I like someone, I m trying, but that person doesn t like me, should I give up? Please, thank you

Updated on psychology 2024-03-22
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, just one or two words? Are you happy together? It's not interesting to be unhappy, even if it's something that lasts forever?

    You can think about it calmly, do you love him? How did he make you fall in love It's actually very easy Thinking about it this way, should you be together You always know that you have been together for so long It can be said that you have gotten used to some of him, but it doesn't mean that you are used to him, so I personally think that you have to let go Maybe letting go is another kind of beauty, which is good for everyone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not hard, it's just painful.

    After you put in enough effort, what you can do is called a difficult thing. No matter how hard you try, you can't do it, it's just a matter of increasing the pain, that's impossible, that's not difficult.

    You know that he doesn't like you, and you still want to chase after you, it's you who are giving yourself hope.

    You always think, if I try harder, maybe he will accept me? You always think, maybe he likes me too, but he just thinks about something else that doesn't stay with you. Wake up, kid.

    Where in this world did so much sadomasochism come from? Watch less**, watch less TV series.

    I can't ask for it, so it's precious. Because I can't catch it, I will extend that feeling. People always don't admit defeat.

    There are indeed many things in this world that are barely coming, especially feelings. Some people don't like you just don't like you, no matter what you do, no matter how many years you hold on, no matter how good you are to him, he will never look back at you. Because he knows very well that you are not the person in his life, and he does not want to spend the rest of his life with you.

    So this kind of thing can't be difficult or easy, because no matter how hard you try, you can't do it at all. You're just letting yourself fall into the abyss of misery.

    reminds me of a lyric in Xue Zhiqian's "Actually", "If you don't love you, it's useless to say anything", yes, that's it.

    Someone who doesn't like you, no matter what you do, it won't help, even if he is with you after a long time, it's just touched or indebted, or for some other reason, not because of love. What's the point of such feelings? Is it really just a matter of keeping people?

    Is the heart really not important?

    Time is indeed a good thing, but there are some things that time is also powerless. So don't be delusional that over time, he will like you. I advise you to make another plan sooner rather than later.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you like someone who doesn't like you, let it go as soon as possible. It will be difficult at first, but the long-term pain will be more painful than stopping the loss in time.

    Love is the most helpless thing, the person you like doesn't necessarily like you, and the person who likes you may not be interested in him at all. It is said that two-way love is meaningful, and this phrase is used to describe the feelings of two people. Only when two people like each other and both are genuinely giving, rather than one person is lovesick, the relationship is more precious and sincere.

    Start a new relationship. The best way to forget a relationship is to start a new one, so if you can't forget about a relationship, try to start a new relationship or look back at the person who paid you. Whether he is as humble and flattering as you, maybe your change will reap the happiness of two people.

    Make yourself better. Some people around you don't like to clean or dress up when you don't have someone around you like, and they are sad every day at work or school. When they have a break, they either play games at home or go out for a drink.

    But suddenly one day, he started to change and didn't like to play games. Go to bed early and wake up early every day, and run regularly to exercise. Don't hesitate, he must have someone he likes.

    He wants to make the person better and let the other person see his best, most positive appearance. When liking someone who doesn't like you, don't make a mess of your life, but try to make yourself better.

    Anyone can make you grow and make you better. You'll know that life is more than just a pastime of playing games and brushing up. When you can make the most of any benefit, your future will be limitless.

    When you like someone who doesn't like you, you have to stop losing in time, let go as soon as possible, don't be afraid or sad, let go, and use another thing to divert your attention. When you fully step out and make yourself strong, you'll find that these are the little things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You shouldn't stick to it, you still have to have a certain bottom line when you fall in love, and you should keep your dignity, and if the other party doesn't like you, you should also choose to let go in time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You shouldn't stick to it anymore, because then you won't have any effect at all, and it will make you very disappointed and very sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think you should stick to it, because I feel that the feelings in this situation are fruitless, so you should stop the loss in time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When we like someone, we may move forward, even if he doesn't like someone we have, we will still stick to it, but for people of different ages, there may be different choices in this matter.

    So for myself, if I like someone, but he doesn't like me, I was 18 years old before, or before, I might continue to persevere, because the relationship at that time was not considered so much. And it can be said that at that time, we had a lot of time to waste, we could choose the person we liked, and love as much as we wanted.

    But when we grow up, when we become adults, when we really start working, and then we like someone, it may be mixed with a lot of emotions, and if he doesn't like us, I may choose to stop the loss in time. Sometimes we really can't stand the toss of time, and we have a lot of time before the age of 18, when we only have to think about the problem of learning, some money-making problems, and some practical life problems, we will not be exposed to it at all, because at that time the parents have helped us solve it, but when we grow up, we need to deal with too many things by ourselves, at this time like a person, but he doesn't like us also means that there may be no result.

    For me, I used to think that if I was persistent enough, I might be able to move him, and he might be able to like me, but now I feel like it's a waste of time, because now many of us think about practical issues. You can't just rely on passion to continue to love. So when we stick to it, it's actually a waste of our time, so at this time, I may not choose to stick to it anymore.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He won't stick to it, because he doesn't like you, no matter how much you do, no matter how good you are, he can't see it, he still won't like you, and he will even take it for granted, so he won't persevere.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on whether it is worth it or not, and some people will consider the interests before and after to see if it makes sense, and they may give up halfway, mainly for fear of being hurt. is always in love, and if you say that it sounds good, it is loyal, and if it is ugly, you are too stupid to know how to love yourself. Of course, there are also people who don't care about the meaning, they care about the process, they just want to work hard, and they don't think about whether the result is good or bad.

    Personally, I always love myself more than others, so I never expect any sweet love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I like someone, he doesn't like me, I won't stick to it, after all, I like it and I want to have a response, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't. Because this kind of relationship doesn't have any meaning, if I keep going, the other party won't like me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then there is no need, I would have set my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch.

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