Why do my family love me so much, I want me to be well, but I always let them down

When I was in junior high school, I longed for the life of dropping out of school, smoking, drinking and going to nightclubs, and I always thought it was cool, so I changed from an excellent student who got a scholarship to a bad young man who was shouted and beaten by rats on the street, my father because of physical reasons on the one hand, on the other hand, I hit him with cancer, of course, I didn't understand that my father was on the verge of death, I was not admitted to high school, In order to stay away from my parents and not listen to their scolding, I chose to go to a nursing school in the field, in fact, it is nothing more than to avoid their sight, not by their side, I can skip class unscrupulously, sleep in class, do not write homework and do not study, until finally I learned nothing and let the school give my parents ** to take away and persuade me to quit, I was taken home by my mother, my father was very angry and did not give me a penny, and I had no choice but to go out to find a job, that job was to sell cosmetics in the mall, go to work at 9 o'clock in the morning and get off work at 9 o'clock in the evening, standing all day, And from home to the mall, and then from the mall home, every day 40 kilometers away I have to ride an electric car, sometimes it may suddenly rain, but also to ride home soaked in the rain, in fact, his heart is heartbroken, the job has intrigues, I often cry secretly, at that time I realized that I was really nothing without him, but I didn't dare to resign, because it was really difficult to find a job without a degree, and I didn't want to give up if I earned little money, and then my father died, Now I am also married, have children and have my own family, my mother often asks me if I regret the decision I made, I always want to make my own decisions I do not regret my life, I ask myself how can I not regret it, if I am obedient, will my father not go so early and insist on accompanying me for a few years, even if he goes to see that I am all stable, he will rest assured and happy to go, for my father this is the regret of my life, sometimes I quarrel with my husband, I will think if my father is in the case he knows will immediately rush over to protect me, Is I still a home to go back to, I'm the same as you, when my parents disciplined me during the rebellious period, I also had depression and wanted to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills, but I watched my mother anxiously send me to the hospital to shed tears for fear that I really felt very unfilial at the moment when I had an accident, I want to share my own story with you, I hope you don't have psychological pressure, there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, when it is to give yourself some challenges, so that you can meet a better self, and it is also a kind of happiness to make my parents happy, if my father is not dead, If I still have a chance, then I will definitely choose not to disappoint him.

A person's life is like peeling garlic, setbacks are like peeling garlic, not only difficult to peel and the results are small, but a head of garlic is only a few small, when you successfully pass this period, the future will be bright, to be confident in yourself, don't give up easily. Come on!

Don't quit your job, get used to it, you'll meet good friends there.

Whether you love or not, whether you love or not, live well, you have to either chase him, or you sincerely wish him to find one for yourself.

I love you, but I love you and I love me.

If you're well, it's a sunny day.

Although the falling flowers are intentional, the flowing water is ruthless, if you are well, it is a sunny day.

You're already disappointing, okay?

I saw your question and thought about it for a long time, I was thinking about why you have so much, he doesn't like you just doesn't like you, you have to figure out why he doesn't like you, from your question I feel that you are an extremely egotistic person, why did you miss you? What are you? Will you die if he leaves?

Or the earth will not be autobiographed if you leave it, as for why you don't like you to give you hope, it is purely your self-righteousness that makes you think that he gave you hope, you gave him a special gift with hard work, and he also gave you a piece of candy, you think it is to give you hope, hehe, it is purely a courtesy exchange made by people out of politeness as a person, if you meet a scumbag, a good person who is ambiguous with you every day but does not accept you, then I tell you, no matter how much you pay, it is useless, it is better to simply break it. There are other ways, but I won't teach you.

Some people like the feeling of being embraced, and you think about why they don't like you, but what they want is to give you hope, and you're going to keep going around him, and he doesn't feel your disappointment, and missing you may not matter to him, and you have to wake up.

I think, he is different from you, you are free (single or divorced), he has a wife and children, he can't be a person without responsibility, he wants you to find the right person.

Then you say, why do people like you, what do you deserve to be liked by her, this is not a person's problem, it is also its own.

Because you have better people waiting for you, and those who miss you are not blessed to enjoy your company.

Because this is your fate, you should let this person torture you, in this case, you should completely give up, give up, don't have any hope, if there is no result, find a love that belongs to you.

Give it up, that person is not your future.

Another infatuated man, let it be and see everything! Time is a good medicine, and it will be forgotten slowly, where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

You really can't live without her, you really love her, but she is lying to you, which means that you have met a **, she doesn't love you, maybe just for your money or real estate, for a person who is not worthy of your love, waste time and waste your youth, break up as soon as possible!

She always hurts you, which means that she doesn't have you in her heart at all, and then she is a woman who is not emotionally single-minded, that is to say, she is a promiscuous woman. The results of contact with such women are all tragic, ranging from being defrauded of money to ruining their families. So, for your happiness and for the happiness of your family, stay away from this kind of woman!

You don't have to think that the ending is not good, it may be because you didn't find the right person, as long as you find the right person, he will treat you well, and the ending will not be scarred. You don't have to think that the ending is not good, it may be because you didn't find the right person, as long as you find the right person, he will treat you well, and the ending will not be scarred. You don't have to think that the ending is not good, it may be because you didn't find the right person, as long as you find the right person, he will treat you well, and the ending will not be scarred.

Maybe it's really not suitable between you, many times you should find your own reasons first, if you make yourself very good and stable, then many endings will be what you want.

Love someone too much, you may go to confusion, although you love him so much, but he has no feelings for you, all your efforts are in vain, the greater your hope, the greater the disappointment, or wake up early, don't be sad for a person who doesn't love you, feelings should be handed over to a person worthy of your life.

Looking at your problem, it feels like it's not the first time you've experienced this kind of thing. Just ask, which time is the one you can't let go of the most? In fact, the two did not come together in the end, that is, fate did not arrive.

In this case, as a boy, be generous, you should enjoy the process of chasing, and don't care too much about the result. You look handsome to work for. Cheer up and try to find the best one for you.

That's because you're meeting someone who can't possibly give you love. Although you pay too much for him, he can't accept you, and emotional things are difficult to force. There is nothing called why in emotional matters.

There is no such thing as smooth sailing, and love always has twists and turns. There is hope and despair.

Trying to do your best is the best. Sometimes you don't have to worry about your family, they will always be better than you. The most important thing is to try to be yourself and work hard, instead of using your home as a burden and an excuse.

How can there be a family who doesn't love themselves, they love themselves, but they are not good at expressing themselves. Much of this is the performance of the Chinese. Love your parents and children, but you will never say it in words, you will only give it silently.

So no matter what choice you make, your parents are strong supporters. Don't hesitate, they are all silently supporting us.

People who don't like you can always find a reason not to like you.

Why do you have to force others to like you, or even change yourself for it? If you don't value yourself, how can you get others to pay attention?

Looking at your description, such a family is really not worth your effort, just be yourself, don't make compromises. Not all family members will get along well, so don't force it, just let it be.

You don't need to please, enhance your professional skills, specialize in the art industry, and have a precedence in hearing the Tao. If you are strong, someone will naturally please you in turn!

I don't know why you're doing it.

But this people-pleasing personality.

Really to avoid.

You don't need to please.

Make yourself stronger.

Shift your focus to improving yourself.

Don't get to these trivial things.

Waste your time.

Don't ask people about their gender, ask who they are false.

Why are few people breaking disposable chopsticks?

Because I know that if I break it hard, it will definitely break.

But it doesn't affect you to finish the meal.

Human nature is selfish, think more about yourself......

Leave them, or refute them.

Does he know you like him? Men are generally very good at letting us down. The main thing is that you don't think of love so well.

So romantic. Be realistic, you shouldn't be so disappointed, I don't know how he disappoints you, in fact, he won't coax you, a man who won't be very romantic is a reliable man. But if it's something else that disappoints you.

For example, if you always do something that hurts you, that's different. Consider giving up.

It is recommended to take a look at "A Tale of Two Cities", which will inspire you.

What kind of disappointment, if it is physiological, then you don't have to worry too much, it will get better slowly, if it is life, then you have to understand more attentively, to accept her, people are not perfect

Do you like her personality Or is it a person If you like her person You should like everything about her What disappointment I hate most when men say they are disappointed in women Is there anything good about you Won't you disappoint the girl Maybe that girl is still holding you back.

Do you really love him? People say that the highest thing in love is to fall in love with all the shortcomings of his "her", don't be too demanding of her, what about you? Did you satisfy him? Slowly, I'm sure you'll find out that she's probably better than you think!

If you like her, treat her well, how bad is it to be disappointed, its premise is not hope.

Your name already shows that you love her, and if that is the case, don't hesitate to worry about your own gains and losses. That's how I love her.

I know landlords just want someone to support your idea, right?

Love needs to be tolerant and understanding, you can do it to love, if you can't, you have to talk to her well, two people together to find a way, it's better than you alone boring annoyance!

Maybe he's forcing you or waiting for you to say break up, I suggest you break up, because such a boy is not worthy of your love, since you know that he doesn't love you in his heart anymore, why do you want to be with him.

Maybe he's getting himself used to letting go of you slowly. Is he a Cancer?