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Parents are not around, if the child catches a cold, the grandmother who takes care of the child will suffer with it, the grandmother is old and can't stand the toss, in order to avoid the child from catching a cold, the weather is cold, the grandmother will sleep with the child in most cases, so what are the dangers of the child and the grandmother sleeping? What are the effects of a child sleeping with grandma?
The hazards and effects of children sleeping with grandma are mainly as follows:
1. A common saying is that it will affect brain development, the elderly have poor respiratory function, and when they sleep at night, they need a lot of fresh air to supply oxygen, so they produce more carbon dioxide, and children inhale too much carbon dioxide, which will cause insufficient oxygen supply, which directly affects the healthy development of children's body, mind and character.
2. It may cause a series of bad phenomena such as nightmares and restless sleep, which will affect the child's sleep quality. Due to the poor immunity of the elderly, they are easy to be infected with the virus, especially during the high incidence of epidemics, the immune system of children is still developing, and the resistance to the virus is poor.
3. It will affect the parent-child relationship, just imagine, during the day, the parents have no time to accompany the child, the grandmother is taking care of it, and at night, the grandmother is still with the child, and the parents have almost no contact with the child, and it will definitely not work in the long run.
Parents need to go to work during the day and have no time to take care of their children, so it is no problem for grandma to accompany the child during the day, and at night, it is better for parents to sleep with their children in person.
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Grandma really wants the baby to sleep with her, but she doesn't dare to sleep directly, so she always deliberately asks the baby repeatedly in front of me, I see her intentions, and I didn't speak, because I am actually reluctant in my heart, but I don't want the old man to be lost, and I also have questions in my heart, "Is it good for the child to sleep with the elderly?" Since I didn't speak, she tacitly agreed and carried the child to her room to sleep! In fact, this situation has happened occasionally since he was three months old, but he has not been weaned before, and I don't want to make my grandmother too hard, so I insisted on sleeping with me until he was 11 months old.
Now he's a year old, and he's been sleeping with his grandmother for the past week.
Recently, I have been busy, I have to go to practice driving at night during the day, and when I get home, the baby has fallen asleep with my grandmother, I feel that the day is only in the morning to be able to hug him, recently I feel that he is not as sticky to me as before, I am actually quite lost, I feel that I have fallen out of favor, my friend said: "How good it is that the child does not stick to you, you can go if you want to" But I still like him sticking to me, maybe grandma is also this kind of heart, sometimes I feel like two people are robbing children, Grandma also hopes that the child loves the most like to stick to her, and feels that the child needs him the most, so as long as the child cries, she always says: "Come on, with grandma, with grandma" and then take the child away, in this regard, Bao Dad also said a little helpless, although we understand her love for the child, but the heart is not a taste, is there any sympathy?
I think it's better for children to sleep with their parents. First, the grandmother is already very tired with the child during the day, and she should rest well at night so as not to overwhelm the body; Second, because parents do not have time to spend with their children during the day, they should let their children sleep with their parents at night to make up for the absence during the day; Third, if children sleep with their parents, they can also learn in an interactive way before bedtime, which is also a good time for education. However, the old man also has her reasons, first, she just likes children to sleep with her; Second, she feels that the child sleeps with her, which means that the child likes her very much, and she has a sense of pride when she returns to her hometown and tells others; Third, she understands our hard work during the day and wants us to have a good rest at night.
Even though we explained our reasons to her, she always said that it was okay, saying that his father used to sleep with his grandparents when he was a child, and that she was not tired.
Have you ever had a similar experience? What do you guys think about this?
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