How painful is a long distance relationship? Can a long distance relationship really be painful?

In fact, long-distance relationships are not as difficult as we think. If it's hard, it's important to trust each other. If you don't trust the other party, the problems caused are to be expected; Getting to know each other and understanding each other's lives is especially important and difficult to achieve.

If only one party gives and pursues a relationship, and the other party just blindly maintains, it can eventually lead to all kinds of problems. So solve the problem effectively and avoid unnecessary problems. Occasionally it may be necessary to explain the other person blindly, and sometimes a little thing may lead to a quarrel, but it is a must.

It is not for nothing that distance produces beauty.

It's painful in a different place, but it's actually better. If two people live in different places, they can effectively understand and understand each other. Such a distance will make love better and more perfect, so that each other knows how to cherish each other.

Good luck to us! We haven't seen each other for a long time, and there is no common topic in **. Because of the stress of work, it is normal for most long-distance couples not to see each other for months.

When I first started, I would play ** every day, caring about how the other person was, what they ate, whether they were tired or not, and what they were doing. However, after a long time, these greetings became unremarkable, and even felt that there was nothing to talk about. The other party was not only perfunctory, but even he himself felt that it was silly and naïve to ask these topics.

The people who knew each other best in the past were a little light, and they couldn't even find common topics. They don't know whether to let go or continue. Buying small gifts online has become the biggest and most authentic romantic relationship between each other.

It's bitter. You can't hold each other's hands or kiss each other's lips, so it's not romantic at all. In addition to online chatting and ** chatting, this relationship really can't find a foothold.

Others can accompany each other to eat, go shopping and watch movies on Tanabata, while the Tanabata of a long-distance relationship can only be covered by infinite emptiness. I hope that on a certain festival, you can receive the other party's express delivery and feel a faint but real romance. You can't see how big each other's world is.

You wait in place like a fool.

Love-hate lovers "waiting". Waiting for love can buy a good marriage. You can't see how long the road ahead is and how little hope there is.

You are in the south, ta in the north. What is the other person's world like? Did you meet someone more suitable there?

Everyone else is talking about getting married, but you're making no progress. If you compare the progress of other relationships with rockets, then a long-distance relationship is a snail. It's time to meet your parents.

Very painful. Because long-distance relationships have distance restrictions, I miss them day and night, but I can't see each other, so it's very painful.

Definitely painful. A month together coincides with the period of love. During the love period, it is painful not to see each other's thoughts and thoughts, but for special reasons, it is necessary to be tolerant and understanding of each other.

It is very painful, and the relationship between two people is very deep, but there is no way to meet, and there is no way to confide in each other when encountering things, which will lead to many problems between two people.

Two people have been in a state of not being able to see each other for a long time, and when they have something, the other party can only comfort themselves through their mobile phones, and they can't be by their side, so it will be particularly painful, and there will often be a situation where they can't hold on.

Usually long-distance relationship refers to the process of a man and a woman falling in love for the purpose of marriage. Because they live separately in two places, they often break up before they get married.

It goes without saying that long-distance relationships are very painful. But why is it so painful that anyone insists on doing it or going on? Because a long-distance relationship is very painful, but if you persevere, the results are quite bright.

But the problem is that many long-distance relationships die halfway through.

It is very painful, and the two people are very entangled and confused, and they have no confidence in the future of the two people.

Long-distance relationships. I will feel painful, and the reasons are nothing more than a few points: when I am not around and need my other half, I can only rely on the mobile phone network, and putting down the mobile phone is the same as not having a boyfriend and girlfriend.

You will feel empty and lonely, you don't know a lot of things when you're not around, if everyone is busy, you don't have a lot of time to connect, and your feelings will naturally fade. Especially when helpless and in need of help, the other half is not around, and it is a feeling to have him and not him. So here comes the question:

Having a boyfriend and girlfriend and not being the same thing, why do you want to fall in love, you are troubled, and you are uncomfortable. Nowadays, both men and women, as well as adults, need to communicate mentally as well as physically.

I myself had the experience of long-distance relationships, although I was still young at the time (about ten years ago), and I had a few immature love experiences, so I dared to touch this kind of topic that I didn't dare to touch. I feel that the normal relationship makeup of two people in love is made up of multifaceted connections. For example, the link of communication, the link of the spirit, the link of the body, the link of the eyes, and so on.

After reaching multiple links, a normal and stable relationship can be maintained.

Long-distance relationship, what is missing is the important link of the eyes and body, once this link is missing, the love will not be too complete. For example, a hug and a look at each other, which seems to be so simple that it can't be simpler, has become the most difficult thing for long-distance couples to achieve. What's more deadly, the distance will cause a gap between two people, ignite suspicion, and other negative emotions.

If there is no way to regulate it, this emotion will expand indefinitely until it collapses. (Distance produces beauty.)

This is not denied, but it is also divided into long distances and long times. It's something like a novelty, I don't know what adjectives to use. ）

Of course, there are good long-distance relationships, and there are also happy ones before Piling, the premise is particularly simple and difficult. That is, you must be strong enough in your heart to resist more things, and maybe the love cultivated in this way will be more long-term. To sum it up, long-distance relationships are not insurmountable, and I personally think that as long as you have a strong enough heart.

In the end, may you be happy, and being in a different place will no longer be an obstacle for you, but a small episode in your cultivation of perfect love.

As long as two people have a good relationship and can understand each other, they can also be very happy, so don't be afraid of long-distance relationships.

Yes. Because I can't see each other all the time in a long-distance relationship, and I miss each other very much, I think it will be painful.

Yes, long-distance relationships are really very painful, and two people often don't see each other, and the relationship will fade.

Pain must be painful How can I not be in pain, I want to see him, but I can't see him, I am most troubled by this type of loss, and sometimes I can cry because I miss him too much.

Anyone who has experienced a long-distance relationship knows that there are some sadness and pain in a long-distance relationship that ordinary people don't know. The most painful thing is the loneliness in the heart, sometimes it feels like a long-distance relationship is like a fake love, there is no warmth of wind and snow, no company after tea and dinner, no relief of low and lost comfort, no sad and sad hug. can only bear all this alone by looking at the ceiling, and many times the long-distance couples are more like Tu has a reputation as a non-single dog, but lives the life of a single dog.

Obviously, a hug can solve the problem, but the reality is that people are very fragile when they are sick, and when one party is sick, the other party cannot be by their side. Give her enough warmth and care, you can only remind him to pay attention to his body, drink more hot water, and go to the doctor if it is serious, and there is nothing he can do if he is anxious, after all, far water can't save near fire, and he can only say some self-comforting words. Since I chose a long-distance relationship, I expected that this situation would happen, and no matter how painful it was, I had to hold on.

Boys are most afraid of girls crying, in one sentence it means that you don't cry, because I can't hold you, I hate myself for having more than enough heart and not enough power, so I can only secretly swear that Nahaibi will work hard to give the woman she loves a stable future and end this painful long-distance relationship as soon as possible. Long-distance relationship is like a mirror, two people are obviously separated by a screen distance, but they can't touch each other, this kind of sadness and helplessness, it's really hard to feel like crying, long-distance relationships are more dependent on Dongju mobile phones or computers than others, many times they can only express their lovesickness to each other through the Internet, tell their grievances, share the pressure of their life and work, and hope to convey happy things to each other through the screen. I hope to share this joy with each other.

Long-distance couples are indeed in great pain. **Clause.

1. Don't see each other often. Many couples are emotionally weakened because they often don't see each other, and there is no doubt that any relationship needs to be slowly strengthened by frequent contact. If you don't see each other for a long time, even close relatives will inevitably feel unfamiliar, let alone a couple.

The most intuitive manifestation of not seeing each other often is that I feel like I have always been single, there is no one around me all the time, and the person I like is far away. Sometimes I suddenly want to find someone to rely on, but I find that no one is reliable. Obviously a very small thing, sometimes a hug and a kiss can solve the matter, but as a result, long-distance couples often explain for a long time to no avail.

**Clause. Second, there is no sense of reality. Long-distance couples are basically ** contact, mobile phone chat. Many girls said that they seemed to be in love with a mobile phone, and there was no sense of reality at all.

Even if something big happens to two people, there will not be another person by their side, and the interaction that they can do or can do is just chatting on their mobile phones. Whenever I see someone else in and out of pairs, and I am alone, I always feel like a single dog, as if he has never appeared around me. Sometimes I even think that one person is very good, and I don't have to worry about the feelings of another person, but every time the unstoppable thoughts at night unconsciously come to my heart like a tide, I deeply remember that I still have a loved one in the distance.

**Clause. Third, the helplessness of reality. Some couples who are close are okay, the university is wide, and they can meet and date on weekends or something, but those who are far away are more miserable. Not to mention the number of meetings is extremely rare, the car and the cost of the car and the cost of coming back to Lianglian are enough for his living expenses for a month.

Most of the long-distance relationships are students, and there is basically no choice of long-distance people in mixed society. If the student's family is not very wealthy, then the long-distance relationship rarely meets for a semester, which is very painful.

Long-distance relationship is very difficult, mainly because two people can't see each other for a long time, they can only contact each other through **, they always can't feel each other's existence through their mobile phones, no one accompanies them when they are sad, and no one comforts them when they are vulnerable, so the sad feeling makes people very uncomfortable.

Long-distance relationships always give people a sense of flux.

When everyone faces their expectations disappointed, there will always be an indescribable sadness and helplessness in their hearts, and this is what long-distance couples often experience. She always carries the label of not being single, lives a single life, and when she feels lonely in her heart and wants her other half to go shopping or go out to play with her, she will always feel the pain brought to us by reality.

When you are sick, the person you love is not around.

When you are sick, you need the comfort of your loved one the most, and I hope that he can hug me by my side, even if it is just a simple hug, it can relieve my pain. But for long-distance couples, even if they have a high fever and can't walk when they are sick, they still have to endure going to the hospital by themselves, because without his company, they must be strong.

The saddest thing is that he can only tell you what to do in **, and you have to try to be very strong in order not to worry him. In fact, at this time, you really want to snuggle up in his arms and cry loudly, telling him all the grievances and bitterness, you don't want to be in a different place.

Envy all the people around him.

The people around him can get in touch with him every day, they can know what he's doing today, whether he's happy or sad, they want to eat with him, work together, and they want to watch new movies with him, instead of watching them with their friends.

Planning is not as fast as change.

The saddest thing is that I have planned to meet before, but when the day came to tell me that something could not come, every time I experienced it, it was like falling out of love, even if I was not ready for anything, I would be sad, because I had been waiting for you with all my hope.

I haven't experienced a long-distance relationship, but the sadness and helplessness can be imagined.

As a man, he can support his family roughly, and he can eat hot meals when he comes home from work. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, having a stable job of her own, giving herself the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, and she is young and beautiful, which is the happiness of a woman;

Each type of person has its own sense of happiness, and I feel that this kind of happiness is not the same as that of the cave town, just like Mr. Lu Xun said:

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I just think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.