the output of social information has caused an imbalance in the knowledge development of people in various regions. Just like us in China, the quality of the coastal generation is certainly much higher than that of the people in the southwest.

I want to tell you to your friends that there is no second way except to work hard, and the purpose of hard work is not just for money. We all know that in today's China, people don't have any faith, people are competing to make money, and making money is everything, so a lot of ugly things have been born. But we must not follow the crowd, we must have our own understanding, what we should do, what we want to do, these are very important.

Be realistic, you have to think about your family first, be idealistic, give up everything, and work hard for your ultimate goal. How you weigh it up is up to you.

Everyone has their own strengths, think about it, what are your strengths? The more you touch things, the more accurately you'll be able to orient yourself. When it comes to online games, if you're really talented, you can make it happen. If not, don't indulge.

You are a man, you should be lucky that you are a man, your father did not do what he should have done with you and your mother, let you and your mother suffer, but now that you have grown up, you should make yourself and your mother live a good life through your own efforts, don't give up on yourself, you have to face it bravely, society is intrigues, but among these people, you have to learn to protect yourself, although you hate flattery, but this is something you must have in society, you must learn. If you're a girl, I might feel sympathetic when you say this, but when I know you're a man, I don't think all of this should happen to you, you have to live your own life. Don't be afraid!!

You are a big man who stands up to the sky, you have your thoughts, at least you are still self-motivated, you know to think about your own life, not to live in a mess, you need confidence and courage, life is like this, you have to stick to it and work hard, the future is bright, your thoughts and your emotions feel so lost, you have not looked forward to a better future, believe that as long as you work hard, everything will be fine, death is a coward's behavior, believe in yourself, come on, come on, come on.

It's normal to make mistakes ... Sometimes we need to compare ourselves to others less fortunate than us so that we can feel lucky ... And to see people less fortunate than us trying so hard to live, if you still say you can't live ...

Well, I have nothing more to say...

Coward! This kind of thinking of yours is escapism, it is the act of a coward! There are many unsatisfactory things in life, what happens around you, maybe there are some things that most people have not encountered, but the weight will not be much greater than others, and others also have troubles and setbacks!

Truth be told, it's a great asset in your life that you have this kind of thinking right now, and you have the motivation to do so, which most people in your situation don't have! Relax, society is like this, you should try to adapt to it, it is common to encounter setbacks when you first start, the important thing is to persevere, comfort yourself at any time, have a relaxed heart, a persistent heart, and you will succeed! The sun is always after the storm!

Good luck!

You're close to collapse, but at the same time it's hope.

Don't cry, don't be discouraged, friends, the road is still under your feet. You are facing society now, so you can't see a lot of things clearly. Society is full of deception and competition, and at the same time, she also tempers people's will. What you have to do now is simple:

1. Find a job to solve the problem of food and clothing. Don't let go of your face, you still have an advantage compared with many students who failed in the college entrance examination, because you were admitted, even if it was not a good university, you also took the college entrance examination, after many times of hard study, you have knowledge and connotation in your bones, but you have to let go of all this. Many restaurants are hiring, so you can go and wait for the students first.

All you need is good facial features and articulate articulation. Moreover, this job will allow you to have enough time for business, and this job will train your ability to work with people.

2. Use your spare time to study at night university. It's very simple to say, when you save enough for the first year's tuition, I hope you can go to night college, and the tuition fee for a year is generally 2000 2500Because simple work is not a goal for you, it is just a place for you to make a living, and your dream should be in a higher place.

Find a job that really suits you before the year. You can do it in any industry, including the food service industry, individual and private. When you get your diploma, you can also choose to take the civil service exam.

There are many roads ahead of you, and as long as you are willing to move forward, hope is always waiting for you. When you find a job that is really suitable for you, you will find that the road you have traveled is the accumulation of your life, and everything you have now is the best answer to the question you asked today.

The road is walked by people, no matter what, we must move forward, and if we don't move forward, we are destined to be unable to change anything. So don't get lost anymore and move forward.

It's as if you've been bruised by the blow! But I always feel that everyone has a role to play, maybe you don't think so! But I don't think it's wise for you to think about dying all day!

Even if he farms, he can always survive, right? You're just magnifying your pain infinitely, maybe you should try to shrink it! Good luck coming out of the shadows soon!

Have hands and feet, be healthy, at least be able to support yourself, don't be so discouraged, as long as you rely on your own labor, what can't you do, now this social survival is very difficult, don't expect too much, even if it's hard, you have to face it well, don't escape from reality, even death can't solve the problem!

It's because your ideals are so beautiful that if you don't reach them, you're sad.

What do you think about buying pancake fruit? Four or five thousand a month, near the school. I was going to wait until I graduated, and if I didn't have a good job, I would go selling pancakes

There are three opportunities in a person's life, youth, middle age, and prime of life. You have two more chances, get out and walk more, and persevere.

First of all, you go to and from work every day.

In order to earn a lot.

Eat something delicious. Buy good-looking ones.

Use it for fun. Then your first love is reconciled with someone else.

Indicate that the person is unreliable.

And you have another chance to find a better partner.

You can find a prettier or more handsome one.

Life is so beautiful.

And then there are your friends.

I must always hear you complain about the boredom of life.

As soon as you complain together, you feel more disappointed in life.

Don't be so pessimistic anymore.

Life has always been good.

It's not like that, thinking badly about everything.

It's better to give yourself the confidence to start over

It's good to get to and from work.

When you have money, you can buy good things.

It's good to have no first love.

It's time to find a new lover again.

The future is full of opportunities and hopes.

Oh, as I spoke, I began to envy your life.