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Boys are not this kind of mentality, they just talk about it, because they know that as long as they say this kind of thing, girls will be very happy, in fact, in their hearts, they don't want girls to eat like pigs, they want their girlfriend to be a healthy, beautiful, positive and sunny girl, not to see the food and can't control themselves, so if your boyfriend often tells you this kind of thing, you just need to listen to it, the left ear goes in and the right ear goes out, You don't need to take it to heart at all, you have to know the mouth of a man, a ghost who deceives.
Once my boyfriend also told me this kind of thing, but I immediately guessed his careful thoughts, under my questioning, she finally told the truth, he said that he wanted me to keep it like this, don't be fat, no matter how fat it is, it will not be the beauty in his heart, he also has to consider the marriage between the two of us, in fact, I am very happy that my boyfriend can confess these words to me, which also makes me understand that as a girl, you can't just listen to men's nonsense, You can't just add weight to yourself.
Girls themselves have to be self-aware, once you are fat, what do you think you can do to attract your boyfriend? Is it your looks or your talent? Don't think that you accept the worst of me to be qualified to accept the best me, when you get worse you can never come back, when you graduate fat you can no longer lose weight, few people can have perseverance and perseverance to persevere**.
There are many people who break up with their boyfriends because they don't control their weight, girls should be warned, you should not only be in good shape, but also should be knowledgeable and eloquent, so that you can find an excellent boyfriend, don't make do with finding a boyfriend from the garbage heap.
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It's normal, support you. I also hope that your lover can treat you the same and wish you happiness.
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I think you're right to think so, especially women, it's the right thing to do, to protect yourself.
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Your idea is good and supports your idea. Girls who have this kind of thinking are all good, but at the same time as having this kind of thought, it is best to have the idea that if you meet someone who is not ladylike, society is complicated, good luck.
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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover source limb becomes an eternal memory in life, if you really love someone, you must love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and the limbs are split.
If your relationship is not strong enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it
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Hehe·· The pursuit of perfection is everyone's wish... But who would dare to say they are perfect? Everyone has their own perfection... No one can say who is crippled... Slowly pursue the perfection of fighting or pretending to be an empty stove in your heart... When everyone pursues to·· Time·· That's true perfection...
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There are shortcomings to be perfect, but there are shortcomings but not perfection. Perfection is not the best, but it makes people feel tired, some people are pursuing, but some people are not pursuing.
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I was very impressed by that sentence"It's good to have it before, why care about the result"
Keep chasing! There's no reason to give up!
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The boyfriend is not responsible, he doesn't want to take responsibility at all, and he doesn't want to admit his mistakes, so he will always avoid it, instead of facing the problem directly, he doesn't dare to face it.
Tell him directly!! You don't want to regret waiting for him to have a girlfriend!! Think about whether your face is important or your happiness is important!!
When I was in junior high school, I longed for the life of dropping out of school, smoking, drinking and going to nightclubs, and I always thought it was cool, so I changed from an excellent student who got a scholarship to a bad young man who was shouted and beaten by rats on the street, my father because of physical reasons on the one hand, on the other hand, I hit him with cancer, of course, I didn't understand that my father was on the verge of death, I was not admitted to high school, In order to stay away from my parents and not listen to their scolding, I chose to go to a nursing school in the field, in fact, it is nothing more than to avoid their sight, not by their side, I can skip class unscrupulously, sleep in class, do not write homework and do not study, until finally I learned nothing and let the school give my parents ** to take away and persuade me to quit, I was taken home by my mother, my father was very angry and did not give me a penny, and I had no choice but to go out to find a job, that job was to sell cosmetics in the mall, go to work at 9 o'clock in the morning and get off work at 9 o'clock in the evening, standing all day, And from home to the mall, and then from the mall home, every day 40 kilometers away I have to ride an electric car, sometimes it may suddenly rain, but also to ride home soaked in the rain, in fact, his heart is heartbroken, the job has intrigues, I often cry secretly, at that time I realized that I was really nothing without him, but I didn't dare to resign, because it was really difficult to find a job without a degree, and I didn't want to give up if I earned little money, and then my father died, Now I am also married, have children and have my own family, my mother often asks me if I regret the decision I made, I always want to make my own decisions I do not regret my life, I ask myself how can I not regret it, if I am obedient, will my father not go so early and insist on accompanying me for a few years, even if he goes to see that I am all stable, he will rest assured and happy to go, for my father this is the regret of my life, sometimes I quarrel with my husband, I will think if my father is in the case he knows will immediately rush over to protect me, Is I still a home to go back to, I'm the same as you, when my parents disciplined me during the rebellious period, I also had depression and wanted to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills, but I watched my mother anxiously send me to the hospital to shed tears for fear that I really felt very unfilial at the moment when I had an accident, I want to share my own story with you, I hope you don't have psychological pressure, there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, when it is to give yourself some challenges, so that you can meet a better self, and it is also a kind of happiness to make my parents happy, if my father is not dead, If I still have a chance, then I will definitely choose not to disappoint him.