My husband and I are in this situation now, what should I do now?

Ask him to empathize with you.

Summary. Maybe it's because I've been in a bad mood lately. Calm down and think about it, what is it that makes you feel bad? Since when did your husband start playing with you, and you were annoyed?

I don't know what's wrong, my husband and I play around and I'm annoyed, maybe it's because I've been in a bad mood for some reason lately. Calm down, Zheng Kai, think about it, what makes you feel bad? Since when did you start shouting that your middle-aged husband Pei Lead was playing with you, and you were annoyed?

It's been two or three years. Think about it carefully, did there one thing he did two or three years ago when he made you particularly angry with the hailstones? Although you have forgotten, you have always remembered it in your heart. Find this knot, open it and you're good to go.

Now you solve the problem first, when he fights with you and returns to the hall to make trouble, suppress the unhappy emotions first. Try to accept it first. Slowly, little by little, you can change.

Whenever you don't hate him, you think about how he makes you very happy, or when he makes you happy, when he is very good to you, my husband and I are like that. Some people hate him when they go into hiding. Then I tried to make myself accept him first.

Three days, five days. It's good to take it slowly.

Make dinner together, hug Pei Zheng and hug each other before going to bed, and take the initiative to say sorry. When both of them are calm, analyze the original situation again, at this time, the wrong party will treat the other party more gently, and then, taking history as a mirror, if a similar problem occurs next time, remember to be calm, and don't hurt people because you are angry. Husband and wife: Living together for a long time will inevitably cause some mouth-to-mouth problems.

So what if there is a contradiction? Generally speaking, it is the man who opens his mouth first to make compensation, and it does not end in this matter. But there are also men who have a strong temper.

Only the wife opened her mouth to call for dinner. Give him some warm food. Just let him be relieved.

But there is something special about it:

When you can't tell the difference between you and me. Female, let's take a step! It's always a woman who has to be patient! Otherwise, they will think that they have no face. Because the man's symphony is considered to be the head of the family;

When both of them ignore it. As long as the wife gives a smile, there is a sense of tenderness. The man is about to lose. Because he won't last long;

When it is clear that the wife is right and the husband is wrong, the wife should not strive for it. Let the facts later prove him wrong. This is better than winning your argument and coming to Zen in God! It's like you hear someone behind you saying nice things about you!

When some trivial things are uncomfortable. Just find a time and place to vent, such as watching movies, dancing and singing. Climb the mountain and swim. Find a friend to talk to;

Husband and wife are more likely to communicate with each other, understand each other's current thoughts, and quarrel but don't have a cold war.

I wish you and the world such men and women to grow old happily.

When you quarrel with your husband, you must first know the source of the quarrel, and the spear is instructed to clear the shield.

It's very hurtful to always quarrel, and it's better to talk about two people if they have something. Don't quarrel over a little thing, so that when you get used to arguing with potatoes, it will cause two people to be unable to solve the problem when there is a big event. I am.

1. Try to ease the relationship within a day.

Although it is important to give both parties time to calm down after a quarrel, remember not to delay it for too long, because it can hurt feelings for a long time.

In addition, men also have a better face, and after a long time, you don't take the initiative to create a step, so it will be difficult to pull down your face to ease the relationship.

2. After a quarrel, you still do what you usually do.

This has two advantages, you can take advantage of the time to do things, and find opportunities to ease the relationship with the other party. For example, ask the other person for a hand, etc.

In addition, you can also move forward and self-reflect by doing things.

3. Women can also take the initiative to admit their mistakes.

If, after careful reflection, it is indeed your own mistake, then take the initiative to admit your mistake and get back together.

It is not only the truth that men take the initiative to admit their mistakes to women, but what you need to pay attention to is the way to admit mistakes.

Such as being coquettish, such as pretending to be cute, etc.

In addition, if you can't let go of your mistakes and admit your mistakes in person, you can also send text messages to the other party, which is more convincing than verbal expression, and can also give the other party room to think.

Men are very rational, and most men will accept the apology text message from their wives as soon as they receive it.

4. Don't rehash the old thing.

Husband and wife quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, and many things are solved at that time, so don't worry about it. In particular, many women tend to bring up old things when they are emotional, which is what men are most disgusted by.

Many relationships just become uncommunicative in the repetition of contradictions.

That means that he doesn't want to leave at all, if he wants to leave, he would have talked about it a long time ago, this initiative is in your hands, if you want to leave, you can seek legal action.

If you find out that you are wrong in an argument, you can deal with it like this:

1. Admit your mistakes: Admit your mistakes and apologize to the other party.

Clear up misunderstandings: Try to clear up misunderstandings and explain your position.

Change your attitude: If the reason for the mistake is your own attitude, try to change your attitude.

3. Seek reconciliation: Try to seek reconciliation and keep trying to make the argument more peaceful.

Reflect on yourself: Reflect on why you made mistakes and try to learn from them.

4. Be patient: If the other person is not willing to accept your apology immediately, be patient.

Note that admitting a mistake does not mean that you are wrong, but rather that you are willing to take responsibility and try to find a solution to the problem. Most importantly, stay calm and rational in the midst of an argument and try to find a settlement.