Should I continue with this kind of marriage?

In fact, sometimes feelings can make all the difference.

It is recommended that you and your husband read a book "Men's Tricks and Women's Ways" respectively, your problem is the lack of ways to deal with married life, and I believe that you will definitely be able to return to a happy life.

If you find your husband ignoring him when you need it, consider taking the following steps:

1.Communicate calmly: Start a conversation with your husband about the situation and find a solution. But it is essential to keep Pai Qiao calm and not to have feelings of argument or blame, but to try to speak calmly about your feelings.

2.Find time: Try to subconsciously influence your husband and find the right time and opportunity, such as weekends, evenings, etc., to have a good conversation. However, care needs to be taken not to persuade the husband by means of coercion, lectures, or control, which is not conducive to restoring the relationship.

3.Reason for concern: The reason why the husband ignores him may be due to psychological or physical stress, fatigue or life pressure. Pay attention to your husband's emotions, understand his psychological condition, and try to resolve his confusion and dissatisfaction.

If your husband ignores you for a long time, or acts disrespectful, uncaring, and uncaring towards you, it may require further thinking and action, such as seeking counselling help, seeking advice from a neutral party, or considering abandoning the relationship. The most important thing is that before making any decisions, you need to be honest and stand in your own perspective, think about your own values and life plans, and don't change your life trajectory easily.

Song Ningfeng and Zhang Wanting are a pair. One is used to being a "gas bag", whether he is ridiculed by his partner or hurt his self-esteem, he always looks like he wants to explain but has no chance to explain, and the other is to suppress his partner when he has the opportunity, be aggressive, and never speak well.

Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng were married in a flash, they knew each other for less than a month Zhang Wanting was pregnant, and the two got married until the child was born, and there were all kinds of contradictions between the two, Zhang Wanting still commented on this relationship in an interview - we are not familiar with each other.

The audience thinks it's very strange, three or two months of marriage can be said to be unfamiliar, and children have been born for so long and still can't be acquainted, how should this kind of marriage be lived?

In this marriage, quarrels are full of them, Zhang Wanting feels that Song Ningfeng doesn't love her enough, and keeps asking for love, but what is the love in Zhang Wanting's mouth?

It is the partner who has to notice her emotional changes all the time, the one who saves her face in front of outsiders, the one who can't fight back and scolds her, and the divorced Song Ningfeng who meets Zhang Wanting, who is ten years younger than him, who is willing to give birth to him, has to love her unconditionally.

And what did this woman who asked for love from her partner do? Blaming and suppressing the partner, not respecting the partner's right to speak, and removing the partner's face for the sake of his own face......All in all, the series of operations is very suffocating. There are several scenes that are most impressive:

One is three pairs of "husband and wife" sitting on the moving bus laughing and chatting, Zhang Wanting's spearhead suddenly pointed at Song Ningfeng, and said in front of everyone that Song Ningfeng had a good life and found a good wife like himself, unlike his own hard life, he found a drag oil bottle like Song Ningfeng.

If it hurts her partner's self-esteem very much, Zhang Wanting can blurt it out without thinking, indicating that in places we can't see, similar "verbal violence" often happens.

Just look at Song Ningfeng's expression, embarrassed and a little submissive.

The second is that Song Ningfeng and Lu Ge are happily playing frisbee, Zhang Wanting chatting with several other guests, speaking of Song Ningfeng, using the word "sinner", and immediately after Song Ningfeng sat down after playing frisbee, he turned on the attack mode - disgusted that he was not qualified as an actor, because he couldn't even detect his wife's emotions; disliked that he didn't know people, and had such a good time with the insincere Lu Ge; He was forbidden to speak and deprived him of the right to express himself.

Zhang Wanting felt that what she said was reasonable, and finally left very angrily.

The third scene is reading a love letter, Song Ningfeng said what was in his heart, and Zhang Wanting cried while listening. Just when everyone thought she was touched, she said in the interview that Song Ningfeng's love writing was particularly ridiculous and hypocritical, and shouted in front of Song Ningfeng that she would not change it, saying that what he wrote made her very faceless.

Zhang Wanting often talks about "face", most of the moments when she suppresses her partner are for face, saying that Song Ningfeng is dragging the oil bottle to show her superiority, and the accusation against Song Ningfeng after playing frisbee is that she feels that the other party has not maintained her face, and it is not right to write love letters because he has made himself lose face.

But Zhang Wanting should never have reflected that when she suppressed and blamed her partner in front of everyone, she lost her face.