Is it really impossible to fall in love??? Is love really fateful?

Your mood is understandable.

But you're still young, and you'll find out when you actually enter the WTO.

It turns out how naïve he is.

You love her. It doesn't mean that you will love her in the future.

I hope you will get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.

Hang from a tree and no one will appreciate you.

But hopefully she'll not be married by then, or divorced.

If it is someone who has a happy marriage, you will silently bless it.

Don't overthink it.

It's whimsical...

How many people and how many things can be changed in 10 years Even her beautiful figure in your heart is likely to have been deformed because of giving birth to a child...

This kind of **-like love can only be found on TV Realistic, or realistic, this kind of thing doesn't mean that it doesn't exist, it's like a comet hitting the earth, it's too ethereal...

Now you're just disappointed in the exam, and then you think more, and when you go out, your horizons are broadened, and after time, you will understand that your current thinking is very naïve.

Waiting is the stupidest thing No tree will never bloom because of someone!! Waiting is the most useless thing After saying that you will definitely not be able to do it Although you are really willing to wait now I know how you feel I also said that he has been waiting for me for 7 years Now I think it's ridiculous Love can't wait.

For such a question, there is no real, the individual has a personal idea. 10 years! The concept is vague. You're sure you won't meet a girl in your heart again in 10 years. You're sure she'll remember you 10 years from now, and you're sure you'll be able to find her in 10 years.

To be honest, I think it's all impulsive for men to say things to women that they are waiting. If you really like her, just tell her directly. Don't wait in your life, even if you hang on this tree, let the tree know. The bottom line is that commitment doesn't stand the test of time.

Letting go isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Try to let go.

Where in the world there is no fragrant grass, why bother to love a branch of grass.

Or go to college and look for one.

good lucky

In fact, we don't know what will happen in 10 years.

I just finished the college entrance examination this year.

5 years ago, I fell in love with a girl from Shanghai who was 4 years older than me. We have been in a relationship for 1 year, and I told her that in 5 years I will definitely be admitted to a university in Shanghai to be with her. But now 5 years later, we broke up, she is now engaged, and I haven't thought about going to a university in Shanghai.

Well, I just want to say that in the future we will all have a hard time. So don't hope for the future. If you really love her, chase her while you're still young and she doesn't have a boyfriend yet.

Whatever the outcome, at least there will be no regrets. Maybe she will get married in 10 years, and then you really won't have a chance at all.

Brother, I can only describe your actions in two words: naïve!!

When I was in high school, I was very sweet with a girl, and at that time I thought that no one would leave anyone, but then what happened?

The pressure on her family is too much, urging her to get married, and I'm still in college, what should I do? She made up a good excuse to dump me. As far as I know, she is living happily ever after.

And me? At that time, I felt that I even had the heart to die, and now I am not alive and well, although I haven't looked for a girlfriend again, but those things have long been forgotten, as long as you can last for a month, you won't think so.

To love her doesn't have to be her body.

As you said, it's normal for you to think this way for the first time.

Everybody has come this way.

If you love her, I wish her a happy life in the future.

It doesn't matter what I share.

Only hope it helps.

You'll find it hilarious in a few years.

In 10 years, there are many things that will change, including your own ideal of pursuing love, and when you get out of this society, you may slowly change your point of view, and now you are pursuing such a girl, maybe you are out of society, and this kind of girl is not the future you want, and you will find that you were so naïve at the beginning, and you took such a childish vow, so you don't have to take it too seriously, and it is often yourself who is hurt, after all, the other party is not showing any favor to you now, you say, it's not worth it Maybe there will be a lot of people who say that they are willing to wait for the people they love, but I don't see so many people waiting, and the reality is that some of them are more hypocritical.

You're still young, and there are a lot of things you can't think about yet, so you'd better calm down and think about it.

Let go, face the sea, look forward, a lot will change in ten years, not only her, the key is you, don't deny this sentence now, maybe it won't take ten years, you will find yourself changed before graduating from college, don't set yourself up.

Brother, be realistic, it's unlikely, many things can only be recalled after 10 years, my brother has had such an experience, and said that it was okay for 7 years, but when the time comes, things are different from people, maybe there are still feelings, but it's no longer possible, everyone has changed. People change with different environments! If you miss it, you miss it! ~

I'm a sophomore, I'm in love (first love), it's been almost eight months, and I've had a serious unrequited love before (once in high school, twice in college), and I feel like what I can do without them, and now I have forgotten about it. Brother wants to open a point.

Let yourself relax first.

Don't think about that girl.

Are you sure you're going to like that girl all the time?

Are you sure you won't be swayed?

After 10 years, maybe you won't like her anymore?!

If you still like that girl.

Everyone is living happily ever after.

You also go in and plug in the foot.

That girl doesn't hate you more.

You just go with the flow.

Take it easy.

Maybe this is your first love, ignorant of love, but overwhelmed, always making some naïve vows!

Hey, there are a lot of things to say in person, don't say anything stupid about the post-10s, you have to know that adults can get married and have children in a year. Just because you can wait doesn't mean she can wait 10 years.

Wait 10 years, and his children will be able to play soy sauce! Do you think she will irresponsibly abandon her family and follow you again?

I'm you, I'm going to soak her right now! ~

Disrupt other people's lives and play with the ......

Keep friends and care more about her when you feel the time is right to start chasing because now you have nothing after all.

Rationally tell you that fate and initiative are not the right answers.

Needless to say, the probability that you will meet a love for a lifetime on the street is less, as for working hard, from another point of view, it is stalking, and in the end, the better one is a spare tire, and the bad one is licking the dog. It's a great drain on your own energy.

I have always advised both men and women to be smart about their love in order to get the relationship they really want.

In short, there are three points:

1.Find problems from yourself;

Many people have an illusion about love, feeling that in this life, at least one person will love themselves unconditionally (many chicken soup also say the same), I think this is the most irresponsible poison for themselves.

Except for your parents, no one will unconditionally take it as their responsibility to love you. If you have obvious shortcomings, not to mention the problems that are not conducive to getting along such as being withdrawn, such as not being able to speak and not being humorous enough, even if you happen to meet someone you like, you will not be able to express your thoughts to attract the other party.

Therefore, it is necessary to start with your own shortcomings and not escape from your own shortcomings.

2.Accept rationally: love is a game of value matching;

A stable relationship must be a value match. What this means is that if you like someone who is much better than you, unless you have an advantage that he does not have, then he still has a chance to like you, otherwise, it will be difficult for your relationship to reach the stage of love.

The value referred to here is not only money, but also emotional value, psychological quality, topic preferences and other soft value parts that individuals can provide in social interactions.

Because what you have, he has, how do you give him what he needs?

Some people are tired of love, they just always avoid this problem, and always only go in one direction to please each other, but the other party doesn't need it at all, what's the point?

Therefore, when you decide on a pursuer, the most important thing you should do is to increase your own value and attract the other person.

3.As long as you are willing to understand, true love still exists.

It's so beautiful to have someone who likes it, so beautiful that they feel that the object belongs to them. Many people have changed their mentality after going through the love period, and they feel that the other person should continue to be positive to them. and ignore their own efforts.

Understanding is like the one above, understanding your own shortcomings, but also understanding the other person's shortcomings, the shortcomings of your relationship, all the factors that are not conducive to your relationship. Knowing the problem is the only way to solve it.

Even if two people in a marriage relationship can't understand each other, then the two are still lonely.

I believe that fate comes and goes, fate gathers and scatters, and cherishes fate and does not climb with fate.

Fate is a wonderful thing, you can't ask for it, everyone only has that.

Those who know how to cherish will soon meet their fate unexpectedly, and those who don't know how to cherish can only pass by happiness.

Fate is like flowing water, it is gone, and who you spend the rest of your life with is a destined thing;

If you don't know how to cherish it, then you will face a relationship crisis, and you don't know how to deal with your feelings.

As the so-called twisted melon is not sweet, if you know that the other party does not have you in your heart, but you insist on squeezing it in, and you will be scarred in the end, you may not be able to find any room.

In fact, each of us has these examples around us, witnessing the process of many couples getting acquainted and falling in love, and also witnessing many failed relationships.

It's just that I never thought that these failures would happen in my own emotional world.

If it is really difficult for the relationship between two people to continue to persevere, separation may be a fulfillment for each other.

On the other hand, if you have feelings for each other, you choose to separate only because you have always thought that you would meet better.

You will find that the people you meet after going around and around are not as good as him, and they don't love you without him, that's because you are destined to be a couple.

Summary. As far as the current phenomenon is concerned, even if you believe in love, you may encounter a lot of bad relationships, so there is no need to pay too much attention to this problem, and when you meet your fate, you will find that you will not care about these problems.

Are you dealing with the feelings you're experiencing right now, hopeless, or do you feel unfeeling?

I don't feel emotional, I feel high when I find a partner.

There is no hope.

Overall, maybe you imagine it better, but in reality, there are few things you imagine.

This is also normal, because many people also have this kind of luck signing, you can take a little bit of your imagination, focus on reality, and see what the surrounding love and so on are quietly like.

So how can I have an object.

That is, you can let go of your imagination and tell yourself that some of the things you imagine may rarely exist in reality, and then focus on the current noise, contact more friends, contact more people, maybe when the lead Zen rises, and look at the right eye.

I feel very confused about feelings.

Don't believe in love.

How old are you and have you ever been in a relationship?

As far as the current phenomenon is concerned, even if you agree to the banquet, Qingyin believes that love may encounter a lot of bad relationships, so there is no need to pay too much attention to this problem, and when you meet your fate, you will find that you will not care about these problems.

Love must have fate, people are together, so others can't be separated, because two people really love each other, and they really have each other, so two people will be very happy together.

I don't feel like it, even if it's a real destined person, if they encounter difficulties in life, they will be separated, because two people can't bear such hardships, so they will choose to let go.

This is indeed the case, because the destined two people will definitely break through all kinds of difficulties and come together again, and the two people can go through their lives happily.

No, even if you love each other again, you may break up for some reason, I feel that there is never a long-lasting love, mainly by the two of them to maintain each other.

Yes, because I still believe in fate, and if there is fate, we will definitely be together.

Of course, this is the case, many times if two people are destined in love, even if they encounter various situations, they can't be separated, and the two people will take care of each other very carefully.

This is really the case, because the fate of two people will make two people understand each other's importance more in the division and combination, so that they will always be together.