Is love really so difficult to be understood by the other party?

Many people yearn for love, because love can bring more freshness to people, and love is different from family affection, family affection brings us a sense of security, can make us more at ease, and love can bring us more feelings, may make us sad or happy, many people hope to have an unforgettable love.

Although many people yearn for a memorable and enjoyable love, most of the time, we may not be able to understand the meaning of love, and we may not be able to truly recognize the essence of love. How many people can truly understand the essence of love? I think very few people can understand the essence of love, and there are three reasons why I say this:

1. Very few people can truly understand love.

It is true that we don't know much about the nature of love, because we don't have so much time to understand it in our daily life, and we won't spend too much time understanding the essence of love, because many people think that understanding the nature of love is not very useful at all, and it may not necessarily bring us a better life. <>

Second, few people are able to analyze love in depth.

The lack of a sedan segment is something that few people can understand, and it is also a reputation because few people can conduct a more in-depth analysis, many times after we have a relationship, we may become more anxious, we may not be able to let ourselves think about the nature of love, and we don't want to analyze the nature of love, because it may not have much to do with our lives. <>

3. The essence of love is not easy for people to understand.

That is, Fan Xiao makes some people want to understand the essence of love, and they may not be able to achieve results, because the nature of love is not so easy for people to understand, and the essence of love may not necessarily have a specific meaning, when we want to understand, we may not be able to have more ways, and we may not have the opportunity to understand. <>

Therefore, I think that no one can understand the essence of love.

80% of people can understand it, and people nowadays are actually very smart, and they will also cherish their other half.

Few people can understand, and there are many people who are more ignorant than Bolu when facing feelings and love, and at the same time, Ji Qing has not done a good job of relevant measures, and many people choose to settle when they get married.

There are not many people who think that they can see the essence, mainly because people nowadays pursue fast food, and they don't want to understand it.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, and in dating, suitability is the most important thing. From acquaintance, acquaintance to love, the two slowly get along, there will be more or less friction in the process of getting along, and if there is friction, they need to run in with each other, and through the run-in, you can know whether the two are suitable or not. However, this run-in takes a while, and during the run-in period, if both parties feel very tired and can't get along, it means that the two are not particularly suitable.

In fact, the key to judging whether the two are suitable or not is to judge the two in their views on things when they get along.

1. Whether the interests and hobbies are the same or infiltrated.

Interests and hobbies are very important, and they are not required to be roughly the same, but at least they have the same type of hobbies, so that the two of them will not hate each other when they are together.

If the two have been together for a long time and their relationship has faded, if they have common interests and hobbies, there will be more topics to talk about, and there will be more things to know to complete together. Don't worry that the other party doesn't have you in their hearts, because you both have the same interests and hobbies, you are not only TA's lover, but also TA's confidant and comrade-in-arms.

However, if the interests and hobbies of the two are quite different, it is difficult to find common ground of interest together, and it will be difficult to get along in the future.

2. Whether the three views are consistent.

Whether the two are suitable or not depends on whether the three views of the two are in tune, and only when they are in tune can it be possible to go on forever.

Everyone's views on things are not completely consistent, because everyone's views on a matter are influenced by the natural environment and the information received, and it is normal for them to have different views.

Although the views are different, on the premise that the two do not conflict, they can adopt the method of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

If there is no way to seek common ground while reserving differences, with disagreements, conflicts, and contradictions, the differences are getting bigger and bigger, and the two are less and less suitable to be together.

3. Whether the diet is consistent.

Many people wonder if two people are the same in terms of diet, does it also matter?

In fact, this is also very important, we have to eat every day, three meals a day are essential, everyone's eating habits are different, some love to eat heavy taste, some like to eat light, some love fish, some don't like to eat fish and so on. The two eat the same diet, eat whatever they want, and it is easy to get along, but if the two cannot agree on the diet, the quarrel over diet in the future will be unavoidable.

4. The door will be right.

But when you grow up, you find that a beautiful relationship will not last long if you only like and love it.

The door-to-door match not only refers to the financial resources and status of the two families, but also reflects the lifestyle, living environment, education and three views of the two people.

The best love is that the two are evenly matched, at the same level, with similar worldview, outlook on life, and values. Only in this way can there be balance and the relationship lasts for a long time.

If you always feel that you are not suitable, it is not suitable. The subconscious mind is right most of the time, even if you love him again, don't waste time if you can't run in the three views or some aspects. If you feel that something is wrong with him, and you can't say it** is wrong, don't dwell on it, and in the end, if something goes wrong, you will find that it was not right in the first place.

Sometimes you feel that you love someone very much because he doesn't love you that much, and sometimes you feel that you don't love someone because he gives you enough love. So your feelings may not be accurate, you don't necessarily love the first person, but to a large extent his indifference controls you, you can't accept it and give more. On the contrary, you may love the second person, but you know that he will always be there for you, that he has enough love for you, and that some things are used to and deserved, and you feel that you don't cherish them as much as you tremble.

Falling in love is to choose a person who is suitable for you, rather than transforming a person who is not suitable for you into a suitable person.

Love is a very abstract thing, a feeling, a kind of body taste, a pure reaction of body and mind beyond reality, which affects the whole body and mind and the emotions of joy and sorrow. And the power is enormous, so great that it is often beyond the control of reason, or there is no reason at all. Love is a thought, like a white cloud drifting in the blue sky.

Love is the sun, the wind, the air. Love is a heartache, like a trilling sound that tugs at your heart. Love is a wave of feelings, like a quiet and rippling bay.

Love is the bright light that can be seen in the night. Love is the spring that feels warm in the snow, love is a smiling face, it is satisfaction, it is a new hope, love is everything, it is everywhere, love is reading a good book, you will think, if he can also see how good!

What is the taste of love feeling? It is pleasant, it is sad, it is intoxicated, it is emotional, it is brave, it is trusting, it is sincere, it is considerate, it is lovesick, it is nostalgic, it is sweet, it is mellow, it is sweet, it is sweet, it is drunk, it is happy, it is sacrificial, it is noble, it is dedicated, it is responsible!

What is Love? Love is when you think of this person, you will pray for him to be happy and safe, you will want to be with him forever, when you have to leave, what do you want to leave for him. Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in his hand but can't read it, thinking about whether he has dinner at this time, whether he thinks about himself as much as himself.

Love is, on the weekend, use half a day to make a few good dishes by yourself, and watch her (him) eat them satisfactorily; It is to constantly refill her (his) coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; Love is to see flowers, want to enjoy with him or her, love is to walk through the cliff and waterside, you will think with a little regret: if two people travel together, what a happy thing! That's what love is all about!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Communicate with your heart

Communicate with affection and tolerate with love

The hard part of love may be the difference between the perfect ideal of love and the cruel reality that people often think.

We have love.

Why can't we be together forever?

Will also break up. People and personalities are different.

Break-in is required. It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with.

Love needs to be honed in real life.

It can change for many reasons.

Love someone. You can't help but tolerate your lover.

When you fall in love with someone, you don't even care about his shortcomings.

I don't like men who smoke.

But after falling in love with my boyfriend.

I think men who smoke are very manly.

Unless there are some of his principles and shortcomings that you can't stand.

Then you won't fall in love with him.

But remember. Don't try to change your lover.

A crow never the whiter for washing herself often. It wasn't him who changed.

Perfect. Love also needs to be inclusive.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.