What should I do if I have just started out with such a marriage? Should I marry him?

Updated on society 2024-03-01
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    27 years old is not very big, everything is still in time, if you take your lifetime of happiness just because of children, it is not worth it. Even if you are really married, it is a question whether you can maintain living together, and it is clear what you need in your heart, and you are willing to stay away from him and do not want to live with him, but it is conceivable that you have no feelings for him, and leaving may be a good choice. Marriage is not child's play, don't hurt yourself and an innocent child when the time comes.

    Feelings can be cultivated, but only if you are willing to give for yourself and each other, not like you are now 5 months pregnant and want to escape. Best wishes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    All I can say is that your marriage is too abrupt. Why do you think of marriage so casually?!

    Nowadays, both men and women who are married have a misconception that looks are not important, and others can be cultivated slowly. But this is very wrong, because you have to live with your other half for the rest of your life, and if you look like you, how painful it will be. Also, you say, "So far, there is nothing I like about him."

    Feeling sorry for you, what you don't like is what you don't like, it's not something that can be cultivated slowly. You'll never like him unless you can see other things about him in the future to dilute his flaws.

    I don't know why you don't like that to be with him? Does it feel like both parents know? Can't afford to lose this person?

    Or do you feel that you are getting older and will marry casually? If these two of my articles speak to your heart, then I think your life will be more painful in the future, since the children are already 5 months old, then keep it! Hey, life, life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Five months of pregnancy is already dangerous.

    2. It's best to think about your feelings yourself, and don't regret it later.

    3. It is normal for husband and wife to be noisy and quarrelsome.

    4. The two sides have a calm exchange with a correct attitude.

    After thinking about this, you should have the answer, life is your own, you should make your own decisions, not ask others how you should live.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, I understand you very well, because I am also rural and know the custom. I'm also a person who has given birth to children, and I don't have any good ideas here, I just want to tell you, don't gamble on your feelings with children, in case a child is born and your feelings have not changed, then what? The child is the crystallization of love, since there is no love, the child becomes a burden for the two, who is the one who loves the bitterness in the end?

    As for your age, it depends on whether you are so-called resigned to fate, if you give him the rest of your life and slowly cultivate feelings, such an age is not a problem. I hope you can solve your troubles as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, you already have the answer yourself, hehe.

    But you need to ask yourself if you can bear the consequences of what decisions you make, and if the answer is yes, then do what you want, and be happy!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, you can scatter it, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Feelings can be cultivated, he didn't make up his mind to share with you, it means that you are beautiful and can still attract him, and you are five months pregnant, and he didn't let you beat it, which means that he is reluctant to have feelings for you Of course, you really don't like him to get rid of the child as soon as possible It's not easy to do it after a long time, and find a better one while you're still young.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Children don't necessarily bring you affection.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Think about it yourself and make more efforts, maybe there will be improvement.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You should adjust your mindset in time and face up to your marriage. At the same time, you can seek help from your parents or friends around you to guide you on how to approach marriage properly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, no marriage is as perfect as people imagine in their hearts, so we should really tolerate each other and understand each other, so as to make married life happier.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I should adjust my mentality, because marriage is like this, and marriage is real life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think you should face the reality because everyone's marriage is like that, it's not as good as you think.

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