How to forget and give up on someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-13
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple. If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them. If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason. You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right? Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting. If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart and forget someone.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute the feelings or.

    Find someone worthy of your love again.

    You will forget the previous time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy your favorite clothes, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, and then make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find a person worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You will definitely be able to forget each other, and using a new relationship to forget the pain caused by the past love is the best solution. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again.

    Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you. For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Thinking like this, I like him or her, and I feel happy when he or she is happy, and I don't have to get it, but I am very happy if I can see and think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Abandon? Some people say it easily, as soon as they close their eyes, hold their breath and put their hands down, they give up. That's throwing garbage, okay?

    If you really love each other, then it is impossible for your heart to let him go, giving up is just your own deception, you give up, but you don't let go and can't really let go, only time can dilute all this, although it still can't be washed away after all.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell yourself a word,He can give up on you easily, why can't you give up on him so easily。It's hard to do, but it's a very effective way to do it. And there isDon't miss him anymore, do more of your own things, make your life full, don't let yourself have free time, if you accidentally think of him, don't think about his good, think more about how ruthless he is, think about how he gave up on you.

    Everyone has people who are hard to forget, and there are people who want to give up, and I am naturally the same. Almost everyone has experienced a breakup, and the breakup days are not pleasantEspecially when the other person proposes to break up, but you still love the other person deeply, this feeling of being broken up is really terrible. I don't think anyone will not be sad, they will not be sad, maybe it will be better during the day, but once it is late at night, they are probably secretly crying.

    I have also experienced being broken up, of course, I am also very reluctant, at the beginning, I kept sending messages to the other party, trying to save this relationship, but helplessly, the other party has been determined to break up. So what should I do, I can only heal myself, the other party has already given you an ultimatum, do you still have the cheekiness to beg the other party? You know, every contact now, for the other party, is an interruption.

    So, I had to start a new life of my own, a life where there was no longer him. It's hard at first, and I can't help but shed tears every time I want this personBut he was always reminding himself that he was gone and would not come back. No matter how sad I am, I have to live my life.

    We can only move forward, don't look back, go forward, there will be hope.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cut through the mess quickly, since he has broken up with you, don't think about him anymore, find another girlfriend as soon as possible and find your happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How to do it, this question is a good question, some people don't have to do anything, some people don't have to do anything, look at the subject asked, don't think about it, it's the second kind of person, probably can really get you out of the sea of misery is only the love of the water, here you can't find the best answer, because you have tried a lot of ways before asking this question, right, and the person who answered you only used a few minutes to code words to help you? Although some people have rich emotional experience, they may not be suitable for you, the only thing you can do is wait, wait for you to pass the empty period of this relationship, wait for you to have success and have something more worth doing, wait for you to have someone you like more, wait for you to feel more valuable In the end, you are indifferent, although you can't forget, your heart no longer hurts, and you really let go.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then don't deliberately think or remind yourself, but find something that interests you to do, or work hard, or improve yourself, and slowly and unconsciously you will naturally forget that person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't force it when you can't forget, you don't need to work hard to truly forget.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Stay away from his circle and find another relationship as soon as possible.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Manufacturing makes them hate you, hate you to the core, and keep making trouble for you, and it's too late for you to hide.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1 If you are a woman.

    You can cry. Crying and crying.

    I don't want to cry when I'm done crying.

    2. You can drink alcohol.

    I'm going to get drunk. Drink every day until you want to be sober.

    3 If you have nothing to do.

    Or because of a breakup, you don't want to do things.

    Then you run.

    Keep running. I'm tired of running, and I'm going home.

    Take a shower and sleep.

    4. If so, you won't forget it.

    Then you leave the city where he is.

    Go to another place you haven't been.

    You can be working.

    It can also be tourism.

    When you arrive in a new environment, you just think about how to survive.

    Maybe you still miss him when you're lonely.

    But it's good after a long time.

    5. Find a new person.

    Start a new romance.

    The best way to get to a scar is to fall in love next time.

    6. Find a friend.

    Be your trash can.

    Wait for what you say you don't want to make a statement about.

    Then it hurts you.

    Already in mitigation.

    7 ** numbers.

    The addresses have changed.

    Throw away everything about him.

    Start anew. 8. Love yourself.

    Love yourself to know.

    You are the most amazing in this world.

    Friends, there is nothing like the best medicine for falling out of love.

    If none of the above can help you.

    Then wait for the time.

    Time is the best medicine.

    Trust me. Everything will pass.

    There will always be rainy days.

    Then you'll have to wait.

    Waiting for the dark clouds to pass.

    So is it still far back on a sunny day?

    There's no way that no one has such a cut.

    Come on, that's how I got here.

    Don't take your life for someone you don't deserve.

    It's not worth it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you want to forget, you will naturally fade it.

    Forget, if you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

    I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

    So, I got better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's hard to try to forget love.

    It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

    Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When time passed, we forgot.

    We once loved someone without hesitation, forgetting his tenderness, forgetting everything he did for me. I don't have any feelings for him anymore, I don't love him anymore. Why is this happening? It turns out that our love was lost to the year.

    Month. First it is love that makes you forget time, and then it is time that makes you forget love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

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