How to report your child s condition to parents

When giving feedback to parents about their child's situation, it is best to face to face to show that they value the child's situation, and the following points should be paid attention to when giving feedback.

Good attitude and affinity.

Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to come over and appreciate your concern for your children.

Appreciate a few of the child's strengths (usually three is good) and point out the points that the child needs to improve.

Objectively describe what happened to the child, and be specific about the time, place, and scene.

Parents and I are also invited to cooperate with each other.

Thank you again for your support of my work!

1. Be sincere. When interacting with people, attitude comes first, and a good attitude is the basis for honest communication. When communicating with teachers about their children's problems, parents must be sincere, humble, and respectful in communicating with teachers about all aspects of their child's school.

A sincere and humble attitude can dispel the teacher's concerns and completely let go of communicating with you about your child's strengths and weaknesses that need to be improved.

2. Affirmation of the teacher's work. When communicating with the teacher about the child's problems, first of all, we must express absolute recognition and affirmation of the teacher's hard work and hard work. For the questions raised by the teacher, parents should first affirm the teacher's handling methods and ideological work in the early stage, understand the teacher's difficulties, and give heartfelt thanks to the teacher.

3. Support for teachers' work. On the issue of children's education, as a parent, we must first express ourselves positively with the teacher, fully support the school's rules and management system, fully support the management measures of the class, and fully support and cooperate with the teacher's handling plan and improvement suggestions for the child's problems.

4. Take the initiative to communicate in a timely manner. Communicate with the teacher about your child's problems in a timely manner, and don't wait for the teacher to notify the parents after there is a big problem. Therefore, in daily life, it is necessary to take the initiative to get in touch with the teacher regularly to communicate the child's recent performance, whether there are any problems, and what needs to be adjusted and improved.

Active communication, timely communication can find children's problems in time, and can strangle problems in the cradle and avoid big problems.

5. The right time and the right way. When communicating with the teacher, you should also pay special attention to the time, be sure to choose the right time, avoid class time, avoid meal time, and pay attention to choosing the right way. Depending on the urgency of the problem and the severity of the problem, meet and communicate, communicate or communicate with social software.

6. Treat children's problems objectively and rationally. When a child has a problem, don't blindly argue, but calmly understand the truth first, and deal with the child's problem objectively and rationally. Don't look for all kinds of excuses for your child in front of the teacher, but objectively analyze the causes of the problems and find the reasons to find the appropriate solutions.

Don't get emotional, or the teacher will be disheartened!

7. Listen well. When the teacher communicates with the child's problems, he should be a sincere listener, listen carefully to the teacher's evaluation of the child, and quietly listen to the teacher's questions. Don't interrupt or question your child's evaluation, and after listening, humbly ask for solutions to the problems raised by the teacher.

Be clear about the purpose of the communication.

8. Teachers have to face dozens of students, prepare lessons, mark homework, etc. The teacher's time is precious, try not to waste the teacher's time, so when communicating with the teacher about the child's problems, you must first do your homework, clarify the purpose of communication, go straight to the topic, and achieve the effect of communication efficiently. Ask the teacher to provide a solution.

This is what parents can say when they ask the teacher about their child's condition:

Hello teachers! You have worked hard, and you have to shoulder the heavy responsibility of educating so many students, first of all, take care of your health! Secondly, I want to know about the child's learning situation in school, my child is not mature enough, more naughty, causing you trouble, you need to care and take care of you at school, I will often contact you to understand the child's various performances in school, let us work together to make the child grow up rapidly, to complete his ideal goal in life!

Extended Material: Communication Skills for Parents and Teachers.

1. Don't secretly ask the teacher about the child's situation without telling the child.

This method is not advisable, but there are still many parents who secretly ask teachers and ask questions without their children's knowledge. If the child makes a mistake, he will criticize the child when he comes home. Children will definitely think that their parents have found a teacher, and they will also have a rebellious mentality.

2. Don't just ask about your child's academic performance, but don't care about things in life.

Learning is important, but so is the child's development. Parents should not only remember to ask their children how their academic performance is, how many places they rank in the class, whether they are falling behind again in this exam, etc.

3. Don't belittle your child.

After some parents see the teacher, especially the child is also on the spot, they always have to say to the teacher that the child is not sensible and you are causing trouble, and you have to worry more about the poor academic performance. In fact, I don't know, the psychology of the children next to me will be affected. The best thing to do is to be realistic.

Here's how to write your child's feedback at home:

1. Children can honor their parents at home and do not quarrel with their parents. Respect the old and love the young, have good moral character, and be very caring. Strong ability to be self-reliant, basically able to take care of their own lives, hard-working and hard-working, can do housework within their ability.

Although he is in a rebellious period, he can still understand his parents' good intentions and care about them.

2. The child can actively complete the winter vacation homework assigned by the teacher during the winter vacation, which is more lively and cute than before, and he is a year older and more sensible. I hope that in the new semester, with the guidance and help of all teachers, Qian Zhangyu will be able to achieve excellent performance and progress in all aspects.

3. The child behaves very well at home, whether it is winter and summer vacations, or every day at home, can help cook, wash dishes, mop the floor, wash clothes, insist on getting up early every day, complete homework on time, and perform more consciously than quietly, polite to people, knowledgeable, law-abiding, civilized city people, responsible, self-motivated, change when you know your mistakes, and get along well with the children in the neighborhood.

4. Be civilized, polite, respect the elderly, love the young, love labor, do what you can do, help your parents do what they can, and be able to actively exercise, but they did not develop good study habits during the winter vacation, they are too greedy to play, and they love computer games. Mom and Dad hope to get up early and go to bed early to develop good habits of life and study.

Writing "performance" depends on the actual situation of the child, don't exaggerate, the advantage he doesn't have is no, just write the parents' hopes. The child will follow your merits.

It should be written around diligence, punctuality, bravery, strength, self-confidence, cleanliness, autonomy, and ability to learn. Write down what happens to your child at home every day. When school starts, it is handed over to the teacher - of course, it is not the main purpose (remember), it is just a means to educate the child.

If the child's performance meets the 8 keywords, praise it, and write it implicitly if it doesn't meet it, and pay attention to proportion.

Consciously arrange family activities to educate children. Let the content of the activity educate the child, and at the same time write about the child's performance.

1. Some small problems in the past have basically gotten "**" in the three years of junior high school, I know how to honor my parents, be empathetic, and know how to empathize, have my own unique views on things, and can express them boldly. At home, I can communicate with my parents and understand their good intentions. Tianqiao is smart but lacks some autonomy and hard work in learning, and it would be better if he could improve in this aspect!

2. She has been quiet and well-behaved since she was a child, and her grades have always been among the best. Do your part and rarely let us worry about it. He has a wide range of hobbies, such as calligraphy and painting, playing the piano, etc.

Ideologically mature, he has made great progress in self-care and self-reliance, and he knows how to understand his parents better. Know how to put yourself in the shoes of others. He is kind-hearted and compassionate, but he is not strong enough, he is weak, and he cannot be brave enough to overcome setbacks.

Now the high school entrance examination. In the near future, I hope that the children can move forward bravely with firm beliefs and draw an end to their junior high school career without regrets.

3. My daughter has been an excellent student since elementary school, and has served as a cadre for many years, and her academic performance is among the best. She was more obedient, which saved me a lot of heart. In general, the daughter is more independent and autonomous.

My daughter loves to read, and she is assertive, not blindly obedient, and I don't pursue her grades because she knows how to make trade-offs. My daughter's biggest flaw is that she can't persevere, she is working hard, and with her own confidence I believe she will be able to do it.

4. Xian Li can honor his parents, do not quarrel with his parents, respect the old and love the young, have good moral character, be very caring, have strong self-reliance, basically be able to take care of his own life, bear hardships and stand hard work, can do housework within his ability, although he is in a rebellious period, he can still understand the good intentions of his parents and care for his parents.

5. As the child grows up over time, his temper has also changed, and he can help his parents complete the housework within his ability, and his academic performance has also improved, and the only language has decreased slightly. Self-reliant enough in life, active in learning, I hope the teacher you are strict with him, more guidance to him, thank you here, the teachers have worked hard!

First of all, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to all the teachers for their hard work and selfless dedication, and also thank the school for providing children with space to fully display their talents. I can communicate with you here and educate your children. I feel very honored!

To be honest, I really don't have any good methods when it comes to children's home education, since the teacher asked me to communicate with you about children's education, then I will briefly talk about it!

Next, I will talk about my experience of not being mature in the process of educating children.

1.At the same time, I often encourage children to read more books and use their brains to ask more questions, and work with children to overcome various difficulties from life and learning.

2.Spend more time with your children and communicate more. More praise, more encouragement, less criticism, less blame.

Everyone has inertia, children are greedy to play is the nature, we adults are the same, tired after a day of work also want to rest and rest, so for the child's playfulness can not be blindly blamed, but to encourage him to quickly finish the learning at hand before playing. When you come down, you should check your child's learning from time to time, so that your child knows that we are paying attention to him at all times.

3.Cultivate children's self-consciousness and develop good study habits. Let your child know what is right and what is wrong.

When to do homework and when to have fun. When children make mistakes, we need to help them analyze and help them get out of the predicament. Because this is when the child needs help the most.

4.Regarding the problem of children watching TV and computers, my approach is to encourage children to watch more informative TV programs, from which they can learn knowledge and benefit from entertainment. Children who wish to watch children's programs and other programs should be limited and moderate.

Nor can it be sealed altogether. The general principle is to read more intellectually and less to others, to watch more on Sundays, to watch less at other times, and to try not to watch at all. In order to prevent children from surfing the Internet and playing games, parents should strictly guard against it, of course, accompanied by parents, you can still check some materials and play some puzzle games.

5.In order for children to develop good living habits, they must first have the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, and only after resting can they have a good spirit to study well the next day. When you come down, you have to wash your hands before and after eating, don't spit, don't litter confetti peels, and be a little citizen who cares for the environment since childhood.

That's all I know, if there is anything wrong, please advise. I wish all teachers and parents the coming year.

Good health and smooth work.

Thank you!

Summary. The child is in a very good situation at home. Every morning after he gets up, he will do some housework first, then make breakfast, after breakfast, he will do some homework, then he will participate in some ** classes, learn some new knowledge, and in the evening he will play games, chat, and tell stories with his family, so that the family atmosphere is more warm.

He will also exercise regularly and do some beneficial exercises to maintain his good health. In general, the child's situation at home is very good, he is able to make the most of the family time, learn new knowledge, strengthen physical fitness, and make the family atmosphere more warm.

The child is in a very good situation at home. Every morning after he gets up, he will do some housework first, and then make breakfast, after breakfast, he will do some homework, and then he will participate in some ** courses, learn some new knowledge, and in the evening he will play games, chat, and tell stories with his family, so that the family atmosphere in Qingge Town is more warm. He will also exercise regularly and do some beneficial exercises to maintain his good health.

Overall, the child's situation at home is very good, he is able to make full use of family time, learn new knowledge, enhance the quality of the body, and make the family atmosphere more warm.

Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

The child's situation at home: The child's situation at home generally refers to the child's learning, life, social and other aspects at home. In the case of children at home, sometimes there are some problems, such as the child's reluctance to learn, lack of self-discipline, lack of social skills, etc.

Causes: These problems may arise due to the child's environment at home is not conducive to learning, such as not having enough books and materials at home, or there are too many entertainment facilities at home, so that the child is not motivated enough to learn. Workaround:

1.Parents can create an environment conducive to learning for their children, such as providing enough books and materials, reducing recreational facilities at home, so that children are motivated to learn. 2.

Parents can set a certain study plan for their children, such as how many hours of study each day and how many tasks they complete each week, so as to motivate their children to learn. 3.Parents can provide their children with training in social skills, such as communication skills and problem-solving skills, to help them communicate better with others.

Personal Tips:1Parents should create an environment conducive to learning for their children, so that children are motivated enough to learn.

2.Parents should set a certain learning plan for their children to motivate them to learn. 3.

Parents should provide their children with some social skills training to help them communicate better with others. 4.Parents should communicate more with their children, pay more attention to their children, give them more encouragement, and let them feel safe, so as to improve their children's interest in learning.