What kind of dinner should you not go to, no matter how much others invite you?

First of all, it is the dinner of unfamiliar people, because eating with unfamiliar people is not fun, and there is no common topic; The second is not to go to a dinner where you need to drink, because drinking hurts your body, and there are always people who advise you to drink at such a dinner, so it is best not to go.

A dinner that happened to me. People didn't plan to invite you at all, but they just met a polite greeting, and you can't take it seriously, otherwise the host will be unhappy and you will be embarrassed.

It's all the opposite sex, don't go to a dinner without the same sex, because such a dinner is very dangerous, and the other party may have bad intentions, so don't go alone.

You can invite some people who you like more, you can also invite some people who are close to you, and you can also invite some people for work reasons, so that you can invite the people you want to invite. You can send them a message, you can also set up a group chat, and you can also ask the poor to chat with them privately in the office.

Be sure to prepare in advance, be sure to ask everyone about their spare time, choose a suitable place for holding Min Roll, choose a good relationship, don't be too frequent, and be sure to make an appointment in advance when inviting others.

First of all, the first sedan car must not be too cautious to show too much closed width to deliberately, so that others are embarrassed to participate, and secondly, you can invite more people to participate in the way of friend invitation, and invite your favorite people by the way.

Rejection is an art in life, and many people are tired and have endless work because they will not refuse.

If you don't want to go to the dinner, you must first not offend the dinner organizers. So we have to look at what kind of meal it is first, and then adjust our strategy.

If it is a dinner organized by the leader, the best excuse is nothing more than two, one is that you need to work overtime to catch up with a very important project, as long as the leader attaches importance to this project, it will definitely be supported, and the other is that there are important matters at home, and you must rush back in time, everyone has a family behind them, and they will understand.

If it is a dinner organized by a friend, it is best to use the excuse that you are busy with work, sincerely apologize, if there is a group, send a red envelope to enliven the atmosphere and tell your regrets.

If it is a family dinner, it is best to say that the company leaders organize training or meetings, highlight your important position in the company, everyone will be proud of you, in short, do not want to go to the dinner, find a reason that everyone can accept, lower your posture. You'll understand.

Even if you can't get away with something else, it should be okay to recover in this way, and you can apologize.

Hope it helps.

Make excuses to say no. It's okay to say what is fake as it is true.

Nowadays, many employees will be warmly invited by their leaders after entering the workplace, and they don't know how to refuse. Because we don't want to drink, and we don't want to go to drinking parties too often, which affects our physical and mental health. But when invited to an important dinner by the leader, how can a young man refuse?

How to politely refuse? In fact, most young people with high emotional intelligence can master the following skills, and politely refuse through four sentences, so that it will not offend the leader, but also make the leader feel that the employee understands the rules.

01 First of all, first thank the leader and politely refuse with some excuses.

Some employees get angry when they are invited to a banquet by their leaders because they think it's not good to go to a banquet with their leaders. If the leader doesn't give up on inviting these employees, they will even lose their temper with the leader. Leaders are very unhappy with the performance of their employees because there is no need to show an angry face even if you don't participate.

Employees with high emotional intelligence will first thank their leader and make up excuses through family or friends to politely decline. Leaders feel that it is justified for you not to participate, and naturally it will not pose a threat to you.

02 Second, tell the leader to participate in the last time.

In fact, some employees feel very uncomfortable when attending a dinner party, so they want to say no outright, but are embarrassed to say it. However, there is a good relationship between strong employees and leaders. They can understand how to make each other ** and give face to the leader.

They will also show more remorse when they refuse the leader's request, and at the end they will claim and make a promise that the leader will have dinner with him next time. If you refuse with some euphemistic methods and words, the leader will naturally forgive you.

First, tell the leader that they have a physical problem.

03When you have a cold or fever, leaders will also consider the physical and mental health of employees. If an employee takes frequent time off work or is unable to complete work tasks due to alcohol, the impact on the company can be significant. Therefore, young people should tell their leaders that they are not feeling well before they don't want to go to the dinner party, and also thank the leaders for their kind invitation.

Finally, I wish all leaders a happy dinner. This way, a few sentences can explain why you can't attend the dinner party, and it can also make it less ugly for the leaders to invite you.

Second, many employees are busy every day after joining the company. When they are invited to a dinner party by the leader, they can also politely refuse to participate in the company's overtime, because if everyone delays the progress of the work while performing the task, the company's superiors and leaders will not give up, so our refusal to drink can actually be used as a shield for similar reasons. Of course, some of the company's leaders will not continue to cause you trouble.

1. I have to work overtime and have no time.

Saying that he has not finished his work and needs to work overtime. If a colleague invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can use the reason that you have more recent jobs and need to work overtime as a reason to politely refuse a colleague.

2. Feeling unwell.

Refuse on the grounds that you are not feeling well, whether it is a colleague or a friend who invites you to dinner, if you don't want to go, you can say that you have been drinking too much recently, and you are not feeling well as a reason to politely refuse.

3. Accompany your family.

When your colleagues and friends invite you out to dinner and you don't want to go, you can say "I'm really sorry, it's our family party, I can't go, I'll invite you to dinner another day" to refuse.

4. Make an appointment for other dinners.

If your colleague or friend invites you to dinner and you don't want to go, you can say "I'm sorry, I have an appointment tonight, I'll invite you to dinner another day" as an excuse.

5. There is something at home.

When others invite guests, if we don't want to go, we can say that there is something at home, so that we can politely refuse the other party.

6. Need to go out.

When someone else has a treat, if we don't want to go, we can say that we need to go out at night. Generally, after the other party hears it, they will not continue to invite.

Sometimes, if we are too noble and too rejecting dissidents, then it is often ourselves who suffer in the end. So, sometimes, as a last resort, we have to bite the bullet and go to some dinner that we didn't want to attend.

Meals that you don't want to attend. We can choose some suitable reasons for refusal. For example, being unwell.

For example, the family member is in a hurry. For example, the time to pick up a friend or relative is not appropriate. Wait a minute.

Let's just say that there is something that I can't go. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Learn to say no. Otherwise, I would feel embarrassed when I went to this kind of dinner.

Use some things that can't remember other people's eyes and can't be avoided, so that two people are more comfortable, for example, the elderly are uncomfortable, need to take care of the children, are sick, need to take care of the wife is not at home, need to take care of the children are not at home, can't go, this kind of words that others can't refuse, basically the other party's feelings, can also avoid the dinner that they don't want to go.

The teacher doesn't have time, as long as he doesn't like the party he attends, don't say think about it yourself, Chen Chen doesn't have to make up the reasons so perfectly when he tells his reasons, pretend to make himself more busy, and others invite you to participate. It's all up to you to pretend to be a little wrong, and you can use this trick again. It's not bad to tell the reason for not wanting to participate in the beauty of 10 million, and it is encouraged to tell the deadline directly.

If you really don't want to participate in such a dinner, you can explain it tactfully with other people who have a good relationship, or lie that you are not feeling well, or say that you have more important things to do, and I believe that the inviter will not stubbornly insist on it again and again.

You can politely refuse, but don't refuse first, you can say thank you for the invitation first, but there are still some things at hand today, I will invite you another day, first say polite words to express thank you, and then explain to many parties the reason why you can't participate in the dinner.

When someone invites you to a party that you don't want to attend, use your busyness to tell them that you really have no skills, and you need to do so much right away that you don't have time to participate even if you want to participate.

First, all gatherings are a social activity, and we may have something to gain from them, so we should try to make ourselves able to participate.

Second, it is a relatively common excuse to say that you don't have time and find a suitable thing as a reason.

Thirdly, even if you don't want to participate, you should not show it, but instead show that you want to participate but can't do so.

Fourth, you can ask a friend to help, for example, at this time, make a look and let a friend who understands you come forward to help you say that you have already made an appointment and can't attend the party.

Fifth, it would be more appropriate to refuse tactfully or in a way that does not hurt.

Sixth, for girls, it can also be said that they are not feeling well and want to go home early to rest, which is usually understandable.

It depends on who asks you to participate, if it is a leader, you have to have a good reason, otherwise it may affect the future work. If it's a friend, you can politely decline. If it's a villain, you'll have to find a friend to go for you.

If you don't want to, you won't go, so you say that you have made an appointment. I wish them a happy meal, such a blessing for everyone to go down the stairs.

If you don't want to participate in the dinner, if you are embarrassed or inconvenient to say it, then you can only say that something is wrong or pretend to be sick.

There are many reasons for being uncomfortable, catching a cold, or having something at home. If you really don't want to go, just say it.

Let's just say that if you are unwell or have another appointment, you can't participate, and it's good to make amends next time you have time, and most people won't force it.

Then find a suitable reason to reject the other party tactfully, this is the best way to reject people.

I have relatives at home, and I want to go back to help my wife receive relatives together.

I feel uncomfortable and have a cold and something at home.

1.On the grounds of physical discomfort. In most cases, drinking alcohol is required at workplace dinners, which is very dangerous for those who are allergic to alcohol or who are sick.

Therefore, refusing to drink alcohol on the grounds of physical discomfort can be "allowed" by colleagues and leaders and is a sufficient reason for refusal. In addition, the diseases are contagious, and I said that I was unwell and could not participate in the party and the drinking party, which was also for the health of the other people at the table, and I believe that I could get the understanding of others.

2.Excuse yourself with other meals. Dinner is often the case in the workplace, so you also have to be flexible when choosing reasons for rejection and learn how to change reasons depending on the situation.

Working in the workplace is often the most important. In any case, leaders and colleagues will recognize and support work as a priority. If you come across a workplace dinner that you don't want to attend, you can decline it on the grounds that you have already made an appointment with an important client, flaunting that you are work-oriented and not unwilling to attend the party.

3.Play the emotional card. Attention should be paid to the expression of emotions when expressing reasons for not attending parties by playing the emotional card.

For example, when you refuse to attend a dinner at work on the grounds that you are taking children, let your leaders and colleagues know that your husband and family can't pick up the children either. I usually have to pick up the children by myself. Be sure to narrate with emotion so that the audience can feel your hard work and hardship, so that you can gain more understanding from your colleagues and leaders.

Refuse directly, don't want to go, say whatever you want.

Workplace whites should take into account their own feelings when refusing dinners, and they should also consider the impact of meals on the career development, interpersonal networks and colleague relationships of professionals, therefore, professionals need to consider carefully when making decisions, so as not to cause unnecessary trouble, and refuse the leader's dinner invitation to pay attention to the following points:

1.Politely refuse: Whatever the reason for refusal, be sincere and polite so as not to offend the leader or make the other person feel uncomfortable.

2.Don't lie: Lying can cost someone their trust, so don't make up false reasons to decline an invitation. If it's really time or other practical reasons, tell the truth.

3.Find an alternative: If the reason for refusal is time or other reasons, you can consider proposing other options, such as rescheduling or asking the leader to go to another place for dinner, etc.

4.Consider the impact: Carefully consider whether the rejection will have a negative impact on your relationship at work and future promotions. If it's really necessary, you can tell your leaders what you think and why.

5.If the leader insists on you drinking, you can pretend to be drunk and then find an excuse to leave: some leaders will also insist that employees drink, and if they don't drink, it may affect their future development in the company, so that Mengji employees cannot refuse the leader's request.

Once you encounter this situation, you don't have to think about anything else, if you can't drink, you can pretend to drink, and for such a leader, if you really can't drink, that's fine.