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As a result, there are two situations, one is that this guy loves his girlfriend very much, so even if his girlfriend's parents raise the bride price to 300,000, the guy will still propose, and the other is that this guy can't bear the bride price of 300,000 yuan, and he can only break up with his girlfriend and no longer propose.
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The guy went to propose marriage happily, but his girlfriend's parents increased the bride price by 300,000, but there was no news, because he has rarely appeared recently, rarely appeared in the spotlight, and there are no news reports, and there are no news reports around, so there is no news, I wish him a happy life.
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The result was very bad, the young man did not have so much money, and asked the woman's parents, but in the end he was refused, and the young man had to leave his girlfriend, which turned out to be a pity.
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As a result, it didn't come to fruition, and this is because they are taking advantage of this phenomenon to indiscriminately raise the bride price, which will cause this irreparable situation.
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This guy broke up with his girlfriend on the spot, and later this guy also found the object of his heart and was already married and had children.
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What woman's parents would be so stupid? Unless it is because he doesn't want his daughter to get married.
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A: I suggest that you should consult with your girlfriend's mother. Because such a high bride price is very unreasonable, and marriage is not the sale of daughters, I think such a request is unreasonable and should be withdrawn.
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You should choose not to get married, if you have a lot of money, then get married, this is actually a very normal image, and you can't say that your girlfriend's mother is not good, it's just that the power is greedy for money.
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If this bride price makes your family start to go into debt, you don't have to get married, and you pay so much bride price, how much dowry is the woman's family ready to return?
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You should discuss it with your girlfriend's family with a sincere attitude, and if they can't agree, they have to break up.
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Of course, honest people have to pay honestly.
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These honest people were later betrayed in their marriages, because they were just pick-up heroes, and they would not get true love at all.
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In the end, the man did not marry this woman, and the man finally gave up his relationship with this woman, so this woman regretted it very much and cried bitterly.
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Some honest people directly refused and chose not to get married, and some honest people swallowed their anger and were bullied and demanded all the time.
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Many couples have been in love for many years and have been in a stable relationship. However, it is a pity that some couples break up because of the wedding bride price. In fact, the bride price in some places is too high, causing the man's family to be unable to bear it, so that the man and woman break up, don't parents feel guilty?
After all, marrying a daughter instead of selling a daughter, there is really no point in the excessively high bride price. Some netizens said that when they went to their girlfriend's house two days ago to propose marriage, their mother-in-law said that they wanted a bride price of 300,000 yuan, what should they do if they don't have so much money? Personally, I think there are two ways.
First, you can borrow money from banks. Second, discuss with the woman's family.
1. Bank loans
This method is more straightforward, instead of borrowing from friends, you can borrow money directly from the bank. This is because talking about money with friends will largely ossify friendship, and in the end, the marriage will not be completed, but the good friend will be lost. Therefore, it is possible to borrow money directly from the bank.
Banks now have many financial options to choose from, with a variety of repayment options. Therefore, if the bride price is not enough, you can borrow it directly from the bank, after all, the young couple has been in love for so many years, and there should be no unpleasant things because of the bride price.
2. Discuss with the woman's parents
A more appropriate way is to have your girlfriend discuss the bride price directly with her parents. However, the premise is that the girlfriend also weighs herself, otherwise she can't let the girlfriend mention the bride price to the family. At this time, you need to take your parents to the woman's house to discuss the bride price.
First explain the situation of your family to the other party, and then express your determination to be with your girlfriend for the rest of your life. At this time, if the woman's family is not very face-loving, then there is room for negotiation in the bride price. But,If the other party still insists on asking for a bride price of 300,000 yuan, then go to the bank to borrow money.
Finally, I want to say that the bride price is an external thing, don't affect the relationship between two people because of these external things, and you must handle this matter properly.
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Sincerely discussed with my mother-in-law, because I was preparing to get married, buy a house and buy a car, the bride price was not 300,000. Can it be less?
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If it's really difficult at home, you can talk to your girlfriend about whether you can relax a little. But if you really love her, you have to treat her well and do your best to provide her with a better life.
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I think I should discuss it with my girlfriend, after all, many families can't accept this kind of bride price, and if my girlfriend takes a fancy to herself, she won't care about the bride price at all.
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If you don't, make money. With enough money, it is difficult to talk about feelings again, love without bread.
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I grew up in the suburbs, and my parents were farmers, so here in our suburbs, they also have to farm. My parents have been farming for a living all their lives, but because my parents are very simple people, and they are also very hard-working people, even if they farm, the conditions in our family are still good.
Originally, we also had some savings in the family, after all, I was a boy, so my parents always said that the family money had to be kept for my daughter-in-law, but just a few years ago, because my father was sick, the operation cost a lot of money.
Because my father had surgery, I lost my ability to work and was only able to take care of myself. The burden of the family fell on my mother, and I suddenly felt that my mother was much older.
Gradually, I also grew up, and now I am twenty-six years old, and it is time to get married, my parents are anxious about my marriage, but I am also very worried about the bride price, after all, my father is sick and does not spend less money, so the family does not have much savings.
My girlfriend and I are in free love, and I really love her, and from the very beginning of our relationship, I just wanted to marry her. But as soon as it was mentioned that the marriage was mentioned, his girlfriend directly proposed a bride price of 200,000 yuan, to be honest, our family couldn't get these bride prices.
At the same time, our house is in the suburbs, and it is a matter of time before we move, so I also told my girlfriend that I am the only child in the family, and when the house moves at home, my parents will definitely give it to us, but my girlfriend does not listen and insists on asking for a bride price. My parents also saw that I really loved my girlfriend and didn't want me to be embarrassed, so they agreed.
But just a few days ago, when I was dating my girlfriend, I happened to pass by a community, next to the garbage heap in that community, I saw a figure, standing there, I couldn't believe my eyes, it was my mother, who was rummaging through the garbage heap for mineral water bottles, and when she saw us, she felt very embarrassed, and said that she wanted to find some scrap to sell, and suddenly I didn't feel good in my heart, and my girlfriend lost her temper at this time: Can you not do this shameful thing, if you let others know that you are my mother-in-law, I don't have a face alive anymore.
I really wanted to slap my mother when I heard my girlfriend scold her, but I didn't do that, just told her that we broke up, not only because she looked down on my mother, but more importantly, I didn't want to put too much pressure on my parents because I got married.
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I think you should make it clear to your girlfriend that you should communicate well with her and solve the problem.
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Then tell your girlfriend directly that the marriage is not over, and you can't take out so much money, and suddenly you will feel very uncomfortable like this.
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then resolutely refuse, because such a thing affects the lives of the two very much, and he has not considered such a thing, he obviously doesn't love himself very much.
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I think it's ridiculous, this kind of behavior is immoral, of course, this is simply an evaluation of the price increase, if you still love her, or no problem, then continue to get married.
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I don't know what this kind of bride price represents in the woman's family, and this kind of behavior will only make others think that the woman's family is selling their daughter, and this way is very cheap.
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The bride price shows the man's attitude towards the woman and the woman's test of the man. If you can solve the problem with money, don't make everyone unhappy, take out the money, and marry your wife and talk about it.
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That's right, it does take a lot to raise someone to grow up. However, if you really love your daughter, you should ask for a bride price according to the man's family conditions.
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That's right, if you marry your daughter to someone else's family, you also hope that they can have a good life, but the premise is that there is enough material support. When you can't get all this money, it means that you can't keep up with your material life and you will suffer.
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I don't think there's anything wrong with that, because after all, the bride price is an affirmation and respect for a woman, so such a request is also very excessive.
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There is nothing wrong with this, this is because the bride price is a way to test the attitude of the other party, as long as the newlyweds are more serious about the relationship, then the bride price can also be reduced.
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There's nothing wrong with that. The bride price is to test the man's family economic situation, and it is also to stabilize the family status of the daughter who marries into the in-law's family, get the respect of the in-law's family, and can also be used as the living expenses of the young couple after marriage.
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If I were a girl, I would give him the bride price directly, and then divorce their family and cut off all relations.
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It doesn't matter whether the girl is treated well or how much bride price she wants, the husband and mother-in-law are not satisfied with you and will use the bride price as an excuse to bully you, and they don't treat you as a family at all, and divorce is recommended.
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If it were me, I would go back, and if I was treated like this, I would rather divorce, and since you chose me to form a family, you shouldn't say that.
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If you don't be treated well, communicate with him, see what the reason is, you do your part well, stay for two years at most, do your duty, and take the rest of the money and leave.
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At this time, you can communicate with your husband, and hope that both parties will get to know each other's marriage.
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A daughter-in-law who spent money to buy! Deserve!
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There is something wrong with it, if you want too much, you will not be cherished if you want less.