What is the difference between an original husband and a remarried husband?

1. Ms. Chen, after remarrying, she feels that it is better to be the original couple

Ms. Chen's family has been relatively superior since she was a child, and she has to pursue the best in everything, so she has high requirements for her other half. Her ex-husband was excellent in all aspects, so Ms. Chen took a fancy to him, and they got married after more than a year of dating. After marriage, their relationship is also good and stable, the two of them work hard in their careers for the sake of a better family, and their husbands will spend their time in the family.

But Ms. Chen, who has been strong since she was a child, has focused on her career, and her career is getting better and better, but the opportunities for two people to meet are getting fewer and fewer, and in the end there is no communication, and gradually the distance between the two people is farther, and then she chooses to divorce. Ms. Chen later remarried, and her husband was also very good, but because they were halfway husband and wife, they still lacked some emotional foundation, and they could only be said to be companions in life and helpers at work.

2. Ms. Yang, my ex-husband loves me more but has no material security, and my second-married husband is richer but doesn't love me enough

My ex-husband and I were high school classmates, and from high school to college graduation to work, the two of us have been in love for nearly 8 years, and finally chose to enter the palace of marriage. I thought that getting married would make our relationship more intimate, but I didn't expect that it would make us more and more estranged from each other. After getting married, things backfired, and the burden of life soon overwhelmed the shoulders of the two of us, and the mortgage, car loan, and credit card were like a big one every month, and the pressure was so great that I couldn't breathe.

Because my ex-husband is not only not motivated, but also addicted to gambling, I can't see any hope with such a man. I can accept this kind of life every month, but I can't let my children suffer all the time. So in the end, I chose to divorce, although my current second husband does not care about me as much as my ex-husband, but he can provide me with the best environment for my children to grow up, and can also give me enough rich material life, no longer need to worry about next month's repayment, this is the sense of security I want.

3. Ms. Zhou is very happy with her second husband

When I was 27 years old, because I couldn't bear the pressure of urging marriage at home, I just found a man to marry myself, and I didn't have any in-depth understanding of my ex-husband before marriage, and only after marriage did I know that my casual attitude towards marriage made me step into the fire pit, my ex-husband had a lot of bad problems, smoking and drinking everything, often drank until midnight, and his temper was not good, I couldn't live with him for less than a year, so I divorced him. It is precisely because of the failure of the previous marriage that I want to run the next marriage well, I am very happy with my current husband, we cherish this marriage very much, we all say that it will be difficult for second-married couples to be happy, but as long as they can really cherish it, I think it is not a problem for second-married couples to be happy.

Marriage is like a gold-lacquered birdcage, the birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out; So the knot and the separation, the separation and the end, there is no game. "Marriage is actually such a besieged city, choosing a person to marry is choosing a way of life, two people gradually run in after entering married life, and smooth out their own edges and corners.

There are different levels of trust and accountability. Some remarried people feel that their ex-husbands trust them more, while others think that their ex-husbands are not responsible, which are different qualities that different people value.

The original husband will be more small-bellied, and a little thing will make a big fuss, but if he remarries his husband, he will be more concerned about his wife, and he will be very considerate, and he will consider his wife in everything, and he loves his wife more, and knows that marriage is not easy, and it needs two people to run it together.

The order of appearance is different. In addition to the different order of appearance, if you don't have children, which one you basically love, which one has more advantages, and if you have children, it is the responsibility to have a common obligation.

A primary couple is a couple who have had a relationship but have since dissolved the relationship. At present, there is no relationship between the two parties. A remarried couple, on the other hand, is a man and a woman who are currently in a legal marriage.

Second-married couples, although they have broken up with their ex-husbands and ex-wives on the surface, they have always left deep traces in their feelings, and they will compare their second-married spouses with their original partners from time to time, and most people have a strong nostalgic psychology, and they will have the idea that the second marriage is not as good as the original match, and some men will also have the idea of "ten hairs and hairs, thinking about their ex-wives all the time" after many years of second marriage! And women are of course the same.

The original couple does not pay so much attention to some details, and they do not know how to maintain a good marriage, and the remarried couple has already had the experience of a marriage, they know how to manage a marriage, and they know how to make the marriage longer.

For the original couple and the remarried couple, there is actually a big difference between the original couple. It is possible to share the ups and downs together, but the remarried couple may not be able to do it, and the remarried couple. Each has its own thoughts.

You can be unscrupulous in your first marriage, and you will be cautious in your second marriage.

The old man said: "The original husband and wife are foot to foot, and the husband and wife take care of each other halfway. "It's best if the husband and wife are still the original partner.

The older generation of people are more cautious about marriage, and when they encounter problems, most of them choose to tolerate and tolerate, and run in with each other. The young man said, "A house full of children is not as good as a halfway couple."

As long as the person is right, halfway couples can also be happy.

Does marriage really need to go to a second marriage? Which is better, original marriage or second marriage?

It is the difference between knotting and continuing.

The original partner is the first daughter-in-law, the second marriage is married and divorced, and the second marriage is the second marriage.

What the old man said is not necessarily right, the original husband and wife have a deep love for it, I don't think, the second marriage is not happy, in fact, no matter how many marriages are unhappy, the two sides have no feelings, and a few marriages are in vain, mutual understanding, tolerance and cherishing can be boring and happy, I don't feel happy, there is a custom among the people, the original match is the best. It is understandable that a mobile phone battery wants to be original, let alone people? People have a habit of not wanting to change the trajectory of their lives easily, have preconceived notions, and care a lot about first impressions.

<> personally thinks that if you have children after the divorce, then start a family again, you don't expect others to treat your children as their own, because blood is really subtle, not biological, there will not be too much love, and it is very good not to criticize your children. Relatively speaking, the marriage is still better than the original match, and there is no comparison when angry and quarrelling; Everyone has a good side and a bad side. When they quarrel, they are already emotional, and they love to drill the horns.

Every time you quarrel and compare again, a heart will be shaken. In fact, the old people don't understand the inner world of young people at all, they have culture, ideas and dreams! It is also not sloppy about marriage events, once you can't get along in life, don't say that you have made do, even if you break up immediately, it feels a little late!

If this is for the old man, my brother and sister-in-law are both second marriages, for 20 years, my family has never quarreled with a red face, and my sister-in-law treats my two nieces as if they were their own, and my sister-in-law and my ex-husband's son come to my brother's house.

Our whole family treats them as their own nephews, my two nieces are also very filial to this stepmother, the old man's words are not unreasonable, the original match is the first union of the two, and they have also experienced the happiness and pain after marriage and divorce, and they have also experienced the ups and downs of life, and it is also the first time to pay for the sweet words after marriage, so the two of them are on the basis to protect this beautiful marriage.

Remarried families, all aspects of life are under great pressure, before the child with self-nucleation and self-bending, each Zen skin individual to live their own life, the economic pressure is also relatively large, and the work of Shenghe is also busy.

The difference between the original couple and the remarried couple is very big, the original couple is a family, and the remarriage is likely to be two families, so you say that the difference between them is not very big, no matter how bad the original partner is, but you are both husband and wife, you will think about working hard to live your life well, the heart is together, thinking about how to make your small family more harmonious, how to make the quality of life of the small family better, how to make the child feel happier, so you see that you are all dedicated to your own home.

The remarried couples are different, the remarried couples have been married, and they have all divorced for some reasons, and they have seen the most cruel things when they divorced, two people who once loved each other very much, but at this time they fought for children and property, at this time they are very realistic, no longer like the two people who were once simple, and the remarried couples think after they get married, how can I seize the property, how can I not suffer a loss, how can I not suffer a loss financially, Everything is done by what is me, and why not you.

And if one party has children, then the other party will think, why should I make money to raise your children, why should I pay for your children's tuition, and the other party thinks, why can't you be kind to my children, and then the father is not the father, and the stepmother is not the mother, so you see, and they are always afraid, afraid that the other party will divorce them one day, and then they have nothing, so they hold on to their property.

So people say that the original match is good, why the original match is good, because the original partner will not think that you will raise a child for me, nor will they think that their money should be hidden, they will not think about why I have to pay for this meal, nor will they think about why I should pay for the property fee, and why I should pay for the electricity bill, because they think that we are a family, mine is yours, and yours is mine, but it is difficult to do this when remarrying.

Although the original couple and the remarried couple are both married, there are still many differences.

1. There is a relationship of interest between each other.

The original couple generally enters the marriage hall through love, and the first one for himself must have paid the most energy and time for both parties, because they cherish this beautiful relationship with each other, and they will also have their own love crystallization. Even if they are divorced, in fact, they will always remember the first one in their hearts, unless the first marriage is particularly unhappy, otherwise most people will still miss it. Remarriage is two people with similar conditions choose to be together, and the reorganized family, the reorganized family must have a relationship of interest, for example, the woman will bring a daughter to marry more than to bring a son to marry, because if the remarriage partner has a son in the family, he will definitely not want you to bring another son, the other party will be afraid that you will compete for the family property, then the woman will also make plans for her own children.

Therefore, there is a clear relationship of interest between the two parties.

Second, it is not simple love.

Remarriage is not the same as the original partner because the feelings between them are no longer so pure, many people get married for the first time for liking and love, but remarriage means responsibility, not a simple marriage of two people, if both parties have children, then remarriage is actually a shelter for children. So remarriage is not a simple love, there are a lot of other things mixed in it.

3. The remarried child is not happy with the original match.

Compared with the children of an original marriage and a restructured family, the original child will definitely be happier, because his parents are his biological parents, if the parents are divorced, it means that the child has to face different fathers or mothers, in fact, it will have a lot of impact on the growth of the child, if the stepmother or stepfather is not good to the child, it is a tragic ending caused by the marriage, so the child is hurt much more in the remarriage than the original family.

Therefore, there are still a lot of things to consider when remarrying, and remarriage must not be compared with the original marriage.

Of course, there is a big difference, the original couple came together after falling in love, and they know each other very well; And remarried couples, they have experienced a failed marriage and have a certain understanding of marriage, so after the two of them are combined, they don't feel like they got along with each other like they got married for the first time.

There must be a big difference, because one is a first marriage and the other is a second marriage, so the attitude of the two people towards him is also different, and their lives are also different.

Yes, there is a big difference, the tacit understanding between the original husband and wife is very high, and it has been run-in very well, and the remarried couple, each of them is more selfish and will not consider each other.

Hello,Your original partner, i.e., your ex-husband and the children after remarriage, do not have a legal relationship with Zhen Jiyuan.

The ex-husband and the remarried child have no blood relationship, nor have they formed a legal adoption relationshipAnd you are not currently married to your ex-husband and cannot form a new step-parent-child relationship between you and your current spouse's children and your ex-husband through in-law relationships.

The so-called "remarried husband is the stepfather of the original child", and the identity of "stepfather" and "stepchild" is a popular name for the actual identity between the current spouse and the ex-husband's child, and there are no corresponding legal rights and obligations. In order to legally establish a step-parent-child relationship, a parenting relationship between the current spouse and the ex-husband's children needs to be formed.

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