Enquire about puppy love among secondary school students

Adverse consequences:1Influence learning.

Investing a lot of attention, energy, and physical strength (such as shopping and playing on weekends) will affect learning. The secondary school stage is the most needed in the whole student life"Spell"During this period, not only the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, but also the cultivation of their study habits and learning outlook is also very important.

2.Waste of money.

Of course, when talking about friends, you have to consume, middle school students have no economic income, coupled with the immaturity and irrationality of the consumption concept, they often consume blindly, and increase the economic burden on their families.

3.It is not good for the growth of middle school students.

Secondary school students should make good friends rather than limit their emotional communication to others"Puppy love", which is not conducive to personality development and networking.

In addition, middle school students have relatively simple personalities and lack a mature and rational understanding of love, and they are easily hurt once problems occur. This is even more detrimental to their growth.

4.Puppy love rarely bears fruit.

Middle school students' concept of love is still immature, right"Love"The meaning is not clearly understood, and the young love in their eyes is often just relatively simple and simple"Like"or"Impulsive".And as they grow older and their experience improves, their outlook on love will continue to mature and change, and the people they liked when they were middle school students changed in college and beyond (maybe one person has changed, but most of them have changed).

5.Externally unfavorable.

On the one hand, parents and teachers will be worried and distracted. On the other hand, it will also have an impact on the surrounding classmates, and some of the surrounding remarks often hurt the person concerned.

Taking a step back, there are many places to develop in the middle school student stage, why let the early love of Ye Zhangmu not see Mount Tai?

Benefits: First: It can make people mature, you are still a child, but after having a boyfriend or girlfriend, you will invisibly have a concern and thoughts, which can also be said to be a responsibility, for example, you must not think of a person in your school who makes you particularly concerned and miss, since you have him or her, you will think about each other when you do anything, and your heart is no longer only thinking about yourself, which is very important.

Second: there can be a person who cares about you, if you are a student away from home (especially a college student who goes to school in other places) you can have a person who cares about you in life, here we are not saying that students are encouraged not to be self-reliant, but that male and female students together play a complementary role, there are always things you can't imagine, At this time, the other person can often think (of course, he or she may also be trying to win the other party's approval, it is also possible) that in any case, it is not necessarily a good thing to have a partner and friend who will take over from your parents to care for and love you in the school round far from home.

Third: Improve your self-confidence level. Maybe when you take him or her with you on the street or on the road, you tend to revel in the envious eyes of others, and what do you feel in your heart at this time?

I'm afraid I don't need to say more, and if it's you yourself when you graduate, it may not be too face-saving to find a job, but if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, the effect is different, and people with self-esteem know this.

As a child of middle school students, they are in the mature period of adolescence and begin to yearn for and pursue the opposite sex, which is also a normal physiological phenomenon. But they are still ignorant of love, more of a sense of mystery, and they also realize that this is not the right practice, so most of them hide it from their families. As a parent of a child, as long as you pay careful attention, you will be aware of it.

When students start to fall in love, it will inevitably lead to distracted mental concentration from learning, and there will be obvious signs of decline in academic performance. Therefore, when parents find that their children's student grades are unstable or even declining, they must find out the cause and take timely measures.

Affected by early love, it will also promote the child's emotional instability, or will be suddenly excited, or will be inexplicably lost and sluggish, when parents find that their child is emotionally unstable, to care more about the child's changes.

Of course, falling in love requires expenses, as a student who has no income, the main economic ** still comes from the parents' giving, if you feel that the child's expenses will increase suddenly, you need to pay more attention and pay attention to the dynamics of the child's spending.

In addition, there will be fewer and fewer words between children and parents who are in love, often holding their mobile phones in their hands, and even being particularly afraid of others touching their mobile phones, which are also abnormal states of students who are in early love.

There have also begun to be obvious changes in dressing, especially for girls.

In short, the child has not yet reached adulthood, is still in the study and life, parents have the responsibility and obligation to guide the child to a healthy direction and development, usually more responsibility and seriousness, the child will take less detours.

**The information comes from the Internet.

Secretly beat**The child often hides and hits**, and the "stranger" on the opposite side is likely to be the child's early love. Parents also need to observe carefully, the first is to see if it is a frequent hit, and the second is to see if the child is afraid of hearing when he hits.

The phenomenon of absenteeism for no reason is likely to be due to the burial of early love, especially girls. Parents can communicate with their children and try to ask about the reason for the absence. But try to give the child face, don't directly dismantle the child.

Severe learning regressionIf your child is doing well in school, but has a serious academic regression in the short term, it is likely that it is due to early love. If you talk to your child's homeroom teacher and subject teacher, you may be able to find an answer. 04

Looking at the mobile phone or computer, the ant often smiles, and the child will often smile when chatting with the "other half" in the mobile phone. If your child is always smiling happily at the phone, then he is likely to be in early love. Specifically, we need to observe more and cannot generalize.

People who are in a bad mood inexplicably are in a bad mood, and when the relationship has not stabilized, it is easy to have an inexplicable heart and a bad heart. So if your child always loses his temper for no reason, it may not be that you have affected his mood, but his "other half".

Do you often go out during the holidays, and once you have a holiday, are your children often away from home? And when you go out, you will tiptoe and sneak around. When you ask him to go, he may be nervous. At this time, your child may be in love.

Boys and girls who are more rebellious in the love period are basically in the rebellious period, and they will be more rebellious because of early love. Therefore, if your child is always working against you, it is also likely that he is in early love, and parents should stop and educate him in time to prevent him from making a big mistake.

Children who begin to love beauty and early love will pay more attention to their appearance. If you notice that your child who has not always paid attention to appearance is starting to become very beautiful, it may be a sign of early love. However, adolescent children are more beautiful, and parents must learn to distinguish them.

The methods of investigating the problem of puppy love in elementary school students are as follows: 1. Suddenly pay extra attention to your appearance.

The easiest way to judge whether a child has "early love" is to see if the child suddenly pays attention to his appearance. As the saying goes, "women are the ones who please themselves", in fact, boys and girls will behave the same way when it comes to "liking".

If you used to be rough and never pay attention to personal grooming, and your parents will wear whatever they want to prepare and bury what they use, but suddenly you start to pay attention to your appearance and the time spent on cleaning up your body starts to increase, then you should pay attention to the fact that your child may have a favorite object. Therefore, if the child pays attention to dressing up compared to before, then we may need to probe the style.

2. There is less communication with parents, and there is a phenomenon of emptiness.

If there used to be a good space for communication between parents and children, but suddenly, it seems that there is less communication between the two parties, and the child will sometimes deliberately avoid the parents, try to fight for the opportunity to be alone, and even if they are with their parents, there will be absent-mindedness, or sudden smirk, if this is the case, parents should pay attention.

Because the child of "early love" often falls into his own little emotions, everything around him has nothing to do with him, and in order to clear his "little happiness", he will deliberately avoid the surrounding crowd, including his parents, so as to give himself a certain "empty space".

Agree with the answers of the above guys (put together) plus:

Middle school students are also human beings, so if there is love, they will fall in love!

1.A normal psychological phenomenon of adolescence.

2.Students are precocious.

3.I don't understand the meaning of being in love.

After watching too many idol dramas, I hope to have that romantic feeling.