A couple of blog posts from my boyfriend made me feel like a thorn

Updated on technology 2024-02-09
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your mood is understandable.

    Because you care about him a lot, you feel a little jealous.

    Actually, you can put yourself in their shoes.

    A lot of your previous memories are worth recalling, those memories buried in the bottom of your heart.

    Those secrets that only you know.

    Are you willing to erase them from your memory?

    I'm a man and I understand your boyfriend's mind very well.

    He doesn't delete it because he doesn't care what you think.

    Rather, he made those past events, the writing of words, whether bitter or sweet, a part of his life.

    There is no conflict with your current relationship.

    It's like a photograph, just a memorial.

    And there are some things that can only be written down in a specific mood at a certain time.

    It's precious. You can't go back in time.

    It's like we occasionally turn out old songs to listen to them, not just to listen to the songs, but the past events and feelings that accompany when we listen to those songs before.

    So you don't have to worry about it at all.

    When you tell him, he talks about the blog, and it seems that he cares about you.

    Let's love each other.

    Your past with him will continue to be a precious treasure to both of you.

    Cherish the present, cherish the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's just his hanging on to the past, why do you have to kill them all?

    In the past, he valued feelings, and you thought it was a merit.

    And now you feel that what you used to think was an advantage makes you unhappy.

    Everyone needs to have a private space, such a secret corner of his heart, why do you take a magnifying glass to look at it, only to increase your own troubles.

    His past, you know it already exists, and you know that it can't be erased.

    can only not mention, the previous failed feelings may be what he used to remind himself to cherish the people around him, dear, you don't need to linger.

    Married as husband and wife, love is undoubtedly sent to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is his past, does he care about you now? If you care about your words, why bother with his past?

    In fact, love needs to be tolerated with each other.

    If you really feel uncomfortable, you can talk to him, since he is now your boyfriend, he will respect your opinion.

    Let's understand men more, in fact, men are the most emotional animals.

    Since he attaches so much importance to his previous feelings.

    And what does he do to you? Of course, there is no doubt about his current feelings.

    Calm down and think about it from another angle, if he doesn't miss his old girlfriend at all, he doesn't remember it at all, what would you think.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Everyone has a memory in the depths of their hearts.

    Don't force anyone to forget anything, give him space. Love means tolerating each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you can't let them go, will they be able to resurrect themselves? Of course, he is reluctant to give up something very valuable, just imagine, if it is you, a real love story that you have personally experienced, and you are willing to be so literate? Let's take it as a final memorial!

    You can motivate him to write for you again.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone has memories that they don't want to be given up. Give him some freedom.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Communicate with your boyfriend to see if there is really something wrong with him, and if you don't realize it, then correct it in time.

    Usually there are a lot of female friends who want to keep their boyfriends, but they always like to say prickly things, and they feel very happy after saying them. When you can't help but want to stab the other person, you feel that you can't influence the other person, so you think that if you can hurt your boyfriend, maybe he won't dare to be so tough anymore. What happened made you very unhappy, and you want to put him right in words.

    I feel that he is always unresponsive to what he says, so you need to use tough and prickly words to get the other person's attention.

    You have to learn to apologize A lot of breakups happen because girls do a lot of things that hurt boys, such as being willful, doing, deliberately testing and tempting, and as a result, the boyfriend can't stand it and finally separates. How to redeem your ex-boyfriend in one sentence, you should know how to apologize sincerely.

    Complaining is just focusing on the past, the negative things that you don't want to do, and it won't help to change the status quo. Asking is to respect the other person's mentality and express one's expectations. The request to get back to the ex-boyfriend is to focus on what hasn't happened yet, and there is still room for improvement on both sides.

    There is also a smack of criticism, questioning, ordering, and demanding. When you obviously want to keep your boyfriend, but you open your mouth to complain and accuse, which will make your boyfriend feel that you are controlling him, and in order to maintain his self-esteem, he usually either fights back, or is getting farther and farther away from you. Instead, he was angry with his boys, and even felt that boys didn't love him anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Judging from your description, I think he may be slowly fading his feelings with you, and then break up with you one day. Because a man is not taking the initiative, it means that he is not motivated by this girl. And he doesn't care much about you, and he doesn't be gentle with you, and he doesn't let you.

    You still expect such a man to change suddenly, don't be stupid. In fact, some questions are not good, after all, what you said is not his, and it is not detailed. But judging from your subjective description, you really have to be ready to be broken up.

    If you can get better, I want you to try it anyway, after all, you still like him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you know what the nature of love is? That is - concessions and sacrifices. Judging from your description, I'm sorry to tell you that your love has gone bad, and your boyfriend doesn't want to make concessions to your little things, which means that he doesn't love you anymore, and you know this yourself, but you don't want to admit it, give up, kid.

    I can't help but remind you that one of the signs of a person's maturity is "learning to give up". Because life is always incomplete. Many people suffer a lot precisely because they don't know how to give up.

    When you have the wisdom to give up and clean yourself, you will suddenly open up, and life will immediately show you a completely different picture. You are in pain now because you still have love, love is not just an experience and a feeling, but an ability, you know, if you choose to give up, in fact, you have not given up love, because you still have love in your heart, otherwise you would not be so miserable. What you give up is actually a person who doesn't love you at all.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It doesn't matter, just take it seriously.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't think about it, Lan Yan knows it, they are too familiar with each other, it is impossible to be together, they all know some ugly things about each other, and it is even more impossible, that girl knows some things about you and your boyfriend, if they are together, won't he mention it? Definitely it will be, so men won't accept women who know everything they do.

    Those are not ambiguous, they are like brothers and sisters, so they don't take into account when they speak, if they talk to strangers like this, it's ambiguous, as for the first kiss, what do children know, what do children know, the past, you talk to him, you tell him, how you used to be, I don't care, but if you are with me, you have to pay attention to your words and deeds, not to prohibit you from contacting, but please take into account my feelings, if I also have such a small hair, what will happen to you. Please be yourself, I inform you for the last time, you must not be soft-hearted when it is time to be hard...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I feel that what I said upstairs is reasonable, and you told him that he still has this attitude, no matter what, if you really care about you, you have to pretend to be something......But after all, we are not the parties involved, we don't understand the situation, and we can't understand what you think, and the opinions we give can only be "for reference only", the key is to see yourself. If you really need someone to give you advice, you can find a friend with whom you have the best relationship and the most reliable person, and it may be ......better to listen to their opinions than if you were here to ask for advice

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I feel like he really doesn't care about you.

    That's not the case with men who care about women.

    Love yourself.

    Take back all the love and love yourself well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let him stand in your shoes, and his little hair doesn't seem to like you very much

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Judge it yourself, it's hard for others to give opinions on feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I care about you, I hope you will become better, and your life will be more harmonious in the future; Another bad explanation is that he's tired of you and makes excuses to leave you. Of course, the previous explanation is a little more reliable. Good luck!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Communicate well with him, if he really loves you, he will be tolerant.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No one is perfect, your boyfriend is like this!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why are you so stupid, he's a man, so if you want to do this to you, you want to change me too. In fact, he loves you very much, but he is good to you and afraid of losing you, after all, you are better than him! He will sometimes often find your shortcomings to deliberately test you and see your reflections, but remember, such a man loves you the most, how many people will remember to say you a good night that is easy to forget every day?

    He will do everything to make you happy, you have to believe in Him. Moreover, I don't think that there is no good future without education, give him a little more love, a little more support, a little more even a kind "worship", it will be a great satisfaction for his self-esteem, you have to learn to encourage him. Encourage him to get out of the house and go out into society, and I believe that your future will be very happy!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Saying goodnight is a word that doesn't need to be thought about without emotion.

    If it's a matter of principle, or in an emotion, you shouldn't expect anything nice.

    This kind of person doesn't respect you.

    In the future, you will not respect your parents.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You have a point, cowardice and exaltation are two different manifestations of inferiority. The so-called machismo is also a deliberate manifestation. According to you, he** is qualified to show machismo.

    He wants to outperform you mentally but doesn't want to annoy you because of his performance, so he will show both sides. It is estimated that his heart is walking on thin ice. If you think the two of you have a relationship base, don't stress him out in your words.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is so wonderful, sometimes fire, sometimes frosty, sometimes inexplicable, sometimes just right.

    Maybe when he gets a job, something will change.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The two of you have such a big difference in conditions, men will definitely have low self-esteem. In fact, the so-called door-to-door is still very reasonable, if you keep putting up with him in order to be considerate, it will only make his temper worse and worse. It's better to let him find a job and live a life to the fullest, maybe it will get better slowly.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Do you love him very much?

    One, you should communicate openly and honestly with him.

    Second, when he says you, you try to ignore him, pretend to be quiet, and watch him behave.

    If a boy really loves you, he won't denigrate you!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Low self-esteem is very unpleasant in my heart, I always want to be the 'boss', and I am embarrassed to meet (in fact, I miss each other very much).

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why do you want to be together even though you know that he doesn't love me!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A blogger is a person who writes a blog. A blog, on the other hand, is a diary that you write for others to read.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Talk to him calmly, don't get angry with him, because it's all because he cares about you too much. Let him know and understand your feelings, and I think if he deserves your love, he should respect you! Wishing you happiness!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    He knows that you don't want to stab, so he can make an excuse to break up with you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Men who pinch the like, don't do it!

    Maybe he doesn't love you!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's hard to accept this kind of thing. Even if you love her to the core, you need to know if it was of her own free will. There are many ways to wash your tattoo, why doesn't she wash it before she dates you? I think it must be a painful thing to have to deal with this name for the rest of my life.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It can only show that she doesn't care for her body.

    If you love her, don't say break up.

    On the contrary, it is also responsible for one's own future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's up to you to accept it, and if you love her very much, I don't think you care, because she's broken up with the man.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's up to you to take it.

    If only I would break up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    With your own feelings, think about whether she loves you or not, if so, find a way to help her get rid of it, no matter how you say your girlfriend ** carve another man's name, it's not comfortable to think about it.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's nothing

    This only proves that she is a person with affection and righteousness.

    Perhaps, she will do the same to you.

    So, she deserves your cherishment.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I can't take ......Hehe, whether you break up or not, it depends on how much you love her......

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