After Xu Zhimo s death, Lu Xiaoman was poor, why didn t his mother s family help?

After Xu Zhimo died in a sudden disaster, Lu Xiaoman's life also collapsed. Not only did he suffer a heavy mental blow, but he also lost all the care and love of his beloved. The standard of living has also been greatly reduced, and the economy has plummeted by a level, and she has changed her extravagant life from the past, and rarely appears in the bright lights.

But many people can't help but wonder, Lu Xiaoman is from a lot of background, Xu Zhimo is also the son of a wealthy businessman, both of them have economic support behind them, why did Lu Xiaoman finally fall into poverty, and even she has never worked in her life, but when others retired, she instead found a job in the Museum of Culture and History, and got dozens of yuan a month to barely support herself?

Lu Xiaoman's family, let's take a look first, her father Lu Ding's qualifications are quite exciting, he was a man in the late Qing Dynasty, and later became a teacher for many princes and county kings. Not only that, but he is also an elite student at Waseda University in Japan, and he is very familiar with Hirobumi Ito.

During his studies in Japan, he met Sun Yat-sen, and from then on devoted himself to the revolution. Although he was worth a lot of money later, most of the family assets were used to support the revolution, except for the dowry given to his daughter when Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng got married. Lu Ding died in 1930, a year earlier than his son-in-law Xu Zhimo.

After he passed away, there was little left of the family's assets, and only a little was left for his wife Wu Manhua to live a dull life. When Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo got married, Wu Manhua was extremely disapproves. Later, she couldn't stand it, and Lu Xiaoman made up her mind to combine with Xu Zhimo, and even more persuaded by Liu Haisu and other celebrities, she finally had no choice but to compromise.

But I have never been very satisfied with my daughter's choice.

After Lu Xiaoman was widowed, he fell into an economic dilemma. She has lived a life of fine clothes and food since she was a child, and has never worried about money, so she has no concept of money at all, and the interests she cultivated, painting, listening to operas, buying clothes and cosmetics, etc., no matter which one is to burn money to maintain. Mother Wu Manhua's own life is barely maintained after the death of her husband Lu Ding, and she can't help Lu Xiaoman's difficulties.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman was impoverished, and her mother's family did not help her, because her mother's family thought that her behavior was immoral and degraded, and they also disliked her very much.

Lu Xiaoman insisted on marrying Xu Zhimo. Lu Xiaoman's mother's family has always disagreed with Lu Xiaoman's marriage to Xu Zhimo, and Lu Xiaoman insisted on going his own way.

Because his mother's family doesn't like Lu Xiaoman, they think Lu Xiaoman is a bad spirit.

When the two of them got married, their parents and friends were very unhappy with the marriage. Lu Xiaoman's father Lu Ding died as early as 1930, and Lu Ding lost power in his later years, coupled with the conflicts in the family, the economic situation was not as good as before, so Lu Xiaoman's maiden family had no intention of helping.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman's family was poor, but his mother's family still didn't help, because Lu Xiaoman had married someone else and had a close relationship with his mother's family.

When Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo, the Lu family had already cut off relations with Lu Xiaoman, and before Xu Zhimo died, Lu Xiaoman's father died and scattered all the family property, and he had no energy and money to fund Lu Xiaoman.

Her mother's family helped her, and the reason why Lu Xiaoman was poor was mainly because she squandered all the inheritance left by her father, and she had no ability to make money at present.

Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo's unblessed marriage finally died with Xu Zhimo, and Lu Xiaoman's poor life ended when he met another person.

Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo's marriage is not blessed, and the motherly Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng followed Xu Zhimo after they divorced.

Because the two parties had already severed their family ties when they were young, the other party did not care about their poor life.

Because they think that Lu Xiaoman has lost the face of the Lu family, and they don't want to have any more dealings with Lu Xiaoman, of course, there is no one to help her.

As we all know, Lu Xiaoman's mother's family is rich and an only daughter, but after Xu Zhimo's death, she lived in poverty. This is because Lu Xiaoman is a married woman, and she is in love with a divorced man, which makes her parents feel ashamed, so she cuts off her life support. In addition, Lu Xiaoman does not have the habit of frugal life, so he has always worn the most fashionable clothes to go in and out of the theater, play cards, dance, etc. as before.

In fact, in my opinion, Lu Xiaoman should be prosperous in this life, if he can live a good life with Xu Zhimo, then the two of them will definitely be praised by the world. Because reputation was more important than anything else in the past, a married woman and a divorced man were inevitably disputed by others, so the two of them also rebelled against their relatives, causing the family to cut off the support for their lives, so they could only earn money through their own efforts. But Lu Xiaoman's expenses are really large, and not everyone can afford such a high-end socialite, so after Xu Zhimo's death, Xu Zhimo's father only gave 300 yuan a month for living expenses.

For ordinary families, 300 yuan can lead a decent life, but Lu Xiaoman is a celebrity after all, so she doesn't know what to save at all, so 300 yuan is often spent in one day. But because when Xu Zhimo was alive, a friend came to do massage for Lu Xiaoman, so Lu Xiaoman couldn't get funding from Xu Zhimo's family and his mother's family, so he chose to be with Weng Ruiwu. At this time, Xu Zhimo's father was very angry, so he cut off the provision of living expenses, although Weng Ruiwu gave Lu Xiaoman a good life, but also taught Lu Xiaoman some bad behavior habits.

With the death of Weng Ruiwu, Lu Xiaoman really had no one to support, and because he often engaged in some bad behaviors, he lived in poverty, and finally died alone in his own house at the age of 62. If Lu Xiaoman can live a good life with Xu Zhimo, be more considerate and frugal to Xu Zhimo, the two of them will definitely be recognized by the two families, but they are spoiled by their parents and have big hands and feet, so it can be said that they deserve such a result.

This is because Lu Xiaoman's maiden family did not agree that Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo were together, and after the two of them were together, Lu Xiaoman's maiden family had cut off, so after Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman's life was not good and he was poor.

Mainly because when he and Xu Zhimo got married, Lu Xiaoman's mother was deeply ashamed and cut off Lu Xiaoman's life support.

Mainly after Xu Zhimo's death, he felt very sad, so he was so poor.

is because after Xu Zhimo died, he was depressed all day long. The family's career is gone. So a lot of employees quit.

The answer is: After Xu's death, Lu Xiaoman was lonely, his parents were cut off, the Xu family was not accepted, and he had the bad habit of smoking opium, so his life was depressed.

Lu Xiaoman is a married woman, and if she wants to fall in love with Xu Zhimo, she will inevitably drown in spittle. However, Lu Xiaoman bravely endured the worldly and prejudice, and finally came together with Xu Zhimo after ups and downs. However, the two also rebelled because of this.

Lu Xiaoman's mother was deeply ashamed and cut off Lu Xiaoman's life support. And Xu Zhimo's family is also a well-known gentleman, they have always only recognized Zhang Youyi as their daughter-in-law, and they do not recognize Lu Xiaoman's identity at all. Out of dissatisfaction with Xu Zhimo, he also cut off the support for his life.

As a result, the quality of life of the rich young Xu Zhimo and the wealthy Lu Xiaoman was immediately greatly reduced.

Lu Xiaoman was born in a famous family and spent money uncontrollably, and after Xu Zhimo passed away, she met Weng Ruiwu again, and Xu Zhimo's father was angry and cut off her living expenses. Unable to make ends meet, she soon became destitute.

After Xu Zhimo's death, she met Weng Ruiwu again, Xu Zhimo's father was angry and stopped paying her living expenses, and later Weng Ruiwu also fell seriously ill and died, Lu Xiaoman no longer had anyone to support, she was used to the life of the eldest lady, and the expenses were huge, and then she became more and more poor.

Lu Xiaoman herself is a famous family, and her living expenses are already very large, and she has no concept of spending money. In addition, Xu Zhimo's father also stopped giving her living expenses, so her life became more and more miserable.

Defeated by her! No matter how much money she has, she can't withstand the accumulation of time, not to mention that she was born rich and wealthy since she was a child, and she spent money lavishly, Xu Zhimo died, and no one helped her.

Because Lu Xiaoman spent too much money and was too lavish, without the help of Xu Zhimo's family, he naturally lost his family.

The main reason is that Lu Xiaoman can't keep the money, she spends all the money, and she doesn't know how to save. After Xu Zhimo's death, he was naturally poor.

How much money can she make, and even if it is a mountain of gold and silver, it will be ruined by her.

Loving mothers have many defeated children, and the excessive pampering of parents leads to handsome willfulness.

Lu Xiaoman was born in a famous family, and Lu Xiaoman, who grew up in this environment, should be able to grow into a lady. However, Lu Xiaoman has changed from a beautiful lady to a socialite. Lu Xiaoman's marriage to Xu Zhimo is actually a second marriage, and Lu Xiaoman can be said to be an extramarital affair.

Xu Zhimo intervened in the marriage of Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng, before that, he also had an extramarital affair with Lin Wei because he was unsuccessful, and finally found an excuse to divorce his wife Zhang Youyi, abandoning his wife and children.

Xu Zhimo can be said to be a rich second generation, and his father is a well-known rich gentry in Zhejiang. After marriage, Xu Zhimo was also very willing to spend money for Lu Xiaoman. But Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo's marriage was not blessed, but was opposed by many parties.

Lu Xiaoman's maiden family even cut off contact with her because Lu Xiaoman married Xu Zhimo after her divorce from Wang Geng.

Lu Xiaoman himself was born in a wealthy family, and his habit of spending money from childhood to adulthood is naturally lavish. After marrying Xu Zhimo, his life was superior, and his habit of spending money and spending money did not change. After Xu Zhimo's death, due to Lu Xiaoman's marriage, Lu Xiaoman's maiden family had cut off contact with her and did not give Lu Xiaoman any financial support.

In addition, Lu Xiaoman was infected with opium and her health was not good, so her expenses naturally became larger, causing her to become poor in the end. Even if Lu Xiaoman's mother's family gave Lu Xiaoman some financial support after Xu Zhimo's death, it would not be worth Lu Xiaoman's lavish spending. In addition, Lu Xiaoman's father had passed away at that time, and Lu Xiaoman's maiden family naturally did not have so much money to help Lu Xiaoman.

Lu Xiaoman herself is a woman who is very good at spending money, and the money Xu Zhimo left her is not enough for her to squander, and Lu Xiaoman's father was dead at that time, so she was poor.

The money left to him by his mother's family was spent by Lu Xiaoman, because he was too crazy, so when he died, he was destitute.

Lu Xiaoman is a person who likes to enjoy, all the money in her family has basically been squandered by her, and the money Xu Zhimo gave him is almost the same for her.

may be because his mother's family is too rich and rich, and he has developed the habit of spending lavishly, and this kind of eldest lady generally does not make money.

Lu Xiaoman was originally born in a large family, and she has been pampered since she was a child, without the concept of frugality, and her mother's money has long been lost by her.

Her mother's family must have helped her, but her habit of spending lavishly can't be changed, her father has passed away again, and there is not much in the family that can squander her.

This may be because Lu Xiaoman has spent money lavishly since he was a child, so Xu Zhimo's income and expenditure are not equal after his death.

Because Lu Xiaoman's mother's family donated all the money at that time, there was no money left to their daughter.

It may be that Lu Xiaoman is very pampered, spends money lavishly, no matter how much inheritance he has, he is not enough to squander, and his earning ability is not very strong.

No amount of money is enough to squander, not to mention that his father has long since died, and there is not much money for him to squander.