My parents felt that my boyfriend s family was not financially good and prevented us from being toge

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although everyone is very realistic now, it is better to give love a way out on the premise that basic life can be guaranteed! If he can be admitted to the civil service, it means that he has the ability to create your future (family conditions are born and can never be changed, do the poor have to fight and live?) You also have your own job, and you will be happy working together!

    Parents can only go to enlightenment, it is not easy to find someone you love and love you, please cherish it! Money can be earned with hands, but the person you love can be met but not sought! I hope you are happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Life is often not perfect! Look what you think of it! In the face of difficulties, you can overcome him!

    The main thing is to find out where the difficulty originates! In fact, it is impossible to tell who is right and who is wrong in such a thing! You need to communicate more with your parents and boyfriend!

    Change their minds! Otherwise, the consequences may make them disagree in the future!

    1.Persuade your parents and tell them what you plan for the future! Let them know that the lad is a very motivated person.

    I believe that as long as it is enlightened, both parties will be fine.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can tell your parents that you wouldn't go to work if it weren't for your boyfriend, you can communicate with your parents and say that you love each other, your feelings, and that you are the one who ends up living with him.

    Usually during the holidays, you ask your boyfriend to go to your house and buy something for your parents, which is more practical and very high-grade, in fact, it doesn't cost a lot of money, you can definitely find it if you look for it with your heart. And it will make your parents happy and say to friends and relatives that this is my future son-in-law who bought it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The world is already cruel, so don't let yourself be a cruel enough person to erase your feelings.

    In the future, you will live with your husband, not your parents. As long as two people love each other in their hearts. Then don't care what your parents think.

    And both of you now have stable jobs, and you don't have to support your parents. As long as the man is good to you, live with him firmly!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    But the road ahead is ours and our destiny is in our own hands

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's understandable that a parent doesn't want his child to be well, but I think you really like it. You should convince your mom to support your love. Both the poor and the rich run their own business.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It can be seen that your boyfriend does not have many relationships that are worth holding onto, and how can your parents be sure that it will be better for you to find one in the future. You can't hold on to the pain, it can only mean that you are shaken You also want to find a better condition, you shake the heart of love for him Hold on, don't regret it later.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, love is an ordinary thing. If you really love him, stick to your decision and stay with it for the rest of your life! Parental blocking is just an excuse for you! Go, if you love him, go and confess to her!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you abandon your boyfriend, you are too unhuman, what do you care about your parents' snobbish ideas, frankly speaking, even if you find a powerful rich master, rich people generally have more contact with things, not so simple, if it is not good for you, what can you do? Divorce and then find another one, there is no point, my husband is also very poor, and my classmates are also very rich, but my husband loves me very much, and I don't see that a few rich people are psychologically comfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Forming a family not only requires love, but also needs to have enough milk and bread, I think every parent wants their children to live well, but as a child it is difficult to understand the painstaking work of parents, I think you can consider your parents' words, but you don't have to obey orders, find a quiet place to think about yourself, I believe you will deal with it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm very sympathetic to what you're going through. First of all, you have to determine whether your relationship has a foundation and whether he is the person you are following. If yes, then you have made up your mind.

    Parents are afraid that you will suffer hardships and losses, and their opinions can only be used as a reference, and it is you who make up your mind. Because it's your happiness

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should tell your parents: "Now is the period of free love, it's not your parents who say you will marry, it's the opinion of two people who love each other, if you agree to get married, you will get married, if you don't agree, forget it."

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You must patiently persuade your parents, you must make your parents aware of each other's advantages and strengths, and you can also say more good things about each other in front of your parents, and then the two of you can work together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Talk more about the advantages of your boyfriend, take your boyfriend home, get some gifts, let your boyfriend talk to your parents seriously, talk about your thoughts on the future, and tell your parents that the two of you love each other very much and your boyfriend is very motivated.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can talk to your parents about your plans for the future and about his behavior, so that they will see some hope and will agree with you to be together.

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