Debate: Do mothers of second children want to go to work?

Hello, glad to answer for you. After giving birth to a second child, many female friends will choose to take care of the baby full-time at home after giving birth to a second child, and a few choose to continue to work after taking maternity leave. 1. Considerations for mothers who are full-time at home with their babies.

1.There is no or very little help from the in-laws. Everyone knows that after giving birth, if there is no help from the family, it is difficult for a person, not to mention that there are two children in a second-child family.

Therefore, there is no adult in the family who is completely impossible. If your Dabao is already in elementary school, but it still takes a lot of energy and time to pick up and drop off every day, tutor homework, etc. 2.

Reluctance to hire a babysitter to take care of children. In fact, there are many people who suggest asking a nanny to take care of the children, but as a mother, I still don't feel at ease. Now that the Internet is developed, I often see the ** of marriage abuse of children from the Internet, and I still don't feel at ease to hand over the child to the nanny.

And taking care of a child is really a laborious thing, sometimes the child makes trouble, as a mother will collapse, let alone a nanny who is not related by blood. So no matter how hard and tired you are, you have to carry it yourself. 3.

I want to spend more time with Dabao. After giving birth to a second child, a problem faced by many families is that Dabao is not better cared for, and some children even doubt their parents' love for them, resulting in rebellion. In this regard, we must insist that the two children be treated fairly, and we must not ignore the existence of Dabao just because they gave birth to Xiaobao.

Just have time, or to accompany Dabao more, chat, tell stories, tutor homework, etc., although the child sometimes sees that we love Xiaobao has a little loss, but absolutely most of the time is very happy. 2. Consideration of continuing to work after giving birth to a second child. 1.

There are people in the family to help with the children. Some families have relatively young in-laws and good physical strength, helping to take care of two children at home, such a family, many mothers will choose to continue to work, after all, all aspects of the child are taken care of by the closest people, it must be more assured. 2.

It's easier to work on its own. Some female friends have less work pressure, are more relaxed, and usually do not have to work overtime, plus they have an income, which can be used as family expenses to reduce the burden on the family. Therefore, after giving birth to a second child, whether to continue to work or not, but also to consider all aspects of the situation, if the family conditions allow, it is recommended to continue to work, after all, if a full-time mother wants to return to the workplace again, it is not an easy thing.

Of course, it is best for the mother of the second child to go to work, otherwise if there is no income, the family status is likely to be very low, but at this time he needs to find someone to help, and it is best to find his mother's mother to help.

Personally, I think that the mother of the second child will of course have to go to work. If you are a stay-at-home mother, you revolve around your children and husband all day long, and you have no career, which is insecure. The child will grow up one day, if he no longer needs you, how lonely will you be inside? So going to work is a must.

In fact, I think I should still go to work, because if I go to work, I will earn some money, so that I will have less pressure on my family, and it is also better for my children's education, so I should still go to work.

When the child is young, you can choose not to go to work, but when the child goes to school, I feel that I should still work, so that I will not be out of touch with society and can solve the financial pressure on the family.

Do mothers of second children want to go to work? I think whether a mother of a second child wants to go to work depends on the financial situation of the family, as well as the mother's physical condition and whether she needs it.

Whether a mother wants to go to work depends on her family situation, everyone's family situation is also different, someone helps you take care of the child then go to work, no one helps you take care of the child, then you are taking care of the child to carry this, what is there to discuss?

What do second-child mothers eat when they don't go to work? Mothers of two children have to work more than mothers of one child.

living economy, family conditions, etc. Mothers who want a second child, as long as the living economy is not a problem, and the family conditions are always in line with each other's respect, then the second child will always be happy.

It is necessary to take into account the education of his children, but also the financial problems of the family, the problems of the children's schooling, and the problems of expenses.

Mothers who want to have a second child must first consider the daily care of their children, whether there is help from the elderly, and whether the cost of childcare is acceptable.

Whether or not to go to work after giving birth to a second child depends on your family situation and your own determination.

If you say that after giving birth to your second child, taking maternity leave, and someone at home takes care of the child, you can go to work as much as you want; If the family is not very wealthy, it is possible to go to work; If you feel too bored at home and your child has someone to help raise you, you can go to work. If you are willing to go to work and can let go of your children, you can go to work.

But if there is no such thing as this, you have to think about it.