Around the time of my grandmother s death about a week ago , something strange happened 50 minutes

Birth, old age, sickness and death are all natural laws, but our thousands of years of feudal culture in China, coupled with Feng Shui, "Zhou Yi" or something, pay too much attention to the deceased, to think deeply, resulting in "people are scary".

I'd suggest that you don't have to think about anything, that your grandmother died, and that's objective, maybe you happened to have the things that you were talking about, and then you started to think about the ghost movies that you usually watched, the ghost stories, all of a sudden

Your psychological tolerance is too poor, I think you should be a woman, and your female psychology belongs to the kind of easy to move, and the kind of fantasy that encounters such things as the death of a loved one, plus you may not be too old, and you like to watch some movies, so your own weakness leads to too much thinking.

I think it's better to wait for time to settle down, and then you will get used to it, and at the moment, you can try not to be at home alone, control your thoughts, don't think so much, try not to be alone, and then go out for a walk.

You don't have to think so much about it for a while, yin and yang, ghosts, and gods, it's all nonsense, or live your own life, people die and can't be resurrected.

I hope you can get used to it soon, hehe.

Psychological problems! If I'm not mistaken, these broken things should be something that your grandmother often mentions or touches, it's not that they are broken, it's your psychological feeling that something is wrong with them, and often people in this situation some things that they usually don't pay attention to will be inexplicably magnified, and the reason why the psychology is a little uncomfortable. Try to let yourself relax and do what you want to do and what you like to do.

Human nature, it will be good to hand it over to time. But don't think of any crooked methods, everyone knows that it is a lie, those crooked methods are just to find a support point for the psyche, why not try to give yourself a support point. We don't know the beauty of heaven and the horror of hell, so why should we imprison ourselves, and why should we think that it is bad to think about him, rather than not knowing it!

It's just a matter of trouble.

Today is the third day of my grandmother's death, according to the customs of my hometown, to go out of the soul, my mother packed up all the clothes and covers of my grandmother early and made a bag, and also bought a paper car, these are to be burned, I only knew that there was this statement but did not understand what it meant, I consulted my aunt, only to understand that the reason why I burned these when I went out of the soul is because these clothes and covers have my grandmother's soul, and now the soul is going to leave in the car, and the things used in life can only be burned, and grandma can leave with peace of mind.

Watching the things turn to ashes, listening to the heart-wrenching cries of my father and sisters, I feel that although my grandmother has taken away her soul, she has left us with endless ...... of missing

When you wake up in the middle of the night.

Tears flowed down to the pillow.

There is no meeting in this life.

Where the words are desolate.

It is difficult to repay the kindness of the knee.

There is a wound in my heart.

Loved ones broke their bowels.